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Special Note One: Chazal
teach that “Besora Tova Nosenes Koach--good news gives strength.” Let
us each try to spread good news to each other--so that we all get
energized!
Special Note Two: We
continue with our Erev Shabbos--Hilchos Shabbos Series:
1. May
one place cole slaw or cold vegetables on a plate side by side with
chulent on Shabbos morning? After all, won’t the chulent, as a “dovor
gush which is yad soledes bo”--a solid item which is 110 degrees or
more--cook the cole slaw or vegetables along side it or under it? The
Sefer The 39 Melachos by Rabbi Dovid Ribiat, Shlita, writes that
this a machlokes of contemporary poskim. HaRav Elyashiv, Shlita and
HaRav Vosner, Shlita, rule that one should be careful not to put an
uncooked item next to the chulent. On the other hand, HaRav Shlomo
Zalmen Auerbach, Z’tl, rules that it is permissible, for two basic
reasons: 1) A person, who is intending to cook the cole slaw, is only
putting the chulent there because that is where there is room on the
plate, and in fact would prefer that it not happen, as it probably ruins
the cole slaw’s taste; and 2) The concept of a solid food which is yad
soledes bo cooking in a kli sheni (or a kli shlishi) is a machlokes
haPoskim. Thus, one may want to ask a Posek as to whether he needs to
clean off his plate before putting chulent upon it, or before putting
cold vegetables or the like next to the chulent.
2. Note
on Shabbos Davening: In the Shabbos Mussaf, the proper reading is
“Korban Mussaf Shabbos Ka’raui” (meaning the Shabbos Mussaf offering in
accordance with Hashem’s instructions). There is no stop or pause
between the words “Mussaf” and “Shabbos Ka’raui.”
3. Many
sweep the floor on Shabbos (with a soft bristle broom) and seem to sweep
up items which would otherwise be muktza, such as dirt, bones, ripped up
pieces of paper and the like. What is the basis for sweeping muktza on
Shabbos? The Chazon Ish (Moed 47:21) brings two possible answers: 1)
The muktza items are botul to the ground being swept; and 2) The muktza
items are considered to be as “graph shel re’ei” (an unclean bathroom
utensil) and do not fall into the category of muktza because it is
socially unacceptable to leave them in a person’s presence. Based on
these explanations, it would appear that one should be careful about
sweeping large objects which do not fall into the category of “graph
shel re’ei,” such as pens and pencils, unless there is a different heter
for their removal. Of course, one should consult with his Rav or Posek
if he has questions regarding this subject.
Special Note Three: The following insight was provided by Torah Tavlin:
“The Kotzker Rebbe, Zt’l, makes a fascinating point. He says that the
weekly Parsha gives us an insight into what we are meant to accomplish
that week. Thus, the week in which we bench Rosh Chodesh Elul is meant
for us to “Re’eh—Look.” Each Jew must stop and look inside himself or
herself and see what needs improvement, this is how we know where to
start.”
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Special Note Four: Today (28 Av) is the Yahrzeit of HaRav Avrohom Pam,
Z’tl. HaRav Pam once explained how Hashem can be both a Tzaddik and a
Chassid at the same time (as we recite in Ashrei daily “Tzadik Hashem
Bechol…V’Chosid Bechol”), even though “Tzaddik” implies acting in
accordance with the letter of the law and “Chassid” implies going beyond
the letter of the law. The solution to this apparent paradox, Harav Pam
explained, is found in the proper understanding of a Pasuk in this
week’s Parsha. After teaching the laws of an Ir HaNidachas (a Wayward
City), which includes meting out the death penalty to its inhabitants,
the Torah says that “V’Nosan L’Cha Rachamim V’Richamcha…--and Hashem
will give you mercy and will be merciful to you” (Devorim 13:18). Why
is there an apparent redundancy in the Torah’s language relating to
mercy--“giving you mercy” and “being merciful to you”?
The
answer is that when the Torah states “Hashem will give you mercy,” it
means that Hashem will give you the opportunity to be merciful to
others, and if you then act mercifully, Hashem will then be merciful to
you. This means, then, that Hashem is acting both as a chassid and as a
tzaddik, because he is acting as a Chassid by giving us the opportunity
to do Chesed, and if we do so, he will reward us as a Tzaddik--middah
k’negged middah--according of the letter of the law!
As we
approach Elul, which are known as the Yimei HaRachamim, we must be extra
vigilant for these opportunities. Chazal (Pesachim 87A) teach that the
Navi Hoshea was punished when Hashem approached him and told him that
Bnei Yisroel were sinning, to which he responded--so punish them! Thus,
he was punished for saying “Punish them.” What should he have
said? Chazal teach that he should have said “Nevertheless Hashem, they
are Your children, the children of Your beloved ones, Avraham Yitzchak
and Yaakov, heap mercy upon them!” Based upon this teaching of Chazal,
if one does not have immediate opportunities for mercy directly in front
of him, at the very least he can daven to Hashem to heap mercy upon His
people. Let us make this a priority in the coming weeks!
May
HaRav Pam’s zechus stand in our stead, as we properly apply his
essential teaching in our daily lives.
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Special Note One: As we leave the month of Av, may we suggest that you
make a list of twenty things that would change for the better if
Moshiach came and the Bais Hamikdosh was rebuilt? When we fervently
daven for the binyan Bais Hamikdosh are we davening for just one
thing--for the return of one holy and glorious building? After studying
our list, we will recognize that the kavana we have when we daven for
binyan Beis Hamikdosh should be enormous…and hopefully it will be!
Special Note Two: In his
moving shiur “It’s All About Change,” Rabbi Yissochar Frand, Shlita,
brings to light that the monumental stages in a person’s life are not
brought about by his choice and free will. The day a person is born,
which country, city and neighborhood he will grow up in, which Yeshiva
or school he will attend, where and how he/she will be Bar/ Bas Mitzvah,
whether or not he will get married, and if so, how many children he will
have, his physical well-being (ailments, disorders, etc)., whether he
will earn a livelihood, how and when he will retire, and when after 120
he will pass on to an eternal world, all are beyond a person’s
determination.
Having said all that, what
is left for a person to do? What does Hashem expect of us? The answer,
of course, is succinctly stated in last week’s Parsha, Parshas Eikev:
“V’Ata Yisroel Ma Hashem Elokecha Shoel Mai’imach Ki Im L’Yirah--And now
Yisroel, what does Hashem ask of you…*only* to fear Him...” (Devorim
10:12) [The Torah Temimah on this Pasuk teaches that although there are
other items listed after this, they all emanate from the first item--Yiras
Shamayim.] Chazal (Brachos 33B), accordingly, explicitly teach
“Everything is in the hands of Heaven-- except for the Fear of Heaven
[which is what we have left to accomplish!].”
At first blush, although
“Fear of Hashem” is only one task, it is a huge undertaking. Chazal (ibid.),
in fact, ask, what does the Torah mean by saying the “only” thing we are
asked to do is fear Hashem--“is this then a small matter”? Chazal
answer that yes, it is a small matter--to Moshe Rabbeinu. But does the
answer really address the question? We are, after all, not Moshe
Rabbeinu. If fear of Hashem was not a formidable undertaking for
him--it still seems to be a great undertaking for us!
So what do Chazal mean
when they say that fear of Hashem is easy because it was easily
undertaken by Moshe Rabbeinu? In fact, it is said that the Dubiner
Maggid asked this question of the Vilna Gaon.
Various practical answers
are given to this question, and they are essential to our every day
life--because as the Torah once again teaches, this is what Hashem wants
from us.
1. One
answer said to have been given by the Vilna Gaon is based upon the
following mashal. Picture a large empty vessel with smaller bowls
surrounding it. When one pours oil into a large empty vessel, and it
begins to overflow, it will flow into the smaller empty vessels around
it. So too, if one stays around people with Yiras Shamayim (of which
Moshe Rabbeinu is the symbol), then the Yiras Shamayim will flow over
and affect those close to the one with Yiras Shamayim. Thus, it becomes
imperative upon each and every person to do his utmost to get close to
the right people. It would seem that if a person feels that he does not
have this immediate opportunity, he should at least study daily Mussar
seforim which impress upon a person the parameters of, and provide the
guidelines for, proper Yiras Shamayim.
2.
Moshe Rabbeinu did not fear Paroah, the Egyptians, the rebels at the
time of the Eigel HaZahav or at the time of the Meraglim, nor Sichon.
The only reason he had a thought of fearing Og was because of the
extraordinary zechus that Og had (see Rashi to Devorim 3:2). Moshe
Rabbeinu’s fear teaches us the type of fear we are to have of Hashem--unique
and singular. Why should we be fearful of a shark, a lion or even a
human being, who are the agents of Hashem’s will? We should only be
fearful of Hashem.
3.
Finally, Moshe Rabbeinu was able to build his Yiras Shamayim through
willpower--the conquest of his own personal desires in favor of loftier
goals. We, too, can do the same, building ourselves up slowly, just as
Moshe Rabbeinu did--preparing for his life’s task in all
circumstances--from the King’s Palace to the barren desert.
As we all know, the Rambam
in Hilchos Teshuva (5:2) writes that every person can be like Moshe
Rabbeinu while engaging in the Teshuva process. Many take this to mean
that just as Moshe Rabbeinu reached his own level, his own potential,
every person must reach his own level, his own potential. We can, of
course, apply the same to Yiras Shamayim, and say just as Moshe Rabbeinu
went as far as he could in Yiras Shamayim, so should each and every one
of us reach his potential.
How can a person aspire to
his potential? We provide a practical suggestion. He can visualize
himself as if he were Moshe Rabbeinu, or the Rambam, or Rebbe Akiva
Eiger, or the Chofetz Chaim either while davening, while speaking to a
family member, while on the street, or whenever he knows he is being
tested in this world. Thinking of yourself as an outstanding human
being could bring you to the level that you really can reach--the Moshe
Rabbeinu within you!
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Special Note One: Last
week, there was yet another earthquake in China. How are we supposed to
take this? Just because it was in the Far East, and casualties were
“low,” is it still not a sign from our Creator? We cannot, we must not,
“get accustomed to” hearing of an earthquake! Chazal teach that even
thunder is intended to wake us up from our slumber. When the earth
itself shudders (thankfully not here), we must be sure to take it as a
reminder to do teshuvah. In this regard, we provide the following
meaningful note from a reader:
“I believe that once a Jew
realizes that Elul is coming, he/she should start doing teshuvah
immediately--for two reasons. First, if one is aware that the time for
teshuvah will come shortly, the yetzer hora may tell one, ‘Soon it will
be Elul, so why don’t you do your sins now as long as you don’t have to
repent for a while, and then when Elul comes, you’ll be good and do
teshuvah?’ Obviously, teshuvah done in this way is not accepted.
“Secondly, just as a bike
rider speeds up before getting to a hill so as to have momentum for an
easier climb, we all should “build up momentum” before taking on the
task of teshuvah--by beginning now and building up a head of steam.
“I believe that every Jew
has the potential to be a tzaddik--you just have to want it badly
enough.”
Hakhel Note: We had
previously suggested that everyone (even you) always have pen and
paper handy for use at those times when you remember something for which
you need to do teshuvah, or some thoughts of improvement or change come
to mind.
Special Note Two: The
Alter of Kelm, Z’tl, makes a fascinating observation on last week’s
Parsha, Parshas Eikev. He notes that the Torah warns us that when we
achieve success our immediate response (“V’Amarta B’lvovecha”) will be
“Kochi v’otzem yodi-- it is by my strength and my might of my hand.”
The Torah (Devarim 8:17) immediately continues and teaches us that when
this happens “V’Zacharta es Hashem Elokecha Ki Hu Hanosen L’Cha Koach
La’asos Choyil--You should remember Hashem, for it is He who gives you
the strength to be prosperous.”
The lesson from the Torah
here is clear. When we have those moments of glory, self-pride and,
perhaps, gloating we must remember that everything--our talents, our
thinking, our dexterity--each and every detail of our physical and
mental capacities and capabilities--all come from and go back to Hashem.
A thinking person once put it wisely when he said, “Imagine if just for
one second--one second--Hashem took away from this world the power of
nails to function in walls and all other structures. Remember, just for
one second--what would the world look like?! Would there be a world
left?!?... And this is just for one second!”
Especially now, as we are
approaching Elul, we must bring Hashem to mind as a first reaction more
and more. We should find the words “Baruch Hashem”, “Im Yirtze Hashem”,
“Please Hashem”, “BeEzras Hashem”, etc. more and more often on our minds
and our lips. Not only at home and in Shul--but wherever we are and
whatever we may be doing. It is not just the CEO of a company, the top
physician in the world, or even the greatest scholar…it is Hashem
Himself who gives us the breath of life and the Olam Hazeh and Olam
Haboh that go along with it… What a privilege! What an opportunity!
Baruch Hashem!!
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Special Note One: We
cannot leave last week’s Parsha, which contains the fundamental Mitzvah
of Birchas HaMazon, without several points relating to this special
Commandment:
1. The
Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 430) writes that one who is “zahir”--careful--with
Birchas HaMazon will have sustenance “Kol Yamav B’kavod--all his days
with respect.” What does the Sefer HaChinuch mean by the term “zahir”--careful?
It would appear from the Mishna Berura that a start would be to recite
Birchas Hamazon from a siddur or bentcher, and not by heart (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chaim, 185: Mishne Berura Seif Katan 1). The Eliyahu Zuta
(the same author as the Eliyahu Raba, HaRav Eliyahu Shapiro, Z’tl) adds
that one should recite the words with Kavannah. The Seder HaYom writes
that one should recite Birchas HaMazon slowly, word-for-word, and
audibly, so that others can hear and answer amen [reciting the words
aloud may also increase Kavannah]. He adds that by looking into a sefer
to bentch, one will not gaze around at other things and will thus
fulfill one mitzvah from the Torah, “kadin u’khashura--according to the
law and appropriately.” This, in turn, he assures us will bring brocha
to himself and to his family(!).
2. The
Kaf HaChaim (Orach Chaim 183:1 and 191:6) brings that the Arizal held
that a person’s kavanna and care in reciting Birchas Hanehenin is the
most important determinant of one’s hasaga of Ruach Hakodesh--understanding
of the Divine Spirit.
3. The
Piskei Teshuvos brings the Zohar HaKadosh (in Parshas VaYakhel) which
teaches that a person should bentch with kavanna and simchas halev--joy
in his heart. The Zohar writes “and in proportion to the joy and ayin
tov--positive outlook--with which a person bentches, so too will he be
given joy and ayin tov.”
4. The
Piskei Teshuvos (Volume 2, p.585) also writes that according to many
Poskim, Birchas HaMazon has the same Halachos as Shemone Esrei relating
to permitted interruptions. Accordingly, one should be careful during
bentching not to make gestures with his hands or with his eyes, and
certainly not take care of other matters, except that one can gesture in
order to eliminate the particular matter disturbing his Kavannah.
5. One
who has guests should endeavor to receive the Birchas HaOreach, for it
is a brocha given with a full heart, and is, accordingly, especially
effective. (See Derech Sicha, Page 134)
6. If
we would simply focus on the powerful words of bentching, and would take
the extra minute or two necessary to recite bentching in the manner
described above, we would gain a greater appreciation of its hallowed
words. For instance, just look at the paragraph of “Bamorom Yilamdu
Aleyhem V’Oleinu Zechus--in Heaven may a merit be pleaded for them and
for us for a safeguard of peace….” If one properly appreciates it, one
will not try to “avoid bentching” like little children do, but rather
value it for the great Mitzvah D’oraisa--the incredible privilege and
opportunity--that it truly is!
Special Note Two: At a
recent Hakhel Shiur, Rabbi Zechariah Wallerstein, Shlita, provided the
following fascinating lesson:
A young man was depressed
by the various challenges that faced him in his life, and turned to his
Rebbe for guidance. His Rebbe asked him to join him in his kitchen.
There, he put up three
pots of boiling water. In the first pot, he placed a potato. In the
second pot he placed a soft-boiled egg. In the third pot, he placed
some ground coffee beans. He then suggested that both he and the
student study for half an hour and then come back.
Upon their return, the
Rebbe took the potato out, and showed the student how it was soft inside
and out. He explained as follows: this potato was hard and impregnable
just a half hour ago. It is like a person who is tough and
unyielding--stubborn and single-minded. All that is when the going is
easy. However, when he gets into hot water, he softens and softens
until his whole character has changed, and he is left as almost mush.
On the other hand, the
soft egg represents a person who is kind and soft. Speaking nicely,
giving charity, always available for his friends. However, when the
going gets tough, he gets harder and harder, just as the composition of
the soft-boiled egg turns into the resilient hard-boiled egg the longer
it is in the hot water situation. No longer does he open the door to
strangers, the friendly demeanor is missing and the warm smile is gone.
Finally--look what happens
with the coffee. The coffee grinds do not become hard, do not become
soft, do not get blemished, ruined or spoiled. Quite to the contrary,
instead of the hot water affecting the coffee, it is the coffee that
changes the hot water--turning it into an aromatic and delectable liquid
and drink!
The Rebbe turned to his
student and instructed him: Your job in life is not to behave like a
potato or to act like an egg when a difficult situation confronts you.
You are not supposed to let a situation overtake you. You are to act
like coffee and overtake the hot water--control the situation, and
succeed. If you act like an egg or a potato in hot water, you will
naturally get depressed as you feel overburdened and incapable. If you
act like the freshly brewed coffee, you will help not only yourself, but
even those around you!
Rabbi Wallerstein’s entire
remarkable Shiur (which was presented on Tisha B’Av, but is quite
important all-year round) is
available here.
(Please note that the file is nearly 7 Meg and may take a while to
download.) The lesson for us now, this moment, as we bridge the gap
between Menachem Av and Elul is clear. We must learn to take control of
our lives--putting wisdom and life’s purpose and meaning over desire,
fleeting thoughts, trivia and the ephemeral.
Now is the time to begin
to take our coffee grinds and brew them. We can change the world--if we
take control of the situations that confront us--and of ourselves!
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Special Note One: We can
always take lessons from our World around us--for this is one of the
primary reasons that it is here! For instance, we know that children
are associated with playing games. Perhaps the lesson is that we should
not “play games” when we get older. Similarly, “throwing out the trash”
should not be limited to the refuse or waste that may accumulate in your
trash can (additionally, have you ever wondered why we don’t throw out
the trash can together with the trash?). This week, as we end the month
of Menachem Av, and as we take a look back, we should attempt to
understand the events and occurrences that have happened around us over
the past year, and use them as a springboard for Teshuva and growth. A
pen and paper in a convenient place when something comes to mind may
come in handy.
Special Note Two: The
Torah in last week’s Parsha states “V’Haya Eikev Tishma’un-- This shall
be the reward when you listen to these laws,” and you observe and
perform them….
The Ramban provides an
extremely important explanation here. He writes that the laws the Torah
is referring to include the laws which many might otherwise not properly
regard or even disgrace--including the Torah’s laws relating to money.
The Torah is especially adjuring us here to follow Hashem’s will with
monetary matters. It is no coincidence (as it never is), that the Torah
reminds us of this now--immediately before Elul--as if to remind us that
we must make sure that our integrity and honesty in all business and
shopping affairs is whole; that all of our dealings with hired workers
is above board and beyond reproach; in short, that we are not ashamed to
have money in our pockets when we begin to daven!
Special Note Three: Rabbi
Paysach Krohn, Shlita, shared a remarkable story in the video presented
by the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation on the topic Patience and
Sensitivity. Rabbi Krohn’s father passed away when Rabbi Krohn was 21.
As the oldest of seven, it was Rabbi Krohn’s responsibility to fend for
the family monetarily. However, jobs were not easy to come by for a
21-year old mohel.
One day, he was pleasantly
surprised when a neighbor of his in Kew Gardens, New York offered his
family a $1,500 loan (note that this story goes back about 40 years, so
$1,500 was actually a nice sum of money). He told the neighbor that he
would ask his mother about it. His mother agreed to the loan, and he
received the money immediately.
Quite some time later,
Rabbi Krohn amassed some money to repay the loan, and came to this
neighbor with the cash to repay the loan. The neighbor refused to take
the money. “How could you refuse”, Rabbi Krohn said, “this was a
loan--you said it was a loan!”
The kind neighbor
responded, “Yes, it was a loan, and now I would like you to hold the
money until you have the opportunity to lend it to someone else. Don’t
pay it back to me--lend the money to someone else.” The neighbor then
continued, “You see some time ago I had hit upon hard times. Not many
people knew about it, but somebody who did, an acquaintance of mine,
offered to lend me $1,500, which I readily took. When I had the money
to pay the loan back, he told me to find someone else to lend it to--and
that was you! You, in turn, will lend it to someone else, who will lend
it to someone else, who will lend it to someone else…
What a great story! In
this week’s Parsha, Parshas Re’eh, we find the Mitzvah of giving Tzedaka
(Devorim 15:8). The Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh Deah 249:6) rules that the
highest form of Tzedaka is lending someone money (or giving him a gift,
or doing business with him), so that he need not come to beg from
others. Rabbi Krohn’s beautiful story above provides those of us with a
few hundred dollars, or perhaps a few thousand dollars, to utilize for a
special mitzvah, to start a “money lending chain” of our own. Until
after 120, you will never know or fathom the impact it will have on the
lives of others (and their families)--who may even thousands of miles
away!
We
additionally recommend our Tzedaka Fact
Sheet, available here.
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Special Note One: A
noted Maggid Shiur relates how he came to first put on a Yarmulka in
his twenties: “I went to a class given by a rabbi. He said, ‘All
you out there are mistaken--you think G-d lives in your world. It’s
not so--you live in G-d’s World!’” With these words, his
entire perspective on life changed! Maybe each and every one of
us--those who have ben Torah Jews for awhile--can take this to heart
as we walk around on a beautiful (or even a rainy and stormy) Summer
day and appreciate all that Hashem has given us in this world. “Ma
Rabu Ma’asecha Hashem--How great are Your works, Hashem!
Special Note Two: We continue
with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series.
1. If soup
was removed from a K’li Rishon(such as a soup pot on or off the fire) with a
ladle and was then poured into a soup bowl, one may consider the soup bowl
as a K’li Shlishi and add baked foods (such as matza, soup nuts or chow mein
noodles) to the soup. (Halachos of Shabbos by Rabbi Shimon Eider,
Z’tl, p. 290)
2. Cutting
or chopping into large-sized pieces is not considered to fall within the
melacha of Tochen (grinding). How fine an item must be ground in order for
it to be considered Tochen is questionable. Therefore, when cutting
vegetables into fine pieces, one should not cut them into pieces which are
very small; i.e., he should cut them into larger pieces than they are cut in
normal circumstances. Although some Poskim hold that if one is chopping
vegetables into small pieces for immediate use it is permissible, others
disagree. One should conduct himself preferably according to this view, and
not cut fruits and vegetables into very fine pieces, even right before the
meal. Similarly, some Poskim hold that not only is chopping or cutting into
very small pieces prohibited because of Tochen, but even slicing fruits and
vegetables into very small slices in length and width is also prohibited.
The size of a slice is relative to the fruit and vegetable that one is
slicing. (Ibid., pages 206 and 213)
3. When
preparing chopped liver, chopped eggs, or chopped fish (e.g., tuna salad or
salmon salad), if onions or other vegetables are added, the vegetables must
be chopped right before the meal, and should not be chopped into very fine
pieces. The use of a chopping knife is questionable, and one should use a
regular knife or fork (Ibid, 217).
Special Note Three: In the
second Parsha of Shema (found in this week’s Parsha), we recite “V’Samtem es
divorai aileh al livavchem--and you shall place these words of Mine upon
your heart….” HaRav Yosef Leib Nandik, Z’tl, H’YD (as brought in the Sefer
MiShulchan Govoah) derives a great lesson from the Torah’s
requirement to put Hashem’s words **upon** our hearts. A person’s goal
should be for his knowledge to rule over the desires of his heart and those
not-thought-through whims and fancies. Thus, the Shema serves as a daily
reminder to us, morning and evening, to make sure that we are conducting our
lives in a “mind-over-heart” manner, making sure that Torah intellect rules
over emotion.
Special Note Four: Thank you
for your correspondence. We received the following beautiful thoughts from
our readers:
1. “In
response to the reader who wrote about blowing your car’s horn: An even
greater level is not to blow one’s horn at all and patiently wait! True,
easier said than done--but working on middos isn’t easy!”
2. A
thought related to this week’s Perek--the Fourth Perek of Pirkei Avos:
“Aizehu Oshir? HaSameach Bechelko--Who is wealthy? He who is satisfied with
his portion.”
One day a
father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country
with the purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They stayed with a
very poor family.
When they returned, the
father asked the son what he thought of their
trip.
“It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people
live?” the father asked.
“Oh yeah,” said the son.
“So, tell me, what did you
learn from the trip?” asked the father.
The son answered, “I saw that
we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the
middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have
imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio
reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small
piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We
have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but
they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they
have friends to protect them.”
The boy’s
father was speechless. Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing
me how poor we are.”
Isn’t perspective a wonderful
thing? Appreciate every single thing you have.
3. “You
recently wrote about the importance of “saiver ponim yofos--greeting others
in a pleasing manner.” Much can be said about the impact of a smile as
opposed to a frown. The use of one or the other can and has literally meant
the difference between life and death. A pleasant sincere smile disarms
adversaries, can stop someone from committing suicide, fosters sholom bayis--marital
harmony--as well as sholom bain odom lechavero--harmony between
people--engenders a sense of self-value and boosts self-image. Many of the
ills of the world would be greatly mitigated, if not totally cured, by some
well-placed smiles. Smiles don’t cost anything but they are extremely
rewarding. As you quoted the Mesilas Yeshorim in a recent bulletin, Hashem
only loves those who love his children. What better way to stimulate the
latent ahavas Yisroel than to smile at others? Of course at first one
doesn’t feel like smiling but with practice it becomes habit forming. Rav
Yisroel [Salanter], Z’tl, teaches us that our face is a reshus horabim--public
property--and wearing a frown on it is tantamount to digging a bor bireshus
horabim--an open pit in public! Falling into a pit can cause bruises, break
ones bones and even cause a loss of life. That being the case, wearing a
pleasant smile on one’s face has the opposite effect. It heals bruises,
broken bones and even saves lives! We have no idea what impact our facial
expressions have on people. After 120 it will be revealed to us how many
lives were positively impacted by our smiles and how many were harmed by our
frowns.
One last point. We daven three times a day to be zoche to Hashem’s smile,
His ha’oras ponim, when we say “borchainu Ovinu koolonu ke’echod be’or
ponecho--Bless us, our Father, all together as one, in the light of Your
countenance.” The brocha proceeds to list the incredible bounty of
blessings that we merited, all because of Hashem’s ha’oras ponim. These
brochos include Torah and life itself. We know Hashem relates to us middo
keneged middo. If we strive to have ha’oras ponim on our faces Hashem will
certainly reciprocate and open the portals of blessings that we all yearn so
much to have.”
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Getting Real: If this
year was not a leap year, you would have ten days to Rosh Hashanah!
We received the following from
a valued reader relating to our note on not causing pain or anguish to
others with our words or actions: “People should also be aware of the fact
that HOW THEY BLOW THEIR HORN, WHILE BEHIND THE WHEEL, should always be
considered. When the light turns green and the driver in front of you fails
to notice this, a gentle tap on the horn is the polite way to communicate.
By leaning on the horn for a few seconds, you’re causing some anguish, maybe
some pain, and maybe some anger on the part of the driver in front of you.
This way of blowing the horn is not too different from yelling or saying
something nasty to the other motorist. We should all remember that being
frum applies 24/7, even when we’re behind the steering wheel!”
Special Note One: In this
week’s Parsha, Eretz Yisroel is referred to as an “Eretz Zovas Cholov
U’Dvash--a land flowing with milk and honey.” Whenever we think of Eretz
Yisroel, whenever we walk in Eretz Yisroel, we should visualize this
luscious flow in our minds. We may not be able to see it, but the Torah is
making the statement so that we can properly appreciate it!
Special Note Two: In this
week’s Parsha, we find the mitzvah of Bircas Hamazon. Rabbi Moshe
Goldberger, Shlita, asks if Bircas Hamazon is only one mitzvah, why is it
that there are three brochos required by the Torah (the fourth brocha,
according to most, is Rabbinic in origin), one brocha thanking Hashem for
feeding everyone, a second brocha thanking Hashem for many other important
benefits that Hashem has bestowed upon us (as we have previously noted,
HaRav Pam, Z’tl, used to count them on his fingers while reciting them), and
a third brocha asking for the return of Yerushalayim and the Bais HaMikdash?
Rabbi Goldberger answers that
if we would have stopped after one brocha, we may have thought that the food
is actually an end in and of itself. By the two additional brochos which
the Torah requires, we are to remind ourselves that we are nourished in
order to properly serve Hashem in all areas, and to reach our greatest
potential. With that, we ask for the rebuilding of Yerushalayim and the
rebuilding of the Bais HaMikdash, so that we can rise to the highest
spiritual heights.
Special Note Three: In this
week’s Parsha, we find the second of the three Parshios of Shema, in which
one accepts upon himself the performance of all mitzvos, and in which one
recognizes the sechar v’onesh--the reward and punishment--associated with
their performance or (chas v’shalom) non-performance.
As we recite in Shema twice
daily “Heshameru Lachem, Pen Yifte Livavchem V’Sartem--beware for yourselves
lest your heart be seduced and you turn astray and serve gods of others.”
Rashi, in explaining the word “V’Sartem--and you turn astray”--writes that
this means that you turn away from the study of Torah; and once you turn
from Torah you are close to worshipping Avoda Zora. Upon only a moment’s
reflection, the Torah seems to be taking a very big leap once one does not
study Torah, he is a step away from idol worship. However, as we all know,
the Yetzer Hora doesn’t seem to work this way. He works on you slowly and
deliberately, nibbling away daily and weekly to make sure that his negative
influence grows steadily, so that the changes worked upon you actually
stick. So how here does the Torah describe the jump from lack of Torah
study to idol worship (and its contemporary equivalents) so swiftly and
conclusively?
The Chofetz Chaim provides a
remarkable insight to explain. Imagine two countries at war. One day, one
country wins a battle, the next day the other country wins a battle, and the
battles go back and forth as the war continues. These back-and-forth
victories can only be true and continue if one side grabs a certain
stronghold, the other captures some soldiers, the first wins an air battle,
the second wins a tank battle, etc. However, if on day one, one side
captures all the ammunition of the other side, then the war, for all intents
and purposes, is over. The second side has nothing with which to do battle.
The Chofetz Chaim says that
our Pasuk teaches us the same lesson in a powerful, spiritual way. If a
person forsakes the study of Torah (each man and woman, elder and child, in
accordance with his /her own position), he has lost all of his ammunition to
the Yetzer Hora. He has lost the war, because he has nothing to fight back
with. Thus, he immediately leaps to complete defeat--the opposite extreme
of Avoda Zora.
HaRav Elchonon Wasserman, Z’tl,
H’YD, took the Chofetz Chaim’s (his Rebbe’s) words a step further. Chazal (Yerushalmi
Chagiga 1:7) teach that even if Hashem would forgo the sins of murder, avoda
zara, and gilui arayos, he will not forgo the sin of Bitul Torah, of wasting
time from Torah study. Why is this stark statement so? After all, are
these not the three cardinal sins that Hashem would be forgoing versus that
of bitul Torah which does not appear to be anywhere near as heinous a
misdeed? The answer, Reb Elchonon teaches, is that, incredibly, the
cardinal sins all are capable of Teshuva. One can overcome these great
failings through the Koach HaTorah, through the study of Torah. However, if
the Torah study itself, a Jew’s weaponry in this World, is taken away, then
he has nothing left with which to fight.
There is a tremendous lesson
here for each and every one of us, as we rapidly approach the days of
reflection and introspection. Do we want to enter Elul as a soldier without
arms? Don’t we want to equip ourselves as much as we can? Where can we
improve in our daily study (even for just a couple of minutes) after
Shacharis? After Mincha? After Maariv? On the bus or train? Before going
to sleep?
Also, what should we be
studying? What area of Torah study have we pushed off that we really need
to know or in which we need improvement? What Sefer have we never studied
before that we really have been meaning to? What Mussar Sefer will we be
preparing for Elul? What Halachos should we learn daily (especially that
apply to us?). How can we improve in our study of the Parsha? There are so
many new Hebrew and English Parsha Seforim. Have we acquired any of them?
After we have made a mistake in Halacha, or we are not sure whether we said
or did the right thing, do we learn what the proper Halacha or Hashkafa is
in order to make sure that it will not happen again (i.e., Teshuva!).
As we all know, “Talmud Torah
K’Neged Kulam--the study of Torah is equivalent to them all” (Shabbos 127A).
Let us take heed of the words of Shema that we recite daily--so that we
succeed not only in our daily battle--but in our life’s purpose and goal!
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Special Note One: The
Sefer HaTodaah writes that today (the 18th of Av) is
mentioned as a fast day in Megilas Taanis (which is actually brought in
Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 580:2; see Mishna Berura there, seif katan
6), because it was on this day that the Ner Ma’aravi (the “Western
Candle” of the Menorah in the Bais HaMikdash, which had never been
extinguished from the time that the original Mishkan was built) was for
the first time extinguished in the time of King Achaz, because of his
extreme wickedness (see Divrei HaYamim II:28).
As we all know, the Three
Weeks and Tisha B’Av will be times of rejoicing in the future, for inherent
in these days are not only spiraling spiritual downfall, but also
mountainous spiritual growth. Here too, we may posit that within the day
lies the power to reignite the Western Candle--the Candle from which all of
the other candles were lit. Since the Menorah’s Candles symbolize the light
of Torah (See the Netziv’s commentary , the Ha’amek Davar, at the beginning
of Parshas Beha’aloscha), perhaps if we are not fasting we should at least
study some additional Torah today to do our part in relighting the
spiritually illuminating Ner Ma’arvi (speedily and in our days)!
Special Note Two: The Alter
of Kelm, Z’tl, taught that anything most needed to live in this physical
world is most available to us, and is also easy to obtain. The classic
examples are, of course, air and water. The same is true for spiritual
matters, the Alter taught. Emunah is the most necessary element of
spiritual life, for it is the foundation of everything. This is why the
basic principals of Emunah are so accessible and attainable by us all. One
need only read the Pesukim of Bitachon which we have previously distributed,
or reflect upon the Thirteen Ani Maamin’s of the Rambam, or study the
miracles around him, or note the incredible Hashgacha Pratis which he, each
member of his family, and all of his friends are blessed with every day.
Each of these connects us swiftly and directly to Emunah in Hashem.
If we take the analogy of the
Alter of Kelm to its conclusion, there are times when even items typically
abundant in this physical world are difficult to come by. On a mountaintop
or in the sea, air is in short supply or nonexistent, so one’s breathing may
be a bit more difficult or need assistance. Similarly, in the desert or in
land-locked areas, water may be scarce. What does one do to help himself in
these situations? Where air is limited, he brings along oxygen tanks. In
the desert, he will bring along sufficient containers of water to get him
through the desert trek.
In these times, when we are
faced with personal and communal tribulations of such great and diverse
magnitude, we owe it to ourselves to begin an Emunah-strengthening process
now--to build our Emunah to optimum levels so that it is readily available
when needed. What a beautiful goal it would be to study and complete the
Sha’ar HaBitachon of the Chovos HaLevavos (Duties of the Heart)
between now and Rosh Hashana. The Chovos HaLevavos is available with
an English translation (even in pocket-size) by Feldheim Publishers. At the
very least, one should attempt to reflect more deeply upon at least one of
the thirteen Ani Maamin’s every day. It is safe to say that the amount of
Emunah and Bitachon that one really has is directly proportionate to the
amount of time and effort one puts into what the Alter of Kelm calls the
“Yesod Hakol--the basis of everything!”
Special Note Three: We are
all familiar with the concept that events and occurrences that take place
around us are messages to us to change, grow and improve. One of Rabbi
Frand’s Sefarim is even titled Listen to Your Messages. Last week,
as we all know, Sifrei Torah were, R’L, destroyed in an arsonist blaze in
B’nei Brak. Just a few days ago, eight Sifrei Torah were stolen from a
temple in Queens, New York.
What is going on here? What
message is in this for us? Can we simply place the blame or the
responsibility on the people immediately involved or impacted? Perhaps each
and every one of us can do something to demonstrate greater respect for our
Sifrei Torah. Indeed, there is a separate Siman in Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh
Deah 282) which relates to Halachos of honor and respect that we are to give
to Sifrei Torah. The Shulchan Aruch writes that we are obligated to show
“Kavod Gadol--Great Honor”--to Sifrei Torah, and that one should “Yichabdenu
L’Fi Kocho--honor the Sefer Torah in accordance with his strength.”
Perhaps we can translate this
respect to other areas of Kovod Seforim--being especially careful with
Sheimos, repairing torn Seforim, straightening up Seforim which are in
disarray, and not sitting or lying down on the same place as Seforim. Each
and every one of us knows how we can improve in this area. Let us
demonstrate to Hashem that we understand the message, and that we don’t need
any more.
Special Note Four: In this
week’s Parsha, Eikev, the Torah writes that Hashem wants us “L’Dovko Bo--to
cling to Him.” The Chofetz Chaim teaches that the reason Hashem asks this
of us now is because a person can get only as close to Hashem in the Next
World as he gets to Hashem in This World. It is up to each and every one of
us to get as close as we can.
This can be compared to the
owner of an inn who is falsely accused of a crime against the government and
who realizes that his only hope is to plead for mercy before the King. He
plans to make a trip to the palace before sentencing, but realizes that the
task is an almost impossible one, because of the King’s schedule, all of the
palace guards, his status, etc.
One day, he is astonished to
hear that just the day before the King had made a trip through his city
dressed as a commoner. He is understandably even more shocked when he is
advised that he had actually had the King as a guest in his inn, and that he
had even served him dinner. What an incomparable opportunity he had to
plead for clemency, for mercy--what an irreplaceable event. What a lost
opportunity!
We must make sure that we
recognize the King with us here in our inn, and that we appreciate--and make
the most out of--our audience with Him, getting as close as possible to Him
as we can. We can do so--each and every one of us--through our sincere
Tefillos, through our enthusiastic Torah study and through our demonstrably
special dedication to Mitzvos and Maasim Tovim--each person in accordance
with his own inn!
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Short Quiz:
1. According to the Chofetz
Chaim, the Mitzvah for every Jew to learn Torah on your own (and remember
that Talmud Torah is K’neged Kulam) is found in last week’s Parsha, and is
not based upon any Pasuk in Krias Shema. Which pasuk is it?
2. Where in last week’s
Parsha is there an allusion to the Halacha that one should make one hundred
Brachos every day? (Hint: See Ba’al HaTurim 4:4)
There is a moving Mashal given
by HaRav Yaakov Neiman, Z’tl, relating to our daily recital of the Shema.
The country’s largest army
base received word that the King was coming to visit on a particular day,
two months hence. Those in command met for many nights to plan all the
details relating to the event, how improvements in the camp could be made,
cleaning the base and its personnel from top to bottom, and inside and
out--to the point that everyone’s army boots were shining with sparkle. The
preparations reached a climax a few days before, when no one in the camp had
time to sleep so that everything that was planned could be properly
accomplished.
The day arrived. The time
arrived. The King was on time. Every one stood at attention, each person
in accordance with his position. First the commanders, then the captains,
the lieutenants, the sergeants, the foot soldiers…all the way to the
backline support people at the end of the most remote line. There were
thousands standing at attention. The King marched through row after row,
looking both ways nodding and smiling, without stopping. Getting close to
the end of the last row, there stood the soldiers who worked in the base’s
kitchen. Suddenly, the King turned to one of them and embraced him tightly
and warmly, exclaiming with power and sincerity, “I love you, my precious
soldier!”
What should be the soldier’s
reaction? If he was intelligent and realized the great import of this
moment in his life, he would exclaim, “Thank you Oh Great King--May the King
live forever!” On the other hand, if the soldier would half-heartedly and
softly mumble a few words of recognition, almost under his breath, the
thousands whose eyes are fixed upon him would think, “What a fool! What an
ingrate! He missed this golden opportunity to become forever close with the
King!”
Every morning , prior to
reciting the Krias Shema itself, we recite the Brachos of Krias Shema, in
which we refer to Creation and all its glory--Hashem creates the light and
the darkness, the Heavens, the Angels, the Earth and all of its depths. As
we affirm in the Bracha of Yotzer Ohr: “For He alone effects mighty deeds,
makes new things, is Master of Wars, sows kindnesses, makes salvations
flourish, creates cures, is too awesome for praise, is L-rd of wonders, in
His Goodness he renews daily, perpetually, the wonders of Creation!”
Because of all of this, we learn how the Heavenly Host reverently and in
unimaginable awe proclaim, “Kadosh Kadosh Kadosh…,” and, if that is not
enough, how the Ofanim, and the Holy Chayos, with “great noise” raise
themselves towards the Seraphim and exclaim “Baruch Kavod….”
When we prepare ourselves to
recite the Shema, it is now our turn. Hashem has passed through all of the
other great acts of Creation in a seemingly endless Universe, has come down
to Earth, and has passed by all the wonders of the Earth. He comes to each
and every one of us and tightly and warmly embraces us, showing us how much
he loves us. We testify to this when we recite the words “Ahava Raba…” (or
“Ahavas Olam…” for Nusach Sefard).
What, then, is our reaction to
be to the King who has passed through and by anything and everything--the
Whole Universe, All of Creation--and chooses us to hug and express his love
to? Will it be a tired and fast-paced, unthinking response?! Or will the
moment be properly utilized--“I love You too, Oh King, and I am going to
show it to You any way I can! You have singled me out from all the
Creations in the World, You have given me what I need to become part of
eternity, and I want to show You how dedicated I am to You and how much I
love You!”
As we proceed to Krias Shema
every morning, perhaps this Mashal should go through our minds. We have
something, we are something, that the Celestial Beings, the Wonders of the
World, the World’s Leaders, and the Greatest Minds and Wealth of the World
do not have. Feel the warmth, feel the embrace, feel the privilege, feel
the honor…and hold on to it for eternity!
Blessed are you, Hashem, who
chooses His People with Love!
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Short Quiz:
1. In last week’s Parsha
(always read before Tisha B’Av), Rashi teaches us an incredible fact. On
the words “Baiei Es HaTorah--explaining the Torah” (Devorim 1:5), Rashi
brings the Medrash that Moshe Rabbeinu explained the Torah to the Bnei
Yisroel in 70 languages. Why? After all, the people in the Desert knew
Lashon Hakoesh and maybe a little Egyptian, but why teach them in 70
languages?!
2. How many different names
or titles is the Bais Hamikdash given in Sefer Eichah alone? What does that
teach us?
Special Note One: We continue
with our Erev Shabbos Hilchos Shabbos Series:
1. Non-adjustable hot plates
which are not used for cooking, but only for keeping food warm, require no
blech. One may, accordingly, leave fully cooked food on them before Shabbos
without any covering. However, if one wanted to place food upon such a hot
plate on Shabbos, the conditions of chazara would apply--1. the food must
have been fully-cooked 2. the food must still be warm 3. the pot is still
in his hand after taking it off the fire and 4. the original intention was
to put the pot back. (The Shabbos Kitchen, by Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen,
Shlita, page 60). It would appear that the last two conditions may be
difficult to fulfill in the typical hotplate situation.
2. Placing a pot of food or
liquids, even if previously cooked, onto an electric stove on Shabbos which
is connected to a Shabbos clock which would turn on the stove to heat the
food, is prohibited (Halachos of Shabbos by Rabbi Shimon Eider, Zt’l, Volume
4, page 322).
3. Before pouring hot water
from a kli rishon into a cup or glass, care should be taken to see that
there is no accumulation of liquid in the glass. Accordingly, if a person
would like a second cup of hot tea and there is cold liquid remaining in the
cup from the hot tea, one should pour out the accumulation of liquid. If
there is no accumulation of liquid, but the cup is moist from the first
serving, according to many Poskim, he is not required to dry the cup before
pouring hot water. However, if the cup is moist from washing with uncooked
water, he is required to dry the cup (ibid., page 295).
Special Note Two: We now
approach Shabbos Nachamu, after having just attempted to appreciate the
enormity of the devastation that has befallen us. Shabbos Nachamu is
intended to enlighten us as to how great the consolation will be. There is
no Pasuk that says “Eichah, Eichah.” There is, however, a Pasuk which
repeats “Nachamu, Nachamu--be consoled, be consoled...!”
Chazal teach us that “Kol
Hamesabel al Yerushalayim--Anyone who mourns over Yerushalayim,” is “zoche
v’roeh--merits and sees”--its rejoicing. HaRav Meir Schuck, Zt’l, notes
that Chazal do not teach that the person who mourns over Yerushalayim
**will** merit and see its rejoicing, but rather, in the present, **now**
merits and sees its rejoicing. How is this so? After all, do not Arabs
still occupy the Temple Mount? Is not the Bais HaMikdash still in ruins?
HaRav Schuck explains that if someone truly appreciates the loss of a
rebuilt Yerushalayim, he takes action, practical and meaningful steps,
towards its rebuilding, just as someone with a tattered roof on his home, or
a car in his driveway that doesn’t start, will do in order to fix things--to
bring them back to normal. How does one “fix” the situation in this
instance? He davens hard when he reaches the places in Shemone Esrei asking
for the rebuilding of Yerushalayim, and he undertakes special Mitzvos for
the sake of the redemption. His participation in the rebuilding brings him
joy, much in the same way as someone still building a house envisions all of
the room and conveniences it will provide when completed, or as a woman
repairs the hem of a dress hums, realizing that she will be wearing it to a
chasunah in just a few hours.
Our rejoicing over the Bais
HaMikdash can--and should--begin now!!
Special Note Three: Tomorrow,
we will read in the Torah the first Parsha of Shema, the cornerstone of our
faith. It is, then, no “coincidence” (as it never is) that we always read
it on the Shabbos after Tisha B’Av, for it provides focus for our lives at
all times and in all places. It is certainly an extremely auspicious time
now to review and renew our connection to the Shema, both as to its proper
recitation, and the Halachos and Hashkofos which are associated with, and
emanate from, its holy words.
We provide below only a few
points regarding Shema, which we hope is only a brief starting point and
motivator to improve your daily Shema (remember these words that we are
privileged to recite daily are the very same words with which we conclude
Neilah--the Final Service--on the Holiest Day of the Year!):
1. Before reciting Shema, we
should have in mind that we are fulfilling the Mitzvah of Kabbalas Ol
Malchus Shomayim, and the separate Mitzvah of Kriyas Shema.
2. “Shema” means listen,
understand and accept.
3. “Yisroel” means to include
**you**. Rebbe Yisroel Salanter, Z’tl, used to say that while reciting the
word “Echad,” we are to think about how Hashem By Himself rules over the
Seven Heavens and the Earth, and all Four Directions of the world (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chayim 61:4). However, when thinking about this vast and
limitless expanse--we must never forget that Hashem rules over us, as well,
and we should sincerely subjugate all of our will and desires to Him.
4. When reciting Hashem’s
names--especially in the first two pesukim--we should understand what each
name--i.e., “Hashem” and “Elokeinu,” mean and represent. This can be
accomplished quickly once you know the meanings well.
5. When saying “VeAhavta,”
one should feel love for Hashem in his heart--at least for all the kindness
that He bestows upon us! See Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 25, Mishne
Berurah, seif katan 14.
6. One should recite Shema
from a Siddur which aids in the essential understanding of the words and in
their proper pronunciation (the various Artscroll Siddurim, for instance,
provide lines between words which could be slurred together if a small break
is not made, and indicate through horizontal lines on the top of letters
which Shevas are Sheva Na’s and which are Sheva Nach’s.
7. One should not motion with
his eyes or hands, even for the sake of a Mitzvah, during the first Parsha
of Shema (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 63:6).
8. Rabbi Moshe Goldberger,
Shlita, teaches that there are seven (!) Mitzvos alone referred to in the
first Parsha of Shema.
9. Additionally, the first
Parsha of Shema alludes to four of the Aseres HaDibros--can you find them?
The Mishne Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim, 61, seif katan 2)
enumerates them.
10. When reciting the words
“Asher Anochi Metzavecha Hayom--that I command you **today**”--one should
refresh himself with the knowledge that he has a new and special
opportunity--this time--to acknowledge and properly serve His Creator! (See
Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim, 61:2).
Once again, the above are just
a few thoughts to help you get started. May this week’s Parsha bring with
it a reinvigoration of our recitation of Shema--so that we properly fulfill
the words of the Navi--”Yisroel Asher Becha Espoer--the People of Israel--in
Whom I Glory!”
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Special Note One: Just two
closing notes on Tisha B’Av, although we most certainly welcome any
additional comments or reflections from our readers:
1. It is interesting to note
that the first man landed on the moon just a few days before Tisha B’Av
thirty nine years ago. The Chofetz Chaim teaches us (as we have previously
noted) that all of the modern inventions provide us with important
lessons--the phone, the phonograph, the automobile, the train, etc. What
lesson do we learn from: (a) man landing on the moon? and (b) its happening
so close to Tisha B’Av?
2. Yirmiyahu HaNavi (Yirmiyahu
2:5), in the Haftora we read on Rosh Chodesh Av, teaches us that the people
severely erred because “VaYelchu Acharei Hahevel Va’Yehbalu--and they went
after nothingness and turned into nothingness.”
There is a great, yet simple
and practical lesson here--you are that which you pursue. For example, if a
person pursues Torah, he becomes a “Ben Torah.” If, on the other hand, he
pursues Lashon Hora, he becomes a “Baal Lashon Hora.” Everybody has to take
a good look at what they really are pursuing. There is an old quip about an
uneducated Jew who came to Shul, and was asked by the Gabbai whether he was
a Kohen, Levi or Yisroel. He responded: “I am none of those. I am a
businessman!” We, as educated Jews, have to make sure that it is clear to
us--and to others--who we really are, and where our primary focus is.
It is interesting to note that
HaRav Dovid Kviat, Shlita, (the “Sukkas Dovid,” one of the senior Rabbonim
in America today) when asked to make a remark to children (on Torah
Umesorah’s “Shanghai Miracle” audio-visual presentation) asked them one
thing only--to “Learn with Cheshek”--with enthusiasm. Are we any different
than children in this regard? May we suggest that at the end of the day,
one thinks to oneself--what did I pursue today--what did I do with
enthusiasm?
It is up to us whether we
pursue nothing and become nothing, or whether we pursue a life of Torah
fulfillment--and literally become models for the entire world!
Special Note Two: By the
following link we provide a “Segula
Gedola V’Niflaa--a great and wondrous Segula” from the Sefer
Nefesh HaChaim (3:12) by HaRav Chaim Volozhiner, Zt’l. This Segulah is
said to have been repeatedly used by the Brisker Rav as he successfully
escaped from Nazi occupied lands. Recitation of this Segulah with feeling
will most certainly strengthen a person’s Bitachon in Hashem.
In this regard, the Sefer
HaMevorech Yisborech, HaRav Yaakov Meir Shechter, Shlita, writes that it
is written in the name of the Maharal M’Prague that one should recite
Pesukim in Tanach relating to Emunah and Bitachon in order to strengthen his
faith, for Emunah and Bitachon are the “Ikar Das HaYisraeli--the main
principle of Judaism.” After reciting these Pesukim, one should pray to
Hashem that he be as successful as possible in his Bitachon.
HaRav Shechter reports that
the Maharal would also say (in the name of his grandfather, Rebbe Chaim)
that we have a Kaballah from Kadmonim, an ancient tradition, that reciting
Pesukim of Bitachon are especially effective to nullify evil decrees, and
that, in fact, Jewish soldiers would recite Pesukei Bitachon before going to
war. He also suggests reciting these Pesukim before entering into an
important business transactions and other matters.
Accordingly, with permission
of the author of the Sefer HaMevorach Yisborach, we have reprinted,
and provide by the following link many
Pesukim of Emunah and
Bitachon, most of which are from Sefer Tehillim. At the end of the
link are five Pesukim which a person should recite often, based upon the
Sefer Shimush Tehillim attributed to HaRav Hai Gaon, Z’tl.
Chazal (Sotah 49A, 49B) teach
that at the end of days the world will be in such turmoil that we will come
to realize that “Ain Lanu L’Hishayen Ela Al Avinu Shebashamayim--we will
have no one to rely on but our Father in Heaven.” While only Hashem (and
perhaps a select few Tzaddikim here) know whether we are now at the end of
the end of days, it is clear that our world is full of turmoil, and that
over the last while, when a bandage has been placed in one place, a boil has
popped up in another.
It would seem that one of the
important Avodas HaYom (orders of the day) is to better and strengthen
ourselves in the area of Emunah and Bitachon. With the attached links (and
your ability to delve further into the Nefesh HaChaim, and into each
Pasuk and its meaning), we hope we have provided a good start. Perhaps one
can especially choose one Pasuk per day from this especially large
collection to reflect upon more deeply.
Remember and repeat the words
very well--we only rely upon Avinu Shebashamayim!
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In the unparalleled Artscroll
Kinos, by Rabbi Avraham Chaim Feuer, Shlita, Rabbi Feuer writes the
following in the course of his introduction:
“The tears of kinnos are a
never-ending stream. When I began to translate and elucidate the Kinnos on
the day after Succos, I called my rebbe, HaRav Mordechai Gifter, Shlita, and
asked, ‘How can I get into the mood of writing about Kinnos just a day after
Simchas Torah, while all the happy tunes of joy still resonate in my ears
and Tishah B’Av is still so far off in the future? Who can think of Kinnos
now?’
“He replied, ‘You are
mistaken. Kinnos are not only for Tishah B’Av, they are for the entire year,
except that throughout the year we recite Kinnos in a whisper, while on
Tishah B’Av we shout them out loud! Whoever neglects Kinnos all year long
and attempts to start reciting them on Tishah B’Av will not succeed in
saying them even then, because he will recite the verses without any feeling
and he will become bored. We must cry and mourn over the Churban all year
long, in every season, and then our Kinnos will reach their climax of pain
on Tishah B’Av.’
“This concept of regular
mourning over the Churban is codified in the very first chapter of Shulchan
Aruch (Orach Chaim 1:3). It is proper for every G-d-fearing person to feel
and anguish over the destruction of the Holy Temple.
“The Sfas Emes was once asked,
‘And what should someone do if he feels no anguish over the Churban of the
Temple?’ The Rebbe replied, ‘Then he should be consumed with pain and
anguish over his own personal Churban. If a Jew doesn’t feel real pain over
the Churban, it shows that his soul is in a wretched, abysmal state!’
“True, kinnos are for all year
round--but when does one begin to develop a feeling for them? On Tishah
B’Av. If one truly comprehends and feels the Kinnos he recites on this day,
he will be inspired to refer back to them throughout the year….”
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Although Tisha B’Av is a sad
and mournful time, it does not mean that we should quickly move away and
shut the door on its meaning and import in our daily lives. Indeed, it is
interesting to note that immediately after teaching us the Halachos of Tisha
B’Av, the Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chaim 560) provides us with the Halachos of
what we must do Zecher L’Churban, in remembrance of the Churban--every day.
Accordingly, before we leave
Tisha B’Av, we provide below only a few lessons one could glean from Tisha
B’Av, based in large part on the recent Hakhel Tisha B’Av Program:
1. Kinah 29
states “Siman Tov L’Adom…--it is a good sign for a person if he is not
eulogized or buried properly…. let him not fear the day of wrath.” The
Artscroll commentary explains that death in this way serves to fully purge a
person of any stain on his soul caused by sin, and that such a person will
be spared the punishments of the next world (Sanhedrin 46B; 47A). This
should serve as a great consolation for all of us who had relatives that
perished in the Holocaust in so many diverse and cruel ways.
2. Dovid
HaMelech, in perhaps the most renowned chapter of Tehillim (Chapter 130)
begins “Shir HaMaalos Mi’maa’makim--a Song of Ascents. From the depths I
called you…” HaRav Klonymous Kalman Shapiro, Zt’l, H’yd, (the Rebbe of
Piazeczna) taught the following about the word “Mi’Maa’makim” to the Jews of
the Warsaw Ghetto with him: Sometimes a person is in a situation from which
he cannot extricate himself barring an absolute miracle. For example, the
Jews in the Warsaw Ghetto, especially after the uprising. Dovid HaMelech,
by using the word “Mi’Maa’makim,” refers to this kind of situation, for he
does not refer to only one singular depth (which would be Emek), but to the
depth of the depths (Mi’Maa’Makim, in the plural). The Piazeczner concluded
that Dovid HaMelech was teaching us that we cry out to Hashem whether or not
we can reasonably be saved--for there are two kinds of prayer. The first,
basic type of prayer is to make requests of Hashem, the Omnipotent One. The
second, more sublime prayer is one in which one prays not to achieve a
personal request, but only to connect and cleave to Hashem. This is the
“Mi’Maa’Makim” in which we cry out to Hashem--not only because we realize
that He is the only source of our salvation, but also to demonstrate to Him
that, when all is said and done, what we ultimately seek is dveykus with
Him.
3. The
Telzer Rav Zt’l, H’yd, before being murdered, was beaten by a ruthless Nazi
with a hammer. “Herr Rabbiner! Where is your G-d now?” he mocked. The
Telzer Rav responded, “He is your G-d too--and you will find that out
later!” When we recite Av HaRachamim on Shabbos, we should take the few
moments necessary to recite it slowly and thoughtfully (some actually stand,
as a symbol of respect, but this is not required by Halacha). Remember, we
are praying not only for the Kedoshim, but also for the honor of Hashem and
His People.
4. The
Pasuk in Eichah (1:2) states “Bocho Tivkeh Ba’Layla V’Dimasah…--cry, cry at
night, and its tears….” The Medrash teaches that there are three words for
crying at the outset of Eicha to teach us that there are three tears--one
for the first Bais HaMikdash, a second for the second Bais HaMikdash, and a
third either for the Bitul Torah that the Churban has caused to this very
day (we cannot attain our full potential without a Bais HaMikdash), or for
the Kavod Yisroel, the honor of our People, which has been disgraced and
defiled even by the nations which are friendly to us. Thus, the last tear
referred to in Eichah is being shed for us!
5. What is
left of the great Roman Empire are the many ruins in the ancient city of
Rome together with the Arch of Titus, which remains standing, as if to
remind us that although Rome and all those like it in history are gone, we
are still in Galus, and that we should not forget it. If we don’t picture
the Arch of Titus in front of us to remind us of our plight, then every
person can find his own simple method to help put things in perspective
daily. We may suggest:
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Reciting Tehillim Chapter 79 daily with
feeling.
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Thinking about what a small percentage of
World Jewry are Torah Jews, and how many Jews are being lost to Judaism
**daily** through intermarriage and attrition--for no other reason than
the churban we find ourselves in--and davening especially for them every
day.
6.
Finally, it is important to note that Chazal teach that both Nevuzradan (the
Chief General of the Babylonians), and Nero (the first Chief General of the
Romans to besiege Yerushalayim at the time of the Churban) realized that the
destruction of the Bais HaMikdash that they were involved in was only by the
Hand of Hashem. They each fled and converted to Judaism. Perhaps this is
to teach us that, ultimately, all the nations of the world will have the
proper perspective on life. It is up to us now to live each and every
precious day of our life--a day in which we are a step ahead of the rest of
the entire world (!)--staying as close to Hashem as possible in everything
that we do--so that by next year, when Tisha B’Av arrives, we will
experience the greatest joy possible, with the rebuilding of the Bais
HaMikdash and the World in all of its Glory!
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Special Note One: We recently
noted the importance of being MeKadesh Shem Shamayim by reciting “Yehei
Shmei Raba” with Kavannah. Rabbi Matisyahu Solomon, Shlita, provides
incredible inspiration to recite Amen Yehei Shmei Raba (V’chulu) with
especial intensity: The Gemorah (Shabbos 119B) states that one who says it
with all his might (Rashi: “all his kavana”) will have a bad gezeira
against him torn up. The Sefer Chareidim (Chapter 73) writes that this is
actually a segula from Chazal and is a most potent factor in the Teshuva
process.
What does “all his kavana”
mean? It means that one must be listening attentively to Kaddish beginning
with the words Yisgadal V’Yiskadash recited by the Shatz, and understanding
what the Shatz is saying. He is praying that the Moshiach come as soon as
possible (not only “bchayei d’chol bais Yisroel,” not only “ba’agola,” but
also “bizman koriv”!) so that Kiddush Hashem will come to the world--so that
Kovod Shomayim is reinstated and that Hakodosh Boruch Hu is finally
recognized by everyone as the Source of all Blessing. Our tefillos are not
marked by prayers which ask for everything to go back to normal--but rather
to go forward, to change. To demonstrate our dedication to the principle of
Kaddish, the Shulchan Aruch itself (Orach Chayim 56:1) states that a person
should run to hear Kaddish. We run for what we really want.
Special
Note Two: We provide a beautiful letter sent to us by one of our
valued readers, which may be of help to us in breaking out of the Sinas
Chinam that may pervade some of our relationships.
The letter is
available by clicking here. We remind everyone of the great
statement of the Mesilas Yesharim (Chapter 19, at end) that “HaKadosh Baruch
Hu only loves those who love other members of Klal Yisroel. And, as a
person’s love for Klal Yisroel increases, so does Hakados Baruch Hu’s love
for him.(!)”
Special Note Three: We
continue with our Erev Shabbos, Hilchos Shabbos Halacha Series:
1. A Door Opener. If one’s
door knob falls off on Shabbos, it is prohibited to even loosely place the
doorknob back in the handle to open the door because (i) it resembles the
melacha of boneh--building; and (ii) the doorknob is muktzeh. There is also
the possibility that a person might continue to completely rebuild it (shemah
yetokah). Instead, one should use a knife, bobby pin, handle of a spoon,
or, if necessary, a screwdriver to open the door (The 39 Melachos,
Rabbi Dovid Ribiat, Shlita, Volume IV, page 1090).
2. Shabbos Bows. One is
permitted to make bows on Shabbos, but only for items which typically would
come apart on Shabbos (i.e., are not meant to last more than one day), such
as shoe laces. Accordingly, when one’s trash bag is full, he should not
close it by tying a bow on top, since he never intends to open it afterwards
(Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 317, Mishne Berurah, seif katan 29).
3. Shabbos Nap. The Mishne
Berurah (Orach Chayim 8, seif katan 42) writes that if one naps during the
day, one should leave his tzitzis on, or at least cover himself with his
tzitzis, because there is a Machlokes Haposkim as to whether sleeping is a
“hesech hadaas,” requiring a new brocha on the tzitzis. Note: One should
consult with his Rav as to the necessity of making a new brocha of Al
Mitzvas Tzitzis when putting back on his tzitzis (and certainly when putting
on a specially-designated pair of “Shabbos tzitzis”) after bathing on Erev
Shabbos.
Additional Note: The Mishne
Berurah (Orach Chayim 8, seif katan 26) makes the following incredible
statement: “It appears from Kesuvim that the Jews who will be left at the
End of Days will be metzuyanim in the mitzvah of tzitzis, as the posuk
states…and as Chazal teach….” It would seem that there is no better time
than now to be especially careful and exacting in the performance of this
mitzvah.
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The answer to the question we
posed last week regarding benching is found in the Tashbatz that the enda
pheh (pheh sofis/langer pheh)) is missing, because it symbolizes the Malach
Hamoves, who has various names ending in enda pheh (see there). This
teaches that the Malach Hamoves is subject to one who recites bentching in
its proper time and with kavana.
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Special Note One: Several
additional brief points on the time period that we are in:
1. Chazal
teach us that once Av enters, we are to reduce the amount of our joy. Many
have pointed out that the context Chazal use, even in Av, is one of joy. We
are not instructed to “increase our mourning,” but to “decrease our joy.”
This thought fits in beautifully with the commentary of the Tiferes Yisroel
to last week’s Perek, Chapter 2 of Pirkei Avos. There, Rabban Yochanan Ben
Zakkai asked his five primary disciples, “What is the proper way to which
man should cling?” The first four primary disciples each responded in his
own way. Rebbe Elazar then responded that one should cling to “a Lev Tov--a
good heart.” Rabban Yochanan then said to his students, “I prefer the words
of Elazar to your words, for your words are included in his words.” What is
so all-encompassing about the words “Lev Tov” that it per se includes the
other responses of Rabban Yochanan’s other four top students?! The Tiferes
Yisroel explains that the phrase “Lev Tov” means “Leebo tomid sameach,
u’mezuman l’heitiv lakol--that one’s frame of mind is a happy one, and that
he is ready to help every one.” It is this middah that Rabban Yochanan and
Rabbi Elazar instruct us is so primary and all-encompassing. Accordingly,
even in these days of Av, and even as we approach Tisha B’Av, we should not
forget these six Hebrew words as the attitude and approach to life that our
Sages teach us to cling to. We especially note that the Hebrew word
“Yidbak” (cling) is utilized by Chazal--it is not simply a nice approach or
a good thing, but something we should not deviate from--but practice
sticking to--as if it were with glue or honey.
2. Chazal (Brachos
8A) expressly teach us that “from the day the Bais HaMikdash was destroyed,
HaKadosh Baruch Hu has only the Four Amos of Halacha.” This teaching has
tremendous implications and repercussions, as it appears to require us to
place a primary focus on learning Halacha. The Hashkafa behind these words
of Chazal may be explained as follows: If we do not live in times when
Hashem causes His presence to dwell in this world through His Bais HaMikdash,
then at the very least we should demonstrate our utmost desire to follow His
Will and His Directives to the greatest extent possible anywhere in the
world. We do this by
following the Halacha--that dictates as to how Hashem wants us to lead our
lives. In addition to the daily requirement to study Halacha (whether it be
from a Mishna Berurah, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch, English halacha sefer, or
other means), we should also demonstrate our desire to follow Hashem’s word
by asking a Shaila, or looking up a Halacha, as soon as the issue
comes up, and not putting it off to another (perhaps more comfortable)
time. Yesterday, we provided one Shaila Hotline available 14 hours a day.
The Bais Din of the Machon HaHora’a (based in Monsey, New York) is also
available on a 24-hour basis at 845-HALACHA. The Chofetz Chaim Heritage
Foundation Shmiras HaLashon Shaila Hotline is available from 9:00PM to
10:30PM on Monday through Thursday and on Motze’ei Shabbos at 718-951-3696.
If HaKadosh Baruch Hu only has Four Amos of Halacha at this time, so should
we….
3. At a
Hakhel Shiur, HaRav Shmuel Dishon, Shlita, posed the following question:
“What is the greatest Chilul Hashem in the world today?! What is the one
thing that we should most ashamed of?!” He answered that the greatest
Chilul Hashem, the greatest shame to us today, is that we are still in Galus.
That being said, each and every one of us should do their utmost to rid
themselves and all of Klal Yisroel of this Chilul Hashem. At a time when
our personal hygiene may not be on the same par as it is during the rest of
the year, we should view the Chilul Hashem around us as spiritual filth,
caked in very deeply, which we need to remove with whatever will get it
off. If we feel a little unclean during the Nine Days--imagine how the
spiritual world feels throughout the entire year! Hakhel Suggestion:
The Torah in Vayikra (22:32) juxtaposes the admonition not to commit a
Chilul Hashem with the requirement to be Mekadesh Shem Shamayim. We may
suggest, then, that one means of eradicating the great Chilul Hashem is by
acts of great Kiddush Hashem.
4. In this
regard, we add that if one finds himself in a situation in which he has the
choice between answering “Amen Yehei Shemai Raba…” or Kedusha (which is a
Kiddush Hashem), the Halacha is that answering Amen Yehai Shemai Raba
actually takes precedence (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 25:13 Mishna Berurah,
seif katan 56). At the very least, then, men in Shul should pay particular
attention to answering Amen Yehei Shemai Raba to help create that great
Kiddush Hashem that we so desperately need in this world.
Special Note Two: HaRav
Avraham Schorr, Shlita, gave a wonderful mashal on a Torah Jew’s role in
this world:
There was once a young prince
dressed in his royal finest who took a Royal Walk around the neighborhoods
of the city with his entourage. He came upon a park, and he found young
children his age playing in a sandbox, with water, shovels and pails. The
children in the sandbox looked at the prince and said “come and join us,
have some fun!” The Prince’s initial reaction was to jump in and roll in
the mud along with them, but then he looked down at the garments upon him,
and the people around him, and thoughtfully responded, “No, sorry, I am not
going to play with you in the mud.” The prince left the park smiling from
ear to ear. He did not feel at all that he was a deprived child because he
couldn’t play in the dirt with the commoners. Quite to the contrary, he
walked away as the happiest person in the world, for he was close to the
King, and lived his life by a higher standard.
The primary lesson from this
Mashal is clear. Our mitzvos are not burdensome, and by no means should we
prefer, or in any manner be envious of, the “fun” that everyone else in the
world around us is having. We wear a badge of honor, which we glorify with
every victory over our Yetzer Hora, and with our performance of each and
every mitzvah.
There is an important second
lesson, as well. When we look for the rebuilding of the Bais HaMikdash,
what we are really looking forward to is the return trip back to the Palace…
where we will stay close to the King… for eternity!!
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We would like to make our
readers aware of the Bais Hora’ah of Lakewood Telephone Shaila Hotline. The
Bais Ho’raah is under the jurisdiction of HaRav Shlomo Miller, Shlita. It
is available for Shailos from 8:30AM to 10:30PM EST, and its toll free
number is 877-451-2021.
As we draw closer to Tisha
B’Av, the intensity of our feelings should be growing, as well. In that
connection, we provide the following brief notes, which you may choose to
reflect upon or apply further.
1. Dovid
HaMelech composed a specific chapter of Tehillim (Chapter 20), in which he
exclaims “…Yaancha Hashem B’Yom Tzora--May Hashem answer you in a day of
distress.” As our appreciation of the utter inappropriateness of Galus for
us pervades us as we get closer and closer to Tisha B’Av, we should be
feeling the “Yom Tzora” within these days more intensely, and reciting this
Chapter of Tehillim (found towards the end of our daily Shacharis in any
event), with special Kavannah.
2. One
reader pointed out that it is by no means a coincidence (as it never is),
that the recent tractor tragedies have occurred at this time of year. These
outlandish and tragic murders in the heart of Yerushalayim should serve as a
wake-up call to us that the contemporary Yerushalayim is simply not the same
Yerushalayim that we so desperately need restored. We should daven from the
depths of our heart that the korbonos on the street be replaced with the
korbonos that are supposed to be brought in the Bais HaMikdash. The
tragedies over thousands of years marked in the kinos have continued to our
own day, and we must do our utmost to prevent any new kinos from having to
be formulated. There is a custom on Tisha B’Av to make hespedim--to
eulogize--those gedolim who were niftar in the previous year. Perhaps we
can also add on, at least in our thoughts, the victims of the Mercaz HaRav
Massacre and the Sderot victims, among all of the other acts of terror we
have suffered, both within Eretz Yisroel, and without, over this past year.
3.
According to Rabbi Aryeh Z. Ginzberg in the June 2002 edition of The
Jewish Observer, regarding Rebbetzin Kotler, A’H, “[Rebetzin Kotler] had
a sweet tooth, and she loved to have a sugar cube in her mouth when drinking
a tea. From the time the war [World War II] began until the end, she never
took a sugar cube into her mouth. ‘For how could she do so, after she knew
what had befallen our people?’” We may not be on this level of greatness.
However, perhaps at least during the remainder of this week, and through the
Tenth Day of Av at Chatzos, each one of us can do something along these
lines (personal to us) to demonstrate our attachment and connection to the
sufferings of our people--from the churbonos of the Batei Mikdash through
the Crusades, from the Middle Ages through the more recent Pogroms, and from
the churban of Europe through the modern day terror and nuclear threat that
faces our [entire] People.
4. Kollel
Chatzot is a special Kollel in Beitar which commences its studies every
midnight with Tikun Chatzos, then followed by learning through the night,
and davening Shacharis at Netz (Vasikin) every morning. The Kollel has
forwarded to us an article (available
here) written by one of its English-speaking members, appropriate
for this time of year for further reflection. The Kollel can be
contacted at
www.kollelchatzot.com
5. The
Chofetz Chaim understands that the “Sinas Chinam” for which the Second Bais
HaMikdash was destroyed (and for which it has not yet been rebuilt) was the
Sin of Loshon Hora (Introduction to the Sefer Chofetz Chaim).
Perhaps there is something more we can do even if we already learn the two
Halachos a Day, and otherwise try to be careful. One additional
undertaking, such as confirming every day at the end of the day that you
stopped yourself from speaking or hearing Loshon Hora one time that day,
might be that final brick that we all need. A small undertaking from
little you could bring the Geulah for our entire nation!
6. It is
significant that the third and last Haftora of Retribution (read on Shabbos
Chazon) concludes with a Pasuk (Yeshaya 1:27), which many of us know by
heart because of its incredible import. “Tzion BeMishpat Tipadeh, V’Shaveha
B’Tzedaka--Zion will be redeemed with Justice, and those who return with
Tzedaka.” Thus, the Navi concludes with the seeming final condition to the
Geulah--Tzedaka. Indeed, Tzedaka in some shape, manner or form is something
that each and every one of us is capable of performing with special Kavannah,
at least between now and the Tenth of Av. Let us go out of our way to
give thoughtful Tzedaka during this short period, and let us daven that we
too will soon be joined with the Returnees who gave Tzedaka as well!!
The Shulchan Aruch (Orach
Chaim 551:2), rules that our People reduce the amount of business that we
would otherwise undertake during the Nine Days. The Mishna Berura (ibid.,
seif katan, 11), writes that the business activities that we undertake in
today’s times may be considered within the needs of our immediate Parnassah,
and are, accordingly, permissible. If we otherwise generally go about our
daily activities over the next several days, our taking note of the few
brief items above may bring us a bit closer to the sensitivities and
emotions that should be building within us as we move towards Tisha B’Av and
the Tenth of Av--may they be turned to days of rejoicing and celebration--in
our days!!
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HaRav Chaim Friedlander, Zt’l,
writes that the Bais HaMikdash was destroyed not because of our Sinas Chinam,
rather, it lost its zechus Kiyum because of our lack of unity. It therefore
behooves us to do something to unite. Please see “The
Prayer for Judging Favorably,” both in Hebrew and in English, as
provided by the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation.
At least this
week, let us take the few brief moments that it takes out of our busy day to
sit down and recite this Tefillah with Kavannah.
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Special Note One: Today is
the Yahrtzeit of Rashi. Many have noted that the acronym Rashi not only
stands for Rebbe Shlomo Yitzchaki, but also for Rabban Shel Yisroel. We
provide below a few reminders of the sheer greatness of Rashi, as related by
Rabbi Yaacov Dovid Shulman, in his book Rashi (CIS Publishers, 1993).
1. “The
Chida (in Shem HaGedolim) writes ‘tradition tells us that before Rashi began
his commentary on Chumash, he fasted for 613 days, corresponding to the
number of mitzvos in the Torah, in order to obtain Ruach HaKodesh.”
2. “Once,
Rabbi Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchshev was invited to a seudas mitzvah
celebrating the siyum of a mesechta. This took place during the Nine Days,
when ordinarily one could not eat meat. Rabbi Levi Yitzchak asked the man
making the siyum, “Can you assure me that you didn’t skip even a laaz--a
foreign word--in Rashi?” “No,” the man replied. “In that case,” Rabbi Levi
Yitzchak replied, “I am afraid that I will not be able to join you for the
meal.”
3. Once, a
melamed came to Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan, the Chofetz Chaim, and asked him
for a letter testifying that he is a qualified teacher. “What is your
specialty?” the Chofetz Chaim asked him. “I am an expert in Rashi on the
Torah.” “In that case,” the Chofetz Chaim said, “come here and sit in my
place.”
4.
According to the Sefer Mevoh HaShearim, Rashi went into Galus for seven
years, traveling through Italy, Greece, Egypt, and Eretz Yisroel, and only
thereafter began to publicize his notes on Tanach and Shas.
5. Rashi
was niftar while reviewing his peirush to Makkos (19B) with his son-in-law.
He expired after saying the word “Tahor--pure” (actually found in the
commentary there)!
Hakhel Note: HaRav Avigdor
Miller, Zt’l, would tell his students to give Hakaras HaTov--to express
thanks--to Rashi for opening up Tanach and Shas to us---and especially when
they understood something because of Rashi. HaRav Milller actually adds
that when you feel that Rashi has enlightened you, you should give him a
brocha that he has a “Lichtege Gan Eden--a lit-up Gan Eden” in reward for
helping enlighten you! Where would we be without Rashi? Today, let us be
careful to express our Hakaras HaTov to Rashi, and to do something L’Iluy
Nishmaso--whether it be giving Tzedaka, doing a kind deed, or learning
Chumash and understanding a Pasuk because you learned it with…Rashi!
Special Note Two: We continue
with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series.
We present the following
practical Halachos of Muktza as excerpted from the first thorough work of
its kind in English, The Halachos of Muktza by Rabbi Pinchas Bodner,
Shlita (Feldheim; originally published in 1981).
1. Shells, Peels: Inedible
peels and shells are muktza. Therefore, items such as egg shells, nut
shells, and the like are muktza. Edible peels such as apple peels or pear
peels are viewed as regular food and not muktza. Peels which are only
suitable for animals, are not muktza on Shabbos.
2. Canned Food: According to
some poskim it is prohibited to open cans, as well as many types of sealed
food containers and bottles on Shabbos. The poskim rule, however, that all
sealed food containers and canned goods are nor muktza. However, cans
containing food which is not edible on Shabbos e.g. popping corn, are muktza.
3. Rain: According to most
poskim, rain which fell on Shabbos or Yomtov is not considered nolad and may
be used. These poskim rule that since the moisture existed beforehand (in
the form of clouds); it is not considered nolad when it falls on Shabbos or
Yomtov. Thus, according to this view, one may drink, use, and move this
rain water (providing that it is not dirty) on Shabbos.
4. The following are the
halachos of muktza with regard to medications on Shabbos and Yom Tov:
a. Medications which
will not be used on Shabbos are muktza. This applies both to prescription
and non-prescription medications, e.g. aspirin, Alka Seltzer, and cough
medicines are all muktza.
b. Medicines as well
as all types of muktza may be moved for a sick person, even for a Choleh
Sheayn Bo Sakana--a sick person whose sickness does not pose a possible
threat to his life.
5. Garbage and Garbage Cans:
Usable food items in the garbage are under certain conditions, not Muktza,
however, many items commonly found in one’s garbage are muktza. Therefore:
since many garbage items are muktza, it is suggested that one should not
move his garbage or his garbage can on Shabbos or Yom Tov [without the
guidance of your Rav, as to your particular situation]. Where foul odors
from the garbage are causing discomfort to people, the garbage may be
removed in accordance with the rules outlined in Chapter 21, part 6 of the
book.
6. Frozen Food: Frozen
ready-to-eat food is not muktza. Of course, frozen raw meat has the same
halacha as raw meat and is muktza. The reason that frozen ready-to-eat food
is not muktza is that although the frozen food is inedible bain hashmoshos,
since it can be defrosted and, thereby, become edible on Shabbos, it is
considered regular food and is not muktza.
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