Hakhel Email Community Awareness Bulletin
MARCH 2014 DAILY EMAIL ARCHIVE
29 Adar II
HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos relating to Pesach
in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty (30) days before
Pesach! Of course, one should in all events consult with his own Rav or
Posek pertaining to his particular facts or circumstances:
A. The Mishna Berurah (Orach
Chayim 436, seif katan 32) provides the following ruling to us for these
days before Pesach: “Kol Shloshim Yom Tzorich LeAyein Bechol Davar She’oseh She’lo Yishar
Bo Chometz Be’ofen She’lo Yuchal Lehasiro BeKal--during the
thirty days before Pesach one must be sure in everything that he does not to
leave Chometz over in a way which in which it will be difficult to remove or
dispose of”--the Housewife’s Vigilance is rooted deeply and firmly in
the words of the Mishna Berurah!
B. What is gebrukt--L’Halacha? The following is
culled from the excellent and need-to-have Sefer Halachos of Pesach (Feldheim), by Rabbi Shimon D. Eider, Z’tl:
1. Where matzah in any form (e.g. matzah meal, cake
meal) came in contact with water [or other liquids], some communities have a
minhag not to eat it on the first seven days of Pesach. Yet, we know that
once matzah was baked, it cannot become chometz again. What then is the
reason for this minhag? The Knesses
HaGedolah explains that it was made as a gezeirah, that one should not,
in error, come to use flour instead of matzah meal during Pesach. Another
reason mentioned is that there is a possibility that some of the matzah
flour was not kneaded well and when it will get wet it will become Chometz.
Since the last day of Pesach is MiD’Rabanan, many of those who accepted
this minhag did not accept it for the last day of Pesach because of Simchas
Yom Tov.
2. Can one change his minhag? Since gebrukt is not considered in halacha as chometz and this minhag was
not accepted by most communities, there are Poskim who hold that in case of
necessity one may change his minhag. However, a Rav should be consulted as
to whether Hataras Nedarim is
required. A woman, upon marriage, assumes the minhag of her husband (see Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim I: 158 and
III
:64).
C. Hakhel Alert: As the
saying goes, a fool learns from his own mistakes--a wise person learns from
the mistakes of others! When one notices two or three Hashgachos on a
product--one should look to make sure
that the Hashgacha that he is relying upon is actually certifying it
for Pesach near its insignia. Unless the ‘Kosher
L’Pesach’ insignia is next to the Hashgacha’s name--it does not mean
that the Hashgacha is certifying the product as Kosher L’Pesach. An extra
moment of purchasing caution--can save hours of kashering issues (or
at least moments of consternation or concern) later! As Chazal teach Aizehu
Chacham HaRo’eh Es HaNolad--the wise person looks into his actions and
understands their ramifications. We will be reading about the Chacham
on the Leil HaSeder--let’s start practicing now!
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Special Note One: The new
cycle of Praying With Fire (by Rabbi Heshy Kleinman, Artscroll)
begins tomorrow. The Torah teaches that our redemption from Mitzraim began
with our outcries (Shemos 2:23-24). We can demonstrate our recognition
of the power of Tefillah, and how important improving our Tefilla really is,
by beginning the incredibly successful 5-minute a day program in this
powerful Sefer. For those who have studied the Sefer one or more
times--Chazara always produces results! Hakhel Note: Incredibly, the new
cycle of Sefer Yearning with Fire (by
Rabbi Heshy Kleinman, Artscroll as well), which relates to how we can bring
the Geulah Sheleima, also begins tomorrow. Can there be anything more
timely?
Special Note Two: As we are
now planted in between the Parshios of Tazria and Metzora, it is important
to demonstrate our serious intent and desire to live Lashon Hara-free lives.
As a first step, each person can inculcate
the following Ten Rules of Shemiras
HaLashon, as distributed by the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation:
“Lashon Hara means the making of a derogatory or
damaging remark about someone. The Torah forbids one to denigrate the
behavior or character of a person or to make any remark that might cause
physical, psychological or financial harm.
These are ten basic rules to remember:
1. It is Lashon Hara to convey a derogatory image
of someone even if that image is true and deserved. (False derogatory
statements are called motzi shem ra,
slander.)
2. A statement which is not actually derogatory but
can ultimately cause someone physical, financial, or emotional harm is also
Lashon Hara.
3. It is Lashon Hara to humorously recount an
incident that contains embarrassing or damaging information about a person
even if there is not the slightest intent that they should suffer any harm
or humiliation.
4. Lashon Hara is forbidden even when you
incriminate yourself as well.
5. Lashon Hara cannot be communicated in any way,
shape, or form (i.e., through writing, body language, verbal hints. etc.).
6. To speak against a community as a whole is a
particularly severe offense. Harmful remarks about children are also Lashon
Hara.
7. Lashon Hara cannot be related even to close
relatives--including one’s spouse.
8. Even if the listener has previously heard the
derogatory account or the information has become public knowledge and the
subject will suffer no further harm by its repetition, it nevertheless
should not be repeated.
9. R’chilus, which is telling one person a
derogatory statement that another person said about them, is forbidden
because it causes animosity between people.
10. It is forbidden to listen to Lashon Hara or
r’chilus. If someone inadvertently hears Lashon Hara, it is forbidden to
believe that it is true. One should give the person the benefit of the
doubt--assume the information is inaccurate or that the person does not
realize he is doing something wrong.
NOTE: There are times when Lashon Hara is permitted
or even required. i.e., when
warning a person about potential harm, for example, a potential business or
marriage partner. On the other hand, secondhand information and baseless
impressions have momentous implications. The questions of when you are
allowed or even required to speak Lashon Hara are complicated. A Rabbinic
authority with expertise in the field of Shemiras Halashon should be
consulted in any of these cases.”
Hakhel Note: May we suggest
doing something--making an advanced contribution--in the fight against
Lashon Hara. How about memorizing
the Seven Prerequisites that must be fulfilled in order to be able to speak
(what may otherwise be considered Lashon Hara) for a constructive purpose?
How about putting to memory some of the Asehs or Lo Sa’asehs that a person
could violate if he speaks Lashon Hora? How about challenging oneself
to a Lashon Hora free day--or to making sure that you compliment at least
three people a day. Let us LIVE the Parshios--Day after Day after Day!
Special Note Three: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday
series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain
Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals
The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXXII
Question
Other than as previously discussed (Part XXVIII), are there any
“special” changes in Kesav
Arizal from Kesav Beis Yosef?
Answer
Indeed there are two general changes: one is limited
to tefillin, while the second applies to Sifrei Torah and mezuzos
as well.
When writing tefillin
parashiyos, there is a mesorah
that has been passed down through the ages regarding the number of lines on
which the Shel Rosh and Shel
Yad should be written, as well as which words should begin each line.
Seven lines are written in the Shel
Yad, while four lines are
written in the Shel Rosh and specific words are listed to begin each line.
The Arizal provides an alternate set of words with which to begin each line.
Indeed, many sofrim, when writing Kesav Arizal, arrange the lines in accordance with his
opinion.
The other change which the Arizal instituted in all
STA”M
items involves the writing of the Shem HaShem. When writing a Shem
HaShem, standard STA”M requires that the sofer have
specific (and, ideally, verbal) intent for the holiness of the Shem.
The Arizal, however, introduced an entirely new approach to writing
the Shem HaShem with regard to the kavanos (intentions and
awareness) one should have when writing. He also insisted that the Shem
be written according to a configuration of the letters described in the Zohar.
In spite of the fact that most sofrim
nowadays are not on the spiritual level to understand the kavanos,
the custom when writing Kesav Arizal remains to configure the
letters of the Shem as specified by the Zohar in accordance
with the Arizal’s opinion.
It should be noted as well that when
writing Kesav
Arizal, it is also customary to
include Shimusha Rabbah tagin. (This will be addressed in a future discussion BE”H.)
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26 Adar II
FROM A READER: “When Yaakov first meets Rachel, he
is at a well with some shepherds, waiting for enough to come by to move the
stone that protects the well. As she approaches, he asks the shepherds if
all is well with his cousin Lavan, and they answer, “All peaceful, Vehinei
Racheil Bito Ba’ah Im Hatzon — and here is Racheil his
daughter, coming with the flock” (Bereishis 29:6).
A few pesukim later, “When he is still speaking to them, VeRachel
Ba’ah Im Hatzon — and Rachel came with the flock that belongs
to her father” (Ibid v 9). Notice that one time “ba’ah” is
used to mean that Rachel was on her way, the other that she had arrived
already. Rashi clarifies with a grammatical point; it makes a difference
which syllable gets the trop mark and stress. The first
usage was “ba’AH”, with the stress on the second syllable,
meaning “she is coming”. The second, “BA’ah” — “she
came”.
Everyone assumes that the line said at the end of Yom Kippur and
the Pesach Seder is “Leshanah haBA’ah biYrushalayim — the
coming year in
Jerusalem
”. But the Satmar Rav, HaRav Yoel
Teitelbaum, Z’tl, said this is a mistake.
We voice this desire at the close of Yom Kippur, shortly after
the year began on Rosh HaShanah, and on Pesach, shortly after the beginning
of the year of months, the beginning of Nissan. We say it when a year just
arrived. The line should not be said with the stress as “ba’AH”
but rather say “BA’ah” — We
are speaking of the year that just came!
Leshanah haBA’ah
biYrushalayim habenuyah!”
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YOUR TEFILLAH IS NOT
TOO
SMALL! The Mesilas
Yeshorim (end of Chapter 19) writes that one should never say about
himself “Who am I that my Tefillos should be answered to bring an end to
this Galus?” Instead, one should daven for the Geulah with Kavannah, for
it may be your very Tefillah that brings the Geulah! Rav Shimshon Dovid
Pincus, Z’tl, in Shearim B’Tefilah
(p. 94) in fact writes that Tefillah does not change nature or create
miracles. Tefillah is simply the natural manner of modifying nature, built
into creation in the same manner as grass, trees, fish and animals. Hakhel
Note: The students of Daf Yomi may have noted that in the recent dafim, we
have learned about the coming of Moshiach…. Some may view it as
‘coincidence’--others as Inyanei
D’Yoma!
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HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos relating to Pesach
in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty (30) days before
Pesach! Of course, one should in
all events consult with his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his particular
facts or circumstances:
Almost everyone purchases
some kind of new utensil before Pesach. Accordingly, in order to give you
plenty of time, we
once again provide the Hakhel Tevilas
Keilim Guidelines (reviewed By HaRav Yisroel
Belsky Shlita). Please note
that Tevilas Keilim is an obligation (chiyuv), and if not done properly, a
k’li may not be used until toveled correctly.
General
Tevila Reminders:
A. All chatzitzos (i.e., dirt, glue and stickers or other items or
markings not part of the k’li which neither the owner nor most people
would use with this item on the k’li) must be removed prior to submersion.
B. The entire k’li (even if oversized) must be fully submerged
all at once (not one-half first, then the other half immediately
thereafter).
C. Do not hold the k’li tightly, so that the mikva water can
reach everywhere. You can tovel the k’li by moving your hand to another
part of the k’li while holding it below the water level; or you can dip
your hand in the mikva first, and then take hold of the k’li and submerge
it in the mikva.
D. All keilim should be submerged right side up or on a slant, but
not upside down, so that no air is trapped in the utensil.
E. Submersion must be supervised only by an individual over bar/bas
mitzvah. A child may be tovel keilim if an adult sees him do it.
F. Using baskets:
1. Items should be placed in the basket side by side and not on top
of each other.
2. The basket may be submerged in water, and then you may drop
utensils into the basket, so that each utensil is surrounded by water as it
falls in.
G. The Bracha:
1. Brachos are made for metal and glass utensils only.
2. “Al Tevilas Keli”
for one item, “Al Tevilas Keilim”
for more than one item.
3. Hold the k’li in
your hand (or basket) and be ready to tovel immediately after making the
brocha.
4. When toveling storage utensils or utensils which come into
contact with the food while it is not yet edible, no bracha is made.
Hakhel
Note: Tevilas Keilim is such a basic, beautiful and simple Mitzvah to
perform--let us take a moment out to make sure that we, and those around us,
are performing it properly! Please distribute further--and if you can,
post these guidelines near your Keilim Mikveh!
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Special Note
One: We continue with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series:
A. As
this Shabbos is Parashas Hachodesh, we were alerted to Chazal (Shabbos 147B)
who teach that because he spent some time away from his regular Torah
studies, Rebbi Elazar Ben Arach, the great student of Rabban Yochanan Ben
Zakkai, was unable to read “HaChodesh
Hazeh Lachem” (the beginning of Parashas HaChodesh) properly--and
instead read it as “Hachreish Hayah
Libam” (their heart was deafened). The
lesson to us is clear: For the next two and half weeks, our Torah study
will be placed at a great test--we will be tempted on many occasions to
forgo or curtail our regular Keviyus
Ittim LaTorah, our regular Torah accomplishments, our regular chavrusos.
Chazal are teaching us that we must remember that it is HaChodesh
Hazeh Lachem--a very special month coming up--but marked by a dedicated
commitment and resilience to Torah study in the face of difficulties and
challenges. We have to prove that for us--we want to make it HaChodesh
Hazeh Lachem! If one needs guidance, he should speak to his Rav or Posek!
B. The following is excerpted from the new Zemiros Shabbos, by HaRav Tzvi Yavrov, Shlita, which provides
insights of HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, into various aspects of Shabbos:
1. L’Halacha, one may
recite Hashem’s name when singing Zemiros on Shabbos, as when one thanks
Hashem it is not considered to be using Hashem’s name in vain (see Sefer Chazon
Ish, Orach Chaim 137:5 d’h kasav).
The Steipeler Gaon, Z’tl, however, did not do so.
2. The reason that the songs we sing on Shabbos are not called
Shiros or Sishbachos, but Zemiros is because Dovid HaMelech (actually,
originally, Adam HaRishon) exclaimed: “Mizmor Shir LeYom HaShabbos”!
3. Hashem completed the world on Shabbos and thus ruled over it. It
is for this reason that the Zohar refers to Seudas Shabbos as Seudasah
D’Malka (Zohar, Bamidbar 179). Accordingly, we find the concept of
Malchiyos in our Shabbos Tefillos--the many references to Malchus
in Kabbalas Shabbos, Yismechu
V’Malchusecha, Vesimloch Aleinu
(in Kedusha), and the Pesukim of Malchiyos recited before taking out the
Torah. Hakhel Note: Additionally, the Mishna Berurah writes that one should
stand in Pesukei D’Zimra when reciting “Hashem
Melech, Hashem Malach, Hashem Yimloch L’Olam Va’ed!”
4. The basis for the custom of parents blessing their children on
Shabbos is that Shabbos itself is a Siman
Bracha (see S’T Chasam Sofer
Orach Chaim 23 and Siddur Ya’avetz).
5. Shabbos is referred to as a chok
(‘Sham Sam Lo Chok U’Mishpat’)
even though the Torah explains the reason for its observance--Hashem’s
completion of the world. Nevertheless, it is a chok
because it is so chamur, that its
violation is compared to worshipping idols. Moreover, we must be careful of
any thoughts which could dampen the Shabbos spirit.
6. The bracha of Kiddush is not a Birchas HaMitzvah, but is a
Bracha of Shevach. It is for this reason that we do not say B’Mitzvosav
V’Tzivanu, but B’Mitzvosav V’Ratzah Vanu.
7. On Shabbos, many recite Tehillim 23--Mizmor L’Dovid Hashem Ro’ee Lo Echsar. The reason that this is a
custom is because although akum
lack the ‘taste’ of Shabbos and its foods--as is evidenced by the ma’aseh
with Rebbi Yehudah HaNassi and Antoninus--we
lack nothing!
8. In
bentsching we recite Retzei
V’Hachalitzeinu. The simple meaning of V’Hachalitzeinu
is strengthen us--we ask Hashem to
give us the ability to properly observe and perform all of the Mitzvos of
Shabbos.
9. Also in
Retzei, we ask Hashem to show us Nechemas
Tzion Irecha. The Sefer Avudraham
writes that Nechemas Tzion will
occur on Shabbos. HaRav Kanievsky, Shlita, adds that according to the
Yerushalmi if K’lal Yisrael observed only one Shabbos we would be
immediately redeemed--and this really means immediately--on Motza’ei
Shabbos!
10. HaRav
Kanievsky, Shlita, also teaches that we conclude Retzei with a Tefillah for
Geulah and the acknowledgement that Hashem can remove all of our anguish and
bring us Yeshuos--for Hashem’s powers extend beyond the Shabbos and into
the coming week--and the entire future ahead!
Special Note
Two: We provide the following lessons from the powerful Parasha of Tazria:
A. We
learn of the terrible affliction of Tzora’as. Chazal (Arachin 15B)
teach that if one speaks Lashon Hara, he will be punished with this dreaded
ailment. HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, was asked whether the Lo Sa’aseh
of Hishamer B’negah Tzara’as, still applies to Lashon Hara in our
times--after all, no Kohen will pronounce any person tamei. HaRav Kanievsky answered that this negative prohibition does
not require a declaration of tumah
for the prohibition to exist. Tza’aras
could exist, but for the fact that we lack the qualified Kohen to pronounce
it. It is for this reason that the Chofetz Chaim counts Hishamer B’negah Tza’aras as a prohibition applicable to Lashon
Hara--even in our day.
B. In a
different vein, the Sefer Me’am Loez asks why it is that in our
times we see people speak Lashon Hara--and yet they appear whole and
healthy? He provides the following shocking response: “You should know
that the Tzora’as referred to in the Torah could either afflict a
person’s body or soul, and if it does not afflict his body, it will
afflict his soul. Indeed, the Tzora’as of the soul is worse than
the Tzora’as of the body, as the
Zohar writes that in the Heavens there is a special place called ‘Negah
Tzara’as’, where the Neshamos who spoke Lashon Hara are punished.”
C. HaRav
Refeol Shain, Shlita, provides the following insight: Why is it that a metzora
becomes tamei only upon the pronouncement of a Kohen who views the blemish
—after all, it may have been days or weeks for which a person was
afflicted with the blemish prior to the Kohen seeing it—and for this
entire period he is Tahor and can be with his family and not be considered
‘defiled or ‘defiling’ just because a Kohen didn’t utter the word
‘tamei.’ Rabbi Shain explains
that a key cause of Tzora’as is Lashon Hara. With the pronouncement
of the word “tamei’, the
person is made to understand the power of just one word. Before the
utterance of that word, his entire world was different one—a happy one,
with friends and family, joined together with his community and able to
reach the highest heights. Now, as a metzora,
he is ostracized and alone, ashamed and secluded. That one word of the Kohen
was in response to perhaps that ‘just one word’ he had uttered against
his friend or neighbor, adult or child. Until his utterance of that one
negative word, the world was different for someone else—and with the word
uttered, his reputation has been tarnished, a shidduch ruined, a business
deal suspended, or a friendship ended. We can create and destroy existential
worlds—depending on that one word that we use. So, will it be “Uhh!”
or “Ahh!” The bechira chofshis—that
choice—is yours!
D. HaRav
Nachman M’Breslov is said to have taught: Children learn how to speak,
while the elderly learn how to remain silent. Who should we better learn
from--the children or the elderly?! Chazal teach: “Yofeh Shesika Lechachomim Kal Vechomer
Letipshim--silence is beautiful
for the wise all the more so for the unwise.” As we
take lessons from the Parasha of Tazria this week, we should do so with an
uplifted sense of our power of speech--oh how it is important to use in many
situations--and how important it is to refrain from using in many
situations. This
is the perfect time to practice circumspection and judiciousness in our
speech, particularly with regards to people with whom one has fallen prey to
forbidden speech in the past.
Moreover, there
are certain terms and phrases which may not constitute Ona’as Devarim
against others, but could be hurtful to the individual himself,
simply by virtue of uttering the very words. It is well known (as we have
previously published) that HaRav Pam, Z’tl, objected to use of ‘whatchamacallit’,
because it indicated that a person was not thinking before he spoke. There
are other terms as well which simply do not take into account the Kedushas
HaPeh that we all possess. Here are just a very few. Please feel free to
add on to the list (and send to us, if you would like):
· “I have done
this a thousand trillion times.”--Although exaggeration may be permitted
in general, the notion of a gross untruth could have a significantly
negative impact on the person as a whole--especially if it becomes a habit.
· In order to
express frustration or difficulty, uttering a word which has the first
syllable which is identical to that of a curse word.
· “I know
someone who is filthy rich”--what, after all, does ‘filthy rich’
mean--is one also ‘filthy poor’? Isn’t it up to Hashem whether
one is wealthy or poor--for whatever reason (whether it be a reward, test,
etc.)--how could anyone refer to that r’l as filthy?
· “I don’t
care”--Even when not uttered to hurt another person, it can have an impact
on a person’s attitude, goals or approach.
HaRav Avigdor
Miller, Z’tl, (brought in the Sefer Sha’ari Orah) teaches that
one should practice silence for a few minutes every day--the result is
getting a better handle on one’s speech, and improving Yiras Shomayim--
through one’s awareness that one’s words are listened to--and do really
mean something and count.
E. TAKING THE TIME FOR THE EXTRA SHEMIRA: A CONCLUDING
THOUGHT. After
having STUDIED THE LESSONS of the Parasha of Tazria, we realize that
Shemiras Halashon must play an essential part in our lives, and that we must
always endeavor and strive for improvement in this area. For all those who
study the daily two Halachos, or any other daily Shemiras Halashon Sefer--may
we once again suggest reading the daily study aloud even to yourself (it can
be softly!) and/or perhaps re-reading the lesson a second time--so that you
demonstrate affirmatively that you want to use your mouth for the right
reasons and in the right way! We welcome any suggestions you may have
as to how to strengthen others in Shemiras HaLashon. We also remind our
readers about the outstanding resource known as the Chofetz
Chaim Heritage Foundation’s Shemiras Halashon Shaila Hotline--718-951-3696
(M-Th nights and Motzei Shabbos 9-10:30 pm EST, and for emergencies)--where
you can ask expert Poskim your Shemiras Halashon Shailos in the situation
(business, shidduchim, friends) that you find yourself in. What an
opportunity to make sure that you do the right thing for all concerned!
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25 Adar II
HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos
relating to Pesach in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty
(30) days before Pesach! Of course, one should in all events consult with
his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his particular facts or circumstances:
A. The
Mishna Berurah writes that it is a good practice to burn one’s Chometz
together with the Hoshanos from Sukkos--since one Mitzvah was done with it,
a second Mitzvah of Tashbisu should be performed with it as well. The Rema brings a
different Minhag--to bake Matzos with the Hoshanos (Shulchan Aruch Orach
Chaim 445, Mishna Berurah seif katan 7, Dirshu Note 10).
B. Can
one take any leftover Chometz that he has and throw it into his trash can on
the side of his house? HaRav Moshe Feinstein, Z’tl, (Igros
Moshe, Orach Chaim 3:57) rules that even though one would not violate Ba’al Yeira’eh with Chometz disposed of in a trash can,
nevertheless, one should destroy any Chometz by the time the z’man
of biur arrives. Many Poskim,
including the Minchas Yitzchak and
Shevet HaLevi agree. The Steipeler
Gaon, Z’tl, held that one should sell the Chometz in his trash cans, and
reports that it was the Minhag of the Chazon Ish to burn the Chometz that
was found in trash cans, and to wash the cans out with water. The Steipeler
himself would pour kerosene into the cans in order to ensure that there was
no leftover edible Chometz within them. HaRav Elyashiv, Z’tl, on the other
hand, rules that when one throws trash into a trash can, it is no longer
usable, and is the same as giving it to an akum,
with no further action being required (ibid., Dirshu Note 22).
C. If c’v,
one found Chometz in his home on Pesach--what should he do--after all, has
he not sold it to an akum, and
accordingly, it is no longer his to destroy? HaRav Tzvi Pesach Frank, Z’tl,
rules that, in fact, one should not burn it, but put it away together with
other Chometz that he has sold. The Shevet
HaLevi, rules that lechatechila
one should make a fence around it--but if one cannot do so, then he can
place it in the location of items that he sold to an akum.
The Shevet HaLevi adds that it may
very well be that it is permissible to burn this Chometz, for the akum would understand, is mochel,
and not consider this to be problematic in terms of the sale (ibid., 446,
Dirshu Note 2)
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Special Note
One: There is a disagreement
between Rebbi Yehoshua and Rebbi Eliezer as to the date on the calendar upon
which man was created. Tosfos explains that according to Rebbi
Yehoshua, who holds that man was created on Rosh Chodesh Nissan, it would
mean that the first day of Ma’aseh Bereishis--the day the world began--is
today, the 25th of Adar! What a great day it is to
start something new. A new Mitzvah, a new project, a new goal, a new
accomplishment. Each and every one of us has the ability to--and
should strive to do so. In this regard, we provide the following
insights--from Dovid HaMelech himself in the extremely poignant and
instructive Chapter 119 of Tehillim:
A. Dovid
exclaims (Tehillim 119:164): ’Sheva Bayom Hillalticha Ahl
Mishpetei Tzidkecha...Seven Times a Day I have praised you for Your
righteous ordinances’. Rashi (ibid.) explains that these Seven
Times are in fact the Seven Brachos that we recite every day which
relate directly to Kriyas Shema--Three Brachos in Shacharis (two
before Kriyas Shema and one after), and Four Brachos in Ma’ariv
(two before Kriyas Shema and two after). What a great new goal it
would be if we would especially recognize the tremendous importance and
significance of these Brachos--rather than viewing them only as portals to
Kriyas Shema or Shemone Esrei--and put some real Kavannah into their
recitation. Seven focused Brachos a day--revolving around our
fundamental daily Kriyas Shema--truly a phenomenal accomplishment.
Dovid Hamelech expressed it clearly--Sheva BaYom Hillalticha--and
this is what he meant!
B. Dovid
pleads (Tehillim 119:18) ‘Gal Ainai Ve’Abita Niflaos
MiTorasecha--unveil my eyes that I may perceive wonders from Your Torah.’
The Torah is so deep and there is so much for us to know. One may
dejectedly ask: Is the task really possible? This is definitely
not the appropriate question--a more telling query for oneself is--what am I
really doing to gain as much Divine Knowledge as I can? Beyond my set
or daily Torah study, am I steadfastly and actively seeking Hashem’s
guidance--am I asking Hashem for help daily--for eye-opening understanding
in what to study, how to study--and in the study itself? When stuck or
stymied on a point, when tired or unclear, when unsure how to next
proceed--do I ‘turn off’--or instead do I recite this very Pasuk that
Dovid Hamelech recited when he was in his own similar situation (on his
level)?! Hashem as the Source of all Torah can most certainly assist
you to acquire more and more of it. Commit the Pasuk to memory--and
use it very sincerely--and very freely!
C. Dovid
teaches (Tehillim 119:129) Pela’os Eidvosecha Al Kain Netzarasam
Nafshi--Your testimonies are wonders, therefore my soul has guarded them.
Rashi (ibid.) comments that the enormity of Mitzvah accomplishment is
hidden from us--as an example, he cites the Mitzvah of Shi’luach HaKan--which
appears so simple, quick and costless--yet has Arichus Yomim attached to it
in and of itself. With this in mind, no Mitzvah should be downplayed,
underrated, skipped, or skimped upon. Chazal teach that HaYom La’Asosam--our Mitzvah performance is limited to our time in
this world, and so no G-d given opportunity should be forsaken. Moreover,
one should actively seek to perform Mitzvos that he has not had the
opportunity to perform before. Dovid (Tehillim 119:19) actually
expresses it clearly with the words: ‘Ger
Anochi Va’Aretz Al Taster Mimeni Mitzvosecha--I am a sojourner in the
world, hide not Your Mitzvos from me’. If one views each day as
a fountainhead of burgeoning opportunities--if he sees the events in his
life as true occasions for eternity, if one actively looks to uncover and
achieve new sources for his soul’s satisfaction--then he is taking the
teachings of Dovid HaMelech to heart. The Chayei Odom devotes an
entire Chapter (Chapter 68) to appreciating and accomplishing Mitzvos.
If possible, one should study it, and even review it again from time to
time. Hashem has given and continues to give us gifts of
immense proportions daily--let us try hard to appreciate, to rejoice in, and
make the most of these Heavenly gifts. We can than ask for more and
more--which He will be happy to give--and which will give
Him nachas! A new, devoted effort to appreciate and strive for
Mitzvos daily-- What opportunity! Thank you--25 Adar!
Special Note Two: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday series
on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain Mendlowitz,
Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals The Answers
To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or Maintaining Tefillin,
Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXXI
We
have been discussing the ideal klaf to use for various Sta”m items.
TEFILLIN
SHEL
YAD
The parashiyos
of the tefillin shel yad consist of the same four parashiyos
as
the tefillin shel rosh. Unlike the shel rosh which is
written on four separate pieces of klaf, the shel yad is
written on one long piece of klaf. It is then rolled up from left to
right, and placed into the bayis of the tefillin shel yad.
Provided that the left side of the klaf is not especially hard or
thick, this generally does not cause any problems. Therefore, one need not
demand that the tefillin shel
yad be written specifically on
thin klaf.
MEZUZOS
Mezuzos are also rolled
from left to right. However, unlike tefillin
shel yad, it is extremely common to find cracked letters on the left side
of a mezuzah.
It should also be noted that mezuzos often
experience significant wear and tear when being inserted and removed from
their cases. If the klaf is thick, it can dent and cause letters to
crack, as opposed to soft klaf, which is flexible.
It is, therefore, very advisable to purchase mezuzos that have been
written on thin, soft klaf. This does not mean that the klaf must be paper-thin, just not so thick or hard
that seams and cracks develop.
It bears mentioning that when removing the mezuzos from their cases for
checking, and subsequently reinserting them, supreme caution should be
exercised to avoid ruining a perfectly good mezuza.
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24 Adar II
BRINGING THE LESSON HOME! Yesterday, we learned how Purim takes Tzedaka and
elevates it to Matanos L’Evyonim.
Pesach, then, takes this lesson a step further by showing that the money
that we share with our brothers is Ma’os Chittim--money shared by brothers among each other. Ma’os
Chittim is of EXTREME IMPORTANCE
NOW
. The Rambam in Hilchos Rotzeiach (12:15)
writes that
Doniyale was
punished with the Nisayon of being placed into the Gov Arayos, the Lion’s
Den, because of the great advice that he gave to Nevuchadnetzar the Rasha.
Based upon
Doniyale’s advice
and the punishment he received, the Rambam rules that it is forbidden to
give good advice to one who is undeserving (see there). What was
the advice that
Doniyale gave to Nevuchadnetzar that was so great that made
Doniel so culpable? The Rambam writes that he advised
Nevuchadnetzar that he could save himself from the dire events of the dream
Nevuchadnetzar had seen by providing money to deserving people.
If Doniyale’s
advice to a Rasha to give money to help others in order to save himself from
punishment was so potent that Doniyale was punished with the Nisayon of the Lion’s Den--imagine how much the
ACTUAL GIVING to the Truly Needy for Pesach will shake the Heavens! May it
really and truly stand as a Zechus For Your Families and all of K’lal
Yisroel in these turmoil-filled times, and may it bring the final Geulah--when
we will all be filled with Joy-- oh so much closer.
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HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos
relating to Pesach in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty
(30) days before Pesach! Of course,
one should in all events consult with his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his
particular facts or circumstances:
A. One fulfills
the Mitzvas Asei of Tashbisu by
appropriately removing Chometz from his possession. If one fulfills Tashbisu
by burning his Chometz, he should burn the Chometz until it becomes
thoroughly burned, like charcoal. The Rema writes that it is our Minhag to
burn the Chometz, rather than dispose of it by throwing it into the water or
flushing it away in the lavatory, and the Mishna Berurah explains that this
is because there are some Poskim who rule in accordance with Rebbi Yehuda
that the only way to dispose of Chometz is through burning (Shulchan Aruch
Orach Chaim 445:1; Mishna Berurah seif katan 1, 3 and 14).
B. HaRav Shlomo
Zalmen Auerbach, Z’tl, rules that one should not pour kerosene or a
similar flammable agent on the Chometz while burning it, because while doing
so he renders the Chometz inedible to a dog, in which case there is no
longer an obligation of biur.
Accordingly, if one did so, he would not fulfill the Mitzvas Asei of Tashbisu.
If one feels that he must quicken the process of burning the Chometz, then
he should leave at least a kezayis to burn without the aid of kerosene.
HaRav Nissim Karelitz feels that one can be lenient in this regard because
the kerosene burns before the Chometz itself, and in any event HaRav
Auerbach rules that if one does so, one need not rebuke him or perhaps one
can view the entire act as one act of burning (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim,
Dirshu Note 8).
C. If one does
dispose of it by throwing it into the water or into the wind in a public
place, he should crumble it into small pieces, so that anyone who finds it
cannot obtain any benefit from the Chometz (ibid., Mishna Berurah seif katan
2).
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Special Note One: As
last week the Parasha taught us about Kosher animals, birds and fish, we
once again provide a brief summary on the kashrus of turkey, as excerpted
from the Sefer Shaleiach Teshalach--A
Practical Guide to the Mitzvah of Shiluach HaKan, by Rabbi Naftali
Weinberger, Shlita (Feldheim Publishers)--which notes that Israel today
actually leads the world in turkey consumption(!):
1. The Damesek Eliezer, the Knesses
Hagedolah and the Shoel
U’Maishiv all rule that the turkey has all of the signs of a Kosher
bird-- a crop; a gizzard that is peelable by hand; an ‘extra toe’; and,
even beyond these three core simanim, the turkey is clearly not a ‘doress’--it
does not have the characteristics of a predatory species. The Arugas
Habosem writes that even the Rema, who requires a Mesorah for birds,
would agree here that no Mesorah is necessary because of all of the
turkey’s clear Simanim.
2. The Sefer Otzar Yisrael writes that while definitely today we would follow the
Rema’s requirement of a Mesorah for birds --turkey is an exception because
it was discovered approximately 50 years before the Rema was born, and did
not lose its status once it had become accepted.
3. Other Poskim (See Bach
and Magen Avrohom to Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 79) hold that the Gemara (Yerushalmi
Berachos 3:5) refers to a ‘red chicken’ which is really the
turkey--which means it had its early sources in Eretz Yisroel... and somehow
made its way to America!
4. A fourth possibility is
that we rely on the Mesora of the Jews of India, who it is claimed had a
Mesorah dating back to the times Moshe Rabbeinu that the bird was Kosher.
This is perhaps why we refer to the turkey as the ‘Tarnigol
Hodu ‘--the Indian chicken, and in Yiddish as well it is referred to
as the ‘Indik’--or the Indian bird.
5. The Netziv writes that
when turkey was originally imported into Europe many questioned its Mesorah.
Nevertheless, it became widely accepted, and this accepted status need not
be Halachically removed unless there would be a compelling reason to do
so--in short, turkey is treated L’Halacha as if it had a Mesorah! The
Netziv actually suggests that if the turkey’s status had been called into
question before it became so widely accepted as kosher, the poskim
definitely would have declared it as non-kosher due to its lack of Mesorah.
Given the current situation, the Netziv favors maintaining the status quo.
Among the more contemporary
Poskim, HaRav Moshe Feinstein, Z’tl discusses the permissibility of eating
turkey on Thanksgiving, thus clearly holding that it is permissible to
otherwise consume it. Similarly,
the Chazon Ish, Z’tl and the Steipeler Gaon, Z’tl ate turkey (Orchos
Rabbeinu
III
,
p.72), and HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita eats it as well. HaRav Yaakov
Kamenetsky, Z’tl did not eat turkey because his Rebbitzen Itta Ettel came
from
Shavell
,
Lithuania
, where the minhag of the whole town was not to eat
turkey since it lacked a Mesorah. HaRav Yaakov accepted this upon himself,
but did not require his family to do so. His son, HaRav Shmuel Kamenetsky,
Shlita, accepted his father’s practice and does not eat turkey--but his
children and extended family do--for it was accepted only as a stringency,
and not as a custom.
The above is of course only
a short aspect of this important Sefer on the Halachos (and Hashkafos) of
Shiluach Hakan,. The Sefer is otherwise filled with unique and
fascinating Halachos on how to properly perform the Mitzvah, contains the
Shailos U’Teshuvos of HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita on this Mitzvah--and a
discussion of all of the segulos involved in its proper performance!
Special Note Two:
The following is based on a Shiur given by HaRav Mattisyahu Salomon,
Shlita, which we once again provide to enlighten and uplift our readers:
Rabbeinu Yonah in the Shaarei
Teshuvah (2:5) writes that a Botei’ach
BaShem--one who trusts in Hashem--who is in the midst of a t’zara,
a difficulty, or even only a challenge, must view the situation differently
than the millions of people surrounding him.
The Pasuk in Micha (7:8) as
explained in Midrash Tehillim (22) teaches, “If I had not fallen, I could
not now stand, if I had not sat in darkness, I would not now have light.”
The common perception that one “passes through”, “recovers”,
“rebounds” or “survives” his suffering is foreign to the one who
truly trusts in Hashem. Rather, the one who trusts views his suffering
as an opportunity ordained by G-d--only FROM THE FALL comes the rise, only
FROM THE DARKNESS comes the light.
It is not the Ribono Shel
Olam pushing him down, letting go, making it difficult for him--it is a fall
created by Hashem Himself to enable him to rise, a pervasive darkness
required in order to attain true light.
HaRav Salomon explains that
the Botei’ach BaShem does not
say “Hashem will get me out of this” or “There is a light at the end
of this tunnel.” Instead, he acknowledges and understands that the
purpose of the tunnel is for him to arrive at the light. One must, as
a given, acknowledge and understand that the All-Knowing, All-Present,
Creator and Supervisor has intentionally designed the process by which one
can attain the goals he is to reach in his lifetime. The trials,
tribulations, and difficulties are not established out of cruelty, disdain
or indifference, but arise because He, in His Omniscience, knows (infinitely
more than us) who are we are really and what we really need.
In this elevated period
between Purim and Pesach, we can understand this lesson both on an
individual and a communal level.
Esther, a descendent of
royalty, wife of a leader of the generation, and a Neviah in her own right,
is forced to live in the most repulsive place imaginable, away from her
family and her people--in a literal prison without walls--for nine (9) long
years, without any seeming rhyme or reason. What had she done?!
Can we fathom what her suffering could have been? What emerged was the
saving of all of K’lal Yisrael, and the rebuilding of the Beis HaMikdash
as a direct result of the few discussions she had with Achashveirosh, as
recorded in the Megillah.
Similarly, in Mitzrayim,
hundreds of thousands of B’nei Yisrael suffered from “Avodas
Perech”--in all its definitions, systematic torture--for scores of
years. What went wrong? How did all this happen? And the
Torah supplies a two-word answer--[We were placed in Mitzrayim as a] “KUR
HABARZEL”--a smith’s oven, used to refine metal. Why were they
there under these horrific conditions? So that K’lal Yisroel would
survive and thrive from then on and through the Mashiach’s times and
forever thereafter.
HaRav Salomon points to the
wine we drink on both Purim and Pesach. Why is wine so crucial on
these special days and why is wine the only food over which we recite the
brocha “Hatov V’HaMativ”--Hashem
is good and does good? If we study the wine-making process, we note that
luscious, edible grapes are stomped on or crushed before they would
otherwise have been eaten. Then, instead of drinking the resulting
liquid, we watch in amazement as it ferments and becomes moldy and terrible
tasting. Are these people sadistic--spoiling such good grapes?
But then--after the wine ages and matures, it is filtered and what is
produced is not a thirst-quencher, but an honorable beverage, which lifts up
a person’s spirits.
To the Botei’ach BaShem, Rav Salomon continues, this is a microcosm of
the Ribono Shel Olam’s Hanhaga--behavior--in this world. Without the
fermentation process--without the years of repulsive mold which seems
irreversible--we could not have the brand, kind and taste of wine which a
connoisseur could appreciate and savor. We can now understand why we
make “Hatov V’HaMativ” specifically on wine--because we realize that
the process was necessary and intended by the world’s Creator and we
acknowledge that it is for good--notwithstanding our original
misconceptions. The cup of wine that we drink has gone through an
entire process and represents how we are to understand the Hashgachas Hashem
in our world.
As we go through these days
of Purim to Pesach, a time that is surrounded by intense suffering that led
to sparkling redemption--as symbolized by the wine of which we partake--we,
too, should become connoisseurs and remember that Hashem will take us out of
all of our current t’zaros,
individual and collective, just as the horribly soured wine is ultimately
whiffed and savored by the most discerning of experts.
We can perhaps do this best through constantly reminding ourselves of
Hashem’s Hashgacha in our everyday lives--to the smallest detail--and our
Bitachon can be especially reinforced by the dedicated way in which we
recite our brachos--no matter how harried, time-pressured or distracted one
may otherwise be!
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23 Adar II
LET
THE BUYER BEWARE!
According to their customer service center, Dial soaps and body washes which
are sold under the trade name “Dial
Yogurt” may have both milk and meat sources in their ingredients.
Accordingly, one should consult with his Rav or Posek as to the
advisability of obtaining benefit from these products.
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BRACHOS ALERT:
According to the Star-K, the bracha to be recited on Puffins cereal
(Barbara’s Bakery) is Shehakol and Borei Nefashos, notwithstanding any oat
flour ingredients in it.
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SHATNEZ NOTICE:
Hakhel received the following notice from the Vaad
L’Mishmeres Shatnez:
Garments should be tested
at qualified Shatnez laboratories only. Professional
Shatnez testing is vital in ensuring a garment is free of Shatnez. Call
the Vaad at 1-877-4-SHATNEZ for more information.
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HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos
relating to Pesach in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty
(30) days before Pesach! The following halachos are culled from the Sefer Halachos of Pesach (Feldheim), by Rabbi Shimon D. Eider, Z’tl. This Sefer is an outstanding
resource in English for practical Halachos of Pesach. Of course, one should
in all events consult with his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his particular
facts or circumstances:
A. We find throughout
Hilchos Pesach the term Chumra
D’Chometz.
Since
chometz
is punishable with Kares, there
are many Chumros accepted in
dealing with chometz on Pesach which are not used in dealing
with other prohibited foods (e.g. Chometz on Pesach is prohibited b’mashehu
while other issurim are Batel
B’Shishim). Because of Chumra
D’Peasch, many minhagim were
accepted, most of these have a basis in Halacha:
B.
Some communities did not eat
dried fruit during Pesach. The basis for
this minhag is that flour was spread on the fruit during
the
drying process. In addition, the
ovens used for drying were also used for chometz. Where there is proper supervision, it is permissible.
C.
Some communities did not eat
garlic during Pesach. Although the basis for this minhag is questionable (some say that the farmers
would soak the garlic
in beer), where there is proper supervision, most Poskim hold that
even
ground garlic is permissible.
D.
Some people use only
unwashed eggs during Pesach. Their reason is that since the eggs were
washed with the chicken feed (which may contain chometz) and with
questionable detergents, chometz may have been absorbed
by
the eggs during the washing. Although most Poskim hold that it is
permissible,
the
eggs should be rinsed before cooking.
E.
Because the Jewish people
are a nation of Kedoshim and Chassadim and the Ari, Z’tl, said that one
who is saved from violating even the most minute issur of
chometz
on Pesach is assured that the entire year he will not sin, individuals
have
accepted upon themselves additional Chumros for Pesach.
F. Although some of these
minhagim have no firm basis in halacha, one who conducts himself in this way
and his intentions are purely L’Sheim Shomayim,the Sha’arei
Teshuvah (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 460) applies the Pasuk:
V’Ameich Kulam Tzaddikim (Yeshaya
16:21).
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V’ASAF
ISH
TAHOR: In
the Parasha of Parah Adumah that we leined
last week, the Pasuk records V’Asaf
Ish Tahor Es Efer HaParah--a pure man shall gather the ash of the red
heifer (Bamidbar 19:9). The Ba’al HaTurim (ibid.) writes that in our day
the Tefillah of Tzaddikim can act as our own personal Assaf
Ish Tahor…. We must take the lesson--and ask Tzaddikim to daven on our
personal behalves!
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REALITY CHECK: HaRav
Eliyahu Lopian, Z’tl, (Lev Eliyahu
II: p.25) brings Chazal who teach that a tell-tale sign of the coming of
Moshiach is ‘V’Hamalchus
Teihafeich L’Minus--the kingdom turns to heresy”. One would think,
continues HaRav Lopian, Z’tl, that this refers to the Russians, the Greeks
or some other nation. However,
HaRav Lopian relates (from HaRav Yaakov Emden, Z’tl, in his commentary to
Bava Metziah) that it also refers to the Malchus Yisrael that will exist B’Ikvasa
D’Meshicha as well. HaRav
Lopian then almost prophetically immediately continues that in his time the
Yeshivos are allowed to continue their full-time studies without being
drafted into the army and for this he urges all to give thanks to Hashem and
to acknowledge the fulfillment of ‘Ki
Lo Sisashach MePi Zaro”. Hakhel
Note: Based upon the teaching of HaRav Lopian, we live in a time that is
concomitantly extremely frightening and very much filled with the great hope
that thousands of years of yearning will come to fruition in our times. One
may think it strange that an event as great as the Geulah Sheleimah could
happen in a generation under the intense influence of technology and
burdened by the all-too-pervasive influence of the outside world. Yet, we
have to face the reality--this very well may be it. It is not far-fetched to
think that the Geulah that Purim this year is to be juxtaposed with is not
the Geulah of Pesach--but with the Geulah Sheleimah before Pesach! We have
to daven hard and daven well that the Geulah come speedily, and that it come
B’Rachamim--with Hashem’s
Mercy as the Anshei Knesses HaGedolah wrote
with Ruach HaKodesh: V’Sechezenah
Eineinu B’Shuvecha L’Tzion B’Rachamim--may our eyes see Your
return to the Beis Hamikdash--with Mercy! Let us daven for this with all of
our hearts.
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Special Note
One: More food for thought: The
following is excerpted from the always timely and relevant Sefer
HaToda’ah by Rabbi Eliyahu Kitov, Z’tl, as translated and known as The
Book of Our Heritage (Feldheim Publishers--available in pocket size as
well!). “The last Seven Days of Adar, from the Twenty-Third until
Rosh Chodesh Nisan, are called the Yemei
HaMiluim--the ‘days of dedication.’ It was then that Moshe
Rabbeinu consecrated the Mishkan after its construction. These
days of dedication of the first Mishkan are destined to be repeated when the
Moshiach comes. It is said that his coming and the rebuilding of the
Bais HaMikdash will take place in the month of Nisan. Thus, the days
of dedication serve as a memorial to the Mishkan made by Moshe, as well as a
time of prayer for the final redemption and the rebuilding of the Bais
HaMikdash in which the Shechina will dwell eternally.” Hakhel Note:
It is extremely important that we understand the timely message--that we
appreciate the times--and that we utilize them to their utmost, to their
fullest. The choice is now ours
as to whether we will be busy with 100 other things--or whether we will not
be satisfied with the status quo, and will be proactive--yearning for the
Geulah with especially dedicated Tefillos. To
personalize and apply the thought with an Olam HaZeh analogy: It
is as if the lottery is about to be drawn, and you have been awarded four
out of the five numbers for good behavior an hour before the drawing--you
have only to successfully choose the fifth number. Would you bother
taking the time and making the effort to select it?! Each and every
one of us must take this incredible time period as seriously and as
wonderfully as it really is! It
is the time of Miluim--the time of fulfillment!
Special Note
Two: The following thoughts of HaRav Nosson Meir Wachtfogel, Z’tl, are
presented in the Sefer Leket Reshimos,
and provide timely lessons for us in this last week of Adar:
A. [Yes--an
additional point on the headnote above, and Special Note One:] HaRav
Wachtfogel brings Chazal (Ta’anis 20A) who teach that Nakdimon Ben Gurion
asked Hashem “Hodah Sheyeish Lecha
Ahuvim BeOlamecha-- Hashem show that You have beloved ones below and
please do not allow daytime to turn into night--so that I can pay back the
debt of water that I owe to the Roman.” Hashem listened to his Tefillah--and
the sun remained standing. Nakdimon was not Moshe Rabbeinu, nor was he
Yehoshua Bin Nun. We do not even find that he was among the Gedolei HaDor.
Rather, he came to Hashem with Emunah Peshutah and poured out his heart
before Him. We may sometimes wonder--in comparison to previous generations,
how will we merit the Moshiach? The explanation is--when we realize that our
relationship is only with Him, and that no one else can help, we too will
cry out: “Hodah Sheyeish Lecha Ahuvim
BeOlamecha--Hashem show that You have beloved ones below!”
Hakhel Note: HaRav Wachtfogel would speak often of the Moshiach, and
urged his students to speak about the Moshiach coming to others, and to be misbonein
in it.
B. On one of
his visits to the Chofetz Chaim, HaRav Wachtfogel heard a Yesod Gadol: “One has to work and toil on his own--and that is
what will help him in life.” HaRav Wachtfogel once instructed a student to
go to sleep reflecting on the Pasuk (Yeshaya 11:2): “VeNacha Alav Ruach Hashem, Ruach Chochma U’Vina, Ruach Eitzah
U’Gevurah, Ruach Da’as V’Yiras Hashem.” HaRav Wachtfogel would
do so himself and relates that the next morning upon awakening there were
times that he would find himself reciting the Pasuk.
C. According
to Hashem’s laws of nature, only thorns and thistles and the like grow by
themselves with no nurture and care. Likewise, no act of Torah Lishma or
Mitzvah Lishma comes by itself, without toil and effort. No person becomes a
Tzaddik without recognizing that he has a shelichus
in life--personal directions and goals, which he must work on to achieve.
One can get distracted by the many needs and events of life and constantly
mix-up the ikar and the tafel. One must stay focused--his purpose in life is the ikar,
and everything else is tafel.
Accordingly, one must be clear as to what his purpose in life truly is.
D. If a
person does not seek out the Hashgacha Pratis in his life--he will not find
it, but if he does seek it--he will see it quickly, and continuously.
E. Chazal (Shabbos
31A) teach that the first question that a person is asked after 120 years is
if he set aside set times for Torah study. HaRav Wachtfogel points out that
a person is not asked--Did you become a lamdan?
Did you become great...? He is asked whether he recognized the importance of
Torah--by acknowledging that he dedicatedly kept designated times for its
study. This is the key--to hold high the honor of the Torah and the honor of
Who gave it to us.
F. As we
continue through the period of Simcha in Adar, we must realize that the
Kavannah of Simchas Adar is not to drink a ‘Lechaim’ every day--but to
increase our Simcha in our learning and in our davening--even in the
reciting of our Tehillim. HaRav Wachtfogel would say: “BeTefillah
Mitoch Simcha Efshar Lishbor Es Kol HaGezeiros--with joyful Tefillah one
can break all the decrees!”
G. The great
lesson we are to bring with us from Purim through the rest of the year is
our unity with the rest of K’lal Yisrael--as is evidenced by the Mitzvos
of Purim day. Purim teaches us that when we give to a brother it is not just
‘Tzedakah’, but is Matanos
L’evyonim--gifts to our brothers. We may think of the Mashal of a king
with two sons--one who becomes the king in a neighboring country--and the
other who becomes a working man. When the king makes a Simcha--they both
come back, and both sit at the king’s table--for after all, they are
brothers! Hakhel Note: Likewise, the monies that we give before Pesach are
not called Tzedakah--but Ma’os Chitim--money for wheat--this time not even gifts to our
brother--but simply handing over money (from our Father) to him!
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22 Adar II
QUESTION OF THE
DAY
:
What three words would you use to define Amalek?
Hint: See Devarim 25:18. What does that tell you about what the definition
of whom the Bnei Yisrael are to be? How can each and every one of us
accomplish this goal?
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THE HAKHEL MI’MAH NAFSHACH: The term Mi’mah
Nafshach refers to a situation in which whichever way you look at
it--the conclusion is clear. We live in times which appear so close to the
times of Moshiach. Accordingly, we must look at the need for true
accomplishment in our lives Mi’mah
Nafshach--either we drive ourselves to true accomplishment--so that we
can look back in our old age and clearly see the true achievements and
successes--or greet the Moshiach with our accomplishments! It is a win-win
situation. All we have to do--is accomplish! Hakhel Note: The first place to
begin is…Teshuvah Bechol Yom!
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HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos
relating to Pesach in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty
(30) days before Pesach! Of course,
one should in all events consult with his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his
particular facts or circumstances:
A. The Kollel Los Angeles,
under the leadership of Rabbi Gershon Bess, Shlita, has once again prepared 5774:
A Passover Guide To Cosmetics And Medications,
a detailed list of acceptable products that may be used on Pesach, which
is available by contacting the Kollel at 323-933-7193. Rabbi Bess writes
that HaRav Elyashiv, Z’tl, and yblch’t
HaRav Wosner, Shlita, urged his continued publication of this listing--both
for reasons in Halacha and in Minhag Yisrael. At the outset of the
Guide, Rabbi Bess warns “no one should refrain from taking any required
medication, even if it contains Chometz, without first consulting his/her
physician and Rav.” Rabbi Bess also notes that the list (unless otherwise
indicated) does not address whether a particular product is Kosher--but only
its Chometz-free status. Something can, of course, be non-Kosher and Chometz-free.
B. Of particular note is
that items in the Crest, Herbal Essence, Pantene, Mary Kay, Cortizone,
Claritin and Amoxicillin lines do contain Chometz. Additionally, Lactaid
remains a Chometz issue. Page 4 of the Guide provides a list of ingredients
to be on the lookout for. Page 64 of the Guide provides a list of products
to be on the lookout for.
C. For questions to Rabbi
Bess regarding the Guide, one may email rgbess@hotmail.com.
In the upcoming weeks, for the latest updates (not yet updated for this
year) to the Guide, we refer you to www.kehilasyaakov.org
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Special
Note One: Yesterday, HaRav Shlomo Pearl, Shlita, gave his 1,000th
Sunday morning Halacha Shiur in Agudas Yisroel Bais Binyomin of Flatbush. In
the course of the extremely moving Shiur, Rabbi Pearl made several
tremendous points which each of us can apply in our daily lives:
A.
When Rabbi Pearl was a young boy of seven or eight, he was enrolled in
public school. There was a knifing in the school and a woman convinced his
mother to send him to Yeshiva. Who was the woman--a Rebbetzin? No, she
herself was a maskilah--she had
one set of dishes and she was a non-believer. Yet, she had the zechus of
convincing his mother--and 1,000 Sunday morning Shiurim (in addition to
hundreds upon hundreds of others) resulted! Hakhel Note: If a maskilah
can have such a zechus--how much more so must we utilize our opportunities
to steer our brethren in the direction of Torah!
B.
A person has to want to be somebody. Even if one is of average intelligence,
he must recognize that with diligence, he will have the Siyata Dishmaya to accomplish in accordance with his talents and
beyond. The essential first step in this regard it to be a Kove’ah Itim Latorah--even if there are many other important
things to do, including ostensible other ‘family obligations’, one must
view his dedicated time for learning with an especial loyalty and devotion.
Every morning one recites V’Talmud
Torah K’neged Kulam--he must demonstrate it!
C.
An absolute essential to a Torah life is for a person not only to say that
there is a Ribono Shel Olam in the world to Whom everything we have should
be attributed--but to really believe it and to really mean it. Every day one
should stand up and say aloud:
“Ain Od Milvado!
I love You Ribono Shel Olam, I love You!
I love You Ribono Shel Olam, I love You!
I love You Ribono Shel Olam, I
love You!
Ain Od Milvado!”
Hakhel
Note: Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff, Shlita, in honoring Rabbi Pearl (who began
working as a public school teacher and continued until his retirement at age
55) and his phenomenal accomplishments, noted that Chazal teach that the
face of Moshe Rabbeinu was like the face of the sun, and the face of
Yehoshua was like the face of the moon. With this teaching, Chazal convey
Yehoshua’s greatness. He could not be Moshe--but he could be Yehoshua the
student of Moshe, and so could have 599,999 other men. Yehoshua
persevered--and he was zoche to be referred as the Pnei
Yehoshua K’Pnei Hachama! Each and every person should follow in these
footsteps!
Special Note Two: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday
series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain
Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals
The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXX
We have been
discussing the ideal klaf to use for various Sta”m items.
TEFILLIN
Tefillin have two
parts: The tefillin shel rosh (worn on the head) and the tefillin shel
yad (worn on the arm).
Let us take a look
at each one individually:
Tefillin
Shel Rosh
The tefillin shel
rosh is made up of four parashiyos, each written on its own piece
of klaf, which are then placed into their respective compartments.
In order to fit
each parashah into its particular compartment, the parashah
must be folded numerous times and then squeezed in.
Perhaps the single
most prevalent halachic
problem discovered when checking the parashiyos of tefillin shel
rosh are the letters in the folds which have cracked. The reasons for
this occurrence are these: First of all, if the klaf is hard, the
actual folding of the parashah – possibly even before it is placed
in its compartment – can cause the letters to crack.
Second, the
squeezing of the parashah into its compartment, and its remaining in
such cramped quarters for extended periods of time, can cause the letters in
the folds to crack if the klaf is thick – even if that thick klaf
is soft.
When using soft,
thin klaf, these two problems are often prevented. The first problem
is avoided because the parashah can usually be inserted into its
compartment merely by rolling it, without folding the parashah at
all. This prevents the major cause of cracked letters. The second problem is
also solved because the parashah can rest comfortably in its
compartment without unnecessary pressure.
It is, therefore,
highly recommended to request that the sofer use thin, soft klaf
to write the tefillin shel rosh.
In
the coming installment we will discuss the ideal klaf to use for Tefillin Shel Yad and Mezuzos.
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19 Adar II
KOF
-K
KASHRUS ALERT: “a limited
number of four-ounce bags of Kettle brand Baked Sea Salt Potato Chips
(Diamond Foods), labeled
KOF
-K PARVE, were mistakenly exposed to a
milk-based sour cream seasoning. The
affected product contains DAIRY ingredients and should not be treated as
PARVE. For further information,
call: 201-837-0500 or email info@kof-k.org.”
Hakhel Note:
Shabbos Party Alert!
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PARASHAS
PARAH: The
Dirshu Edition of the Mishna Berurah (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 429, note
5) brings the words of the Shelah HaKadosh who teaches that it is
appropriate to learn the Mesechta in Shas relating to the time period one is
in at that time, so that on Pesach one should learn Mesechta Pesachim, on
Sukkos one should learn Mesechta Sukkah--and
on the Shabbos in which we read Parashas Parah--Mesechta Parah.
Tomorrow we will read Parashas Parah--seize the opportunity!
Hakhel Note: Parashas
Parah teaches us Taharas Yisrael--how
we purify ourselves. Fascinatingly,
HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, was once asked for an eitzah as to how one could attain Yiras Shomayim.
He advised that one should learn the Mishnayos of Seder Taharos--for
the Pasuk (Tehillim 19:9) states: “Yiras
Hashem Tehorah Omedes La’ad”.
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HILCHOS PESACH: We continue to provide Halachos
relating to Pesach in this especially spiritual period--less than thirty
(30) days before Pesach! The following halachos are culled from the Mishna
Berurah, Dirshu Edition (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 433 and 434). Of course, one should in all events consult with his own Rav or
Posek pertaining to his particular facts or circumstances:
A. As noted
yesterday, one has no obligation to remove Chometz from behind heavy
bookcases or cabinets which he would not otherwise move. Similarly, one need
not open up a mixer and remove Chometz that he knows is present inside, and
bitul in these cases would be sufficient. However, if one would move the
bookcase or cabinet in order to get the Chometz after Pesach-- then he must
move the cabinet and remove the Chometz as part of the Bedika process (ibid.
433, Dirshu Notes 25 and 28).
B.
One cannot throw Chometz into his yard or into a community’s yard based
upon the assumption that birds, squirrels, cats and the like will remove the
Chometz. If one did so, he is obligated to do a Bedika and destroy any
Chometz that he finds there. However, if one put his Chometz in the street
or in a public place that is hefker--then it is no longer his Chometz to be
concerned with (ibid. 433, Mishna Berurah seif katan 28).
C.
If one appoints an agent to perform Bedikas Chometz for him, the agent
cannot recite the language of bitul at the end of the Bedika unless he is
specifically authorized to do so (ibid. 434, Mishna Berurah seif katan 14).
In fact, there are those who hold that one cannot appoint a shaliach to
perform bitul for him in any event. The Mishna Berurah rules that besha’as
hadechak one can be maikil if specific
authority is granted for bitul. However, without such authority, one
cannot perform bitul even if it is a zechus for the person--to save him from
having Chometz in his possession--as being mafkir another’s possessions is
generally halachically ineffective (ibid.).
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Special
Note One: We continue with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series. The
following Halachos are once again culled from the Mishna Berurah Dirshu
Edition. Of course, one should in all events consult with
his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his particular facts or circumstances:
A.
Frozen food in the freezer which would be edible if one would defrost it is
not Muktzah, even if one has no intent of defrosting it on Shabbos--because
it is possible to defrost and use (Shulchan
Aruch Orach Chaim 310, Dirshu Note 29).
B.
Rain which falls on Shabbos in not considered to be Muktzah. With respect to
snow, it not as clear: HaRav Shlomo Zalmen Auerbach, Z’tl and HaRav
Elyashiv, Z’tl, rule that it is not Muktzah and HaRav Moshe Feinstein,
Z’tl (as brought in the Sefer Hilchos Shabbos) also rules that it is not
Muktzah. However, from the Igros Moshe
(Orach Chaim
5:22
, os 37), it appears that snow is Muktzah.
C.
If after taking care of one’s bodily functions, he realizes that by
cleaning himself blood will exude, HaRav Nissim Karelitz, Shlita, rules that
it is nevertheless permissible to clean oneself because it is a pesik reisha d’lo neicha lei k’lal and it is Kavod HaBriyos to do so(Orach Chaim 312 and Mishna Berurah Note 4).
D.
According to the Igros Moshe (Orach
Chaim 4:78), a closed container (such as a milk or juice container which is
opened by separating the folds) may not be opened on Shabbos, as we do not
view it as something originally open which has been merely temporarily
closed. This is due to fact that the seal is done very well--and the
original opening is no longer existent.
E.
One should be very careful not to hit another person (or an animal) in a way
that will cause a wound (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 316, Mishna Berurah seif
katan 30). The Ben Ish Chai rules that even hitting a friend in jest,
‘play fighting’ , or holding on to one’s or another’s flesh so that
the skin reddens is assur (ibid.,
Dirshu Note 55)
F.
The Chazon Ish rules that one may remove a fly from food [together with a
portion of the food to avoid Borer issues] even though the fly is otherwise
Muktzah, because this is not considered to be tiltul
muktzah, but instead making the food edible. One cannot, however, kill
spiders or other small insects on the pretense that they would be dangerous
if they went into someone’s food. Instead, one should cover the food
(especially if we do not know that they are, in fact, dangerous) (Shulchan
Aruch Orach Chaim 216; Mishna Berurah, seif katan 48).
G.
If one owns a cat or dog, he can close the door in the room that they are
in, as they are considered to be domesticated and living in the home and not
subject to the Melacha of tzad--trapping (ibid, Mishna Berurah seif katan 53
and Dirshu Note 101).
H.
HaRav Elyashiv and HaRav Nissim Karelitz rule that one should not tie any
kind of knot in something which one does not intend to open again. For
instance, when one has finished with a garbage bag--the fact that he has
tied it up in any way and does not intend to open it again renders it a Kesher Shel Kayama (ibid 317, Dirshu Note 4).
Special Note Two: Points
and pointers on this week’s Parasha, Parashas Shemini:
A. At
the beginning of this week’s Parasha, we find that Moshe Rabbeinu first
“Called to Aharon...” and only afterwards “Spoke to Aharon.” HaRav
Yechezkel Sarna, Z’tl, notes that when one wants to speak with a person,
he should call him specifically by his name, and only then continue with a
conversation. Mentioning someone’s name can create a special level of
endearment and closeness, a human bond. Moshe Rabbeinu may very well have
learned this very beautiful Middah from Hashem Himself, Who at the outset of
Sefer Vayikrah (1:1) first “calls to Moshe”, and only afterwards begins
“speaking to him.” May
we suggest that over Shabbos (i.e., the week-end) and Sunday (i.e., the
week-beginning), you take the lead of Hashem--and of Moshe Rabbeinu--and
call to a person by name before starting a conversation. May this serve as a
source of bracha in enhancing all of our personal relationships!
B. The Torah
records that after Aharon and Moshe did everything they were supposed to do
during the Yemei HaMelu’im, the
Shechinah nevertheless did not descend onto the Mishkan. They did not
despair. Instead, they taught us a lesson forever. The Torah (Vayikrah
9:23
) records: “Vayavo Moshe V’Aharon Ehl Ohel Mo’ed.” Rashi (ibid., in one
explanation) teaches that they entered together and asked for Hashem’s
mercy--and the Shechinah then descended! We must realize the great
importance--in addition to all our actions--of in the end asking Hashem for
His mercy!
C. At the
outset of the Parasha of Kashrus, Rashi (Vayikra 11:2), provides us with an
explanation of why we were zoche to receive the laws of Kosher animals: “Zos
HaChaya--this is the animal….” Rashi teaches that the word Chaya
is related to the word Chaim,
or life. Because we connect ourselves to Hashem Who is the source of life,
Hashem gave us the laws which separate use from impurity, which He gave to
no other nation. There is a great lesson to each and every one of us: When
observing the lessons of Kashrus and being especially careful with proper
Hashgachos and the products that he utilizes--one should not view this as a
burden, a chore, a difficulty, a chumra
--but as a special and unique privilege given to him by Hashem for we want a
connection to Hashem--we want life--and this is how we achieve it! The more
careful we are--the more we want life! Enjoy Life!
D. The
Chasida, or the “Kind One”, is remarkably the name of a treife bird.
Many of us have heard as the explanation for this anomaly that although the
bird does kindness--it is only with her friends and not with strangers or
those that it does not know. As in the past, we suggest another
explanation. The Chasida is treife because she does kindness with her
neighbors--after all, she is known to all as the Chasida--but does not do
Chesed with her own family, as she will win no special appellation in this
regard. This provides a great lesson to us. We
can improve ourselves from ‘treife’ to kasher by making the additional
effort to do “unsung Chesed”--helping to clean up around the house in
some additional way than before (going above and beyond the call of duty
especially before Pesach!), doing something for a family member before being
asked, taking the time out to think about and give a parent, sibling, spouse
or child a thoughtful or creative idea geared just for them. Ahavas
Chinam doesn’t have to take place on the streets, in Shul or in the
workplace--it can and should show its constant special presence--
beautifully housed--in your very own home. Yehi Ratzon that in this
zechus, we will be zoche to the end of the horrifying effects of Galus--speedily
and in our days--may we make it happen!
E.
As we study the Parasha of Kashrus, as we review the animals that
serve man in different ways, we recall the words of the Sefer Tomer
Devorah (Chapter 3): “One’s compassion should extend to all
creatures, and he should neither despise nor
destroy them, for the Chochmah HaElyona
extends to all of creation, inanimate objects, plants, animals, and humans. For
this reason, our sages have warned us against treating food disrespectfully.
Just as the Chochmah HaElyona despises nothing, since everything
is created from there - as the Pasuk states, “You have made them all with Chochmah”
(Tehillim 104:24),
a person should show compassion
to all the
works of HaKadosh Baruch Hu. This
is why Rebbi Yehudah HaNassi was punished when he had no pity on a calf that
tried to
evade
slaughter by hiding behind him, and he said to it,
“Go! For this
purpose, you were created.”
Had he shown mercy, he would
have been protected from suffering, which emanates from din. Instead. he was
forced to undergo suffering. Then,
when he later had mercy on a weasel,
quoting the pasuk: “VeRachamav Ahl
Kol Ma’asav…His mercies extend to all His deeds”
(Tehillim 145:9),
he was spared from further suffering. Similarly, one should not disparage
any creature, for all of them were created with Chochmah. Nor should
one uproot plants unless they are needed or kill animals unless
they are needed. And one should choose a noble death
for them, using a carefully inspected knife, in order
to maximize his compassion.
This is the general principle: Having
pity on all beings
and not hurting them demonstrates Chochmah. However, if
one intends to raise them higher and higher from plant to animal, and from
animal to human - then it is permissible to uproot a plant and slaughter an
animal, taking away from them in order to benefit them. “
F. The Torah (Vayikrah
11:44) teaches that “Vehiskadishtem
Viheyisem Kedoshim”--if we attach ourselves to holiness we will be
holy…and that if we defile ourselves (or even allow ourselves to be
defiled) we contaminate not only our present physical bodies but our future
spiritual existence. In truth, the kind and degree of holiness and
contamination varies from person to person. The G’ra teaches that a person
can determine what his tachlis is in this world by understanding and studying the
situations that: (a) he most
frequently encounters--for they are new G-d
given opportunities to succeed, and (b) the items and events that one
has the greatest ‘cheshek’
--the greatest desire for--for these are his key life tests to pass, and if
possible, excel at. Just as our faces are different, so are our
roads to Olam Haba--we are all on the same road with the same method of
transportation, but will each get there in different ways, at different
times, and will enjoy different lodgings. The level of kedusha we each
attain-- Vehiskadishtem--is the
product of his desire to attain Viheyisem
Kedoshim!
Special Note Three:
Last week, we reached the half-way point of Torah in Pesukim. This
past week, we reached the midpoint of the year in days and months--as we are
now in the second six and one-half months of the year. This Shabbos, too, we
reach the midpoint of the Torah in words. Let us be sure to take all
of the reminders to ensure that the second half of our year is more refined
than our first half!
The Kotzker Rebbe, Z’tl,
provides a potent teaching for us in this week’s Parasha which can really
guide us in this regard. The Pasuk (Vayikra 9:6) teaches: “VaYomer
Moshe Zeh HaDavar Asher Tzivah Hashem Ta’asu VeYairah Aleichem
Kevod Hashem--And Moshe said--this is what Hashem has commanded you to do--then
the Glory of Hashem will appear to you.” The Kotzker comments that
many believe that they are very much ready to reach ‘Madreigos Gevohos--lofty
heights in their lives.’ Moshe Rabbeinu, however, advises us: Do you
truly want to attain Madreigos, do you truly wish to elevate yourselves--then
do what Hashem wants you to do--work on removing the Yetzer Hora from your
heart. How? Think About, Focus on, What Hashem wants You To Do in the
Particular Situation, Circumstance or Event You are in--and do not focus on
the Yetzer Hora and his myopic, temporary and destructive whims, fancies and
attitudes. If you work at this, if you move towards
accomplishment in giving--not the Yetzer Hora--but Hashem the Nachas of your
doing His Will--then the Glory of Hashem will appear to you, and all of the
Madreigos that you sought will fall meaningfully and everlastingly into
place. Let us take the Kotzker’s words with us in the second half of this
year--by making sure as often and as resolutely as we can to follow the
words of the Pasuk--Asher Tzivah Hashem Ta’asu--so that VeYairah
Aleichem Kevod Hashem--the Glory of Hashem appears TO US--forever, and ever
and ever!
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18 Adar II
FOLLOW-UP:
Yesterday,
we had referenced a moving Pasuk in Tehillim
(40:6). A reader commented: “I believe that one should think of one
thing that he is grateful to Hashem for when he repeats this Pasuk!”
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HILCHOS PESACH:
We continue to provide Halachos relating to Pesach in this especially
spiritual period--less than thirty (30) days before Pesach! The
following halachos are culled from the Mishna Berurah, Dirshu Edition (Shulchan
Aruch Orach Chaim 433). Of course, one should in all events
consult with his own Rav or Posek pertaining to his particular facts or
circumstances:
A.
If one lives in a condominium building, his obligation to check the stairway
reaches only until his floor and his apartment. Even though one pays the
common area charges for the entire building--that is just a matter of
agreement of the parties (ibid., Dirshu Note 16).
B.
In a house where there are children, one is obligated to check the bathroom
and bath for Chometz--as although adults would not bring food into these
areas, it is likely that children do so (ibid., Dirshu Note 18). However,
with respect to places where the crevice is too narrow for one’s hand to
enter (such as between a heavy bookshelf or a heavy cabinet and a wall),
HaRav Nissim Karelitz, Shlita rules that one does not have to move away the
heavy bookshelf or wall even if he knows that chometz is present--and
instead can rely on his bitul.
This is true even if one knows that if something valuable had fallen behind
the cabinet he would expend the effort to move it and retrieve the valuable
item (Dirshu Note 25).
C.
In our times, when so much cleaning has occurred prior to the Bedika--one
searches not only for chometz at the Bedika--but also inspects to make sure
that the cleaning was done properly! (Dirshu Note 38).
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Special
Note One: Today is the Yahrzeit
of the Yesod V’Shoresh Ha’avodah--(R’
Alexander Ziskind b’r Moshe,
Z’tl). We present below several of his always-moving teachings:
1.
The ikar
for which man is created it to give Nachas
Ruach to Hashem. Accordingly, an essential dedicated focus in one’s
life should be on ever-increasing Nachas
Ruach to Hashem with all of one’s actions at all times.
2.
Dovid HaMelech exclaims (we
recite it every day in Pesukei D’Zimra-- Tehillim 146:2): “Hallelu Es Hashem Bechaiyai Azamrah Leilokai B’odi--I will praise
Hashem while I live, I will make music to Hashem while I exist.” One must
realize that all of Tehillim was written with Ruach HaKodesh, and when one
recites these words, he must
express them with true feeling. How can a person mouth words such as these--Hallelu
Es Hashem Bechaiyai--without meaning them? In
fact, we should know that Hashem actually has greater nachas when we recite words of thanksgiving and praise to Him than when Heavenly
beings do!
3.
When one sees or hears something
which is inappropriate it impacts upon his machshava,
his thoughts--which emanate from a holy and higher world. Accordingly, when
one’s thoughts below are impugned--then it incredibly also leaves a pegam,
a negative impact in the higher world as well.
4.
When one realizes his mind is
free of any other thoughts and cannot otherwise focus, he should think in
great joy: “Hareini Ma’amin
B’Emunah Sheleimah She’atah Yachid U’Meyuchad--I believe with
complete faith that Hashem is One and Only.” Likewise, one can think (even
in unclean places) about ways in which he can help his friend--in fact, even
if one feels happy over the happiness of his friend or feels pain if c’v
his friend is pained, he makes constructive use of his time--and actually
fulfills a Mitzvah of V’Ahavta L’Reiacha Kamocha!
5.
Before beginning Shemone Esrei
at Shacharis, a man should touch his Tefillin Shel Rosh and think: “Zeh
Ha’os She’atah Yachid U’meyuchad V’Sheatah Hotzaisanu Mimitzrayim--this
is the sign that You are One and Only and have taken us out of
Egypt
”.
6.
Before beginning to learn a
Mussar Sefer, one should clearly state why he is learning--in order to have
Yiras Shomayim, to grow spiritually and properly perform the Mitzvos,
and--once again-- ultimately to give nachas to Hashem. For the actual Nusach
of the Yesod V’Shoresh Ha’avodah see
Sha’ar Shishi--Kavanas Limud Sefer
Yerei’im.
7.
If one realizes that he has
sinned in some way--whether it be by action, word or thought--he should
recite Viduy over it immediately, as the Zohar mentions in many places that
the Vidui alone accomplishes much in the upper worlds.
8.
When one recites a Borei
Nefashos, he should have in mind the specific
items of food over which he is reciting it (for example, a fruit and a
drink)--and not just take it as general words of appreciation. Moreover,
when reciting the words Baruch Chai
Ha’olamim at the end of Borei Nefashos, one should feel great joy that
Hashem is the Life-giver to all worlds--and we benefit from this every
second of the day.
9.
When beginning the second bracha
of bentsching--Nodeh Lecha Hashem
Elokeinu, one should stop for a moment and not immediately rush into the
next words. Rather, one should
feel joy over the gifts that Hashem has given him, and then begin to
enumerate some of the great ones as actually listed in bentsching. Similarly,
when beginning the third bracha in which we ask Hashem to have Mercy--we
should make sure to highlight each item for mercy separately--(i) Ahl Yisrael Amecha, (i) V’Ahl
Yerushalayim Irecha, (iii) V’Ahl
Tzion Mishkan Kevodecha, (iv) V’Ahl
Malchus Beis Dovid Meshichecha, and (v) V’Ahl
HaBayis HaGadol Ve’Hakadosh.
10.
In this week’s Haftarah--the Haftarah for Parashas Parah, one
should appreciate the great consolations that are mentioned: “Venasati
Lachem Lev Chadash”, “Ve’es Ruchi Etein Bekirbichem”.
Indeed, one should strengthen himself by studying pesukim of consolation in
Tanach such as Yirmiyah 31:30 et al.; Yechezkel
11:
17
et
al., 37:21-28. One should also see the end of Sefer Amos, beginning of Micha
Chapter 4, Tzefanyah 3:8 et al., Zechariah 8 and 14; the end of Sefer
Malachi; and Yoel 3. Review all of these consolations--get chizuk--and do
Teshuvah as soon as possible! Let us not be too late!
Special Note Two: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday
series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain
Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals
The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXIX
Question
Is it preferable
for klaf to be soft and thin?
Answer
Soft klaf
and thin klaf are two different things. Klaf can be soft and
thick, or hard and thin. First, let us explain the advantage of soft (but
not necessarily thin) klaf, or – to be more precise – the
disadvantage of hard (but not necessarily thick) klaf.
Imagine that you
had painted a picture on a piece of paper, and then painted the same picture
on a piece of cardboard. If you would try to roll the paper into a
cigar-like shape by wrapping it around a pencil, you should be fairly
successful, provided that the paint is not especially thick. If, however,
you would try to do this with the cardboard, the odds are very high that
cracks and slits would develop in the painting on the folds which would
develop in the cardboard.
With this in mind
we can now answer your question.
It really depends
on which STA”M item you are buying:
SIFREI
TORAH,
NEVI’IM,
AND
MEGILLOS
When purchasing
these (usually) large items, which are meant to be rolled and unrolled, it
is not necessary to use especially soft klaf since these items are
(usually) not rolled tightly enough to cause letters to crack. Of course,
when rolling painted cardboard, even loosely, cracks and slits will develop
in the painting. However, klaf – even relatively hard klaf
– is not nearly as hard as cardboard. Therefore, with such items, even if
the klaf is somewhat hard, everything should be all right. If the klaf
is quite hard, however, it may well cause letters to crack.
Klaf
which is especially hard or thick should never be used.
In the coming installments,
we will examine the ideal klaf for tefillin and mezuzos.
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17 Adar II
IMMEDIATE INSPIRATION FOR
THIS TIME OF YEAR! We urge you to take out a
Sefer Tehillim and recite the words of Tehillim, Chapter 40, Pasuk 6.
How moving! How especially timely! Keep the Pasuk handy!
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HILCHOS PESACH:
We continue to provide Halachos relating to Pesach in this especially
spiritual period--less than thirty (30) days before Pesach! The
following halachos are culled from the Mishna Berurah, Dirshu Edition (Shulchan
Aruch Orach Chaim 432-433):
A.
L’Halacha, if one undertakes Bedikas Chometz and actually finds no Chometz
at all, the bracha of Ahl Bi’ur
Chometz that was recited at the outset of the bedikah
is not a bracha l’vatalah--firstly, because the Mitzvah is to check and
search and if one does not find it does not matter; and secondly, the bracha
actually refers to Bi’ur Chometz--which
will occur the next day in the morning--which may consist of the leftovers
of what he has eaten prior to the bi’ur.
Nevertheless, the Chok Yaakov writes that the Minhag Yisrael of putting out
ten pieces should not be stopped and gives reasons for it. The Arizal also
provides a reason for the Minhag. In the words of the Ba’er Heiteiv it is a Sod
Gadol. For those who have the custom--the Mishna Berurah cautions that
one be careful not to lose any of the pieces (ibid., Mishna Berurah seif
katan 12)! If one performs his bedikah
before the night of the 14th (i.e., because he is going away for
Pesach), there is a Machlokes HaPoskim as to whether he should keep his
minhag regarding the ten pieces at the early bedikah.
(ibid., Dirshu Note 17)
B.
If one performs the bedikah by the
light of a torch or other large fire, and not by the light of a single
candle, the bedikah is ineffective
and one must perform the bedikah
again (ibid., 433, Mishna Berurah seif katan 10).
C.
If one forgot to make the bracha of Ahl
Bi’ur Chometz at the time of bedikah,
there is a Machlokes Haposkim as to whether he can still make the bracha
before burning the Chometz. The Mishna Berurah rules that if one wants to
rely on those who hold that one may recite the bracha at the time of bi’ur,
ain mochin bo--we do not rebuke him for doing so (ibid., Dirshu Note
5).
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Special
Note One: As we have noted in the past, it is fascinating that Rav
Amram Gaon writes that the Minhag in the two main yeshivos during the time
of the Geonim, Sura and Pumbedisa, was to actually recite Tachanun on
Purim--”for it is a day of miracles, and upon which we were redeemed, and
so we must ask for mercy that we will be redeemed in the end in the same way
that we were initially redeemed.” As we have just entered the portal
between the Geulah of Purim and the Geulah of Mitzraim, a time in which for
the next two weeks we will all be reciting Tachanun and/or other prayers for
Geulah, we should be very mindful to recite them with strong and special
Kavannah because, without mincing words, it is, simply stated, a time of
Geulah. Everyone should try and keep a daily record, or at least a
real mental note, of the special and sincere prayers he has made for the
Geulah during this auspicious period.
Special Note Two: The
best opportunities are often free. As
we are now less than four weeks away from Pesach, may we recommend the study
of the Sefer Mesilas Yeshorim--which
can be completed in less than one month by dividing it into short segments
(let us say five (5) pages a day). The
benefit of especially studying a Mussar Sefer at this time is twofold. Firstly,
it will keep one in the right frame of mind during a period which could get
stressful or pressured. Secondly, it will help ready you for the
redemption that you yourself will experience on Pesach (and hopefully even
sooner). The spiritual preparation for Pesach should by NO MEANS
play second fiddle to the physical preparations that so many of us have
already (or wish they had!) begun. The next few weeks will pass
by quickly--don’t let them pass you by!
Special Note Three: Some
Poskim write that the Mishloach Manos that we give on Purim--two gifts to
one person, is based upon Achashveirosh giving to Esther two gifts--his
royal ring, and the House of Haman. Thus,
we remember these very, very significant gifts with gifts of such items as
hamantashen, wine, challah, snacks from all over the world, and various
assorted trifles and dainties. Perhaps we can take this “gifted”
lesson through the year, and every time that we receive a gift, whether
large or small and whether tangible or in the form of a compliment or other
intangible item, and be sure to pass on that gift in some form to someone
else. The gifts one receives and that one gives may not necessarily be
comparable at all, but in more cases than you may think, they may be just as
memorable!
Additional Note: As we leave Purim, let us make a
short list of practical lessons that we will take with us. It is
interesting to note that in the Al HaNissim, we highlight that Purim is in
the ‘twelfth month of the year’. Why this emphasis? We may
simply suggest that --as it is the last month of the year, it is important
to ensure that we take teachings with us into the first month of Nissan
--and that we don’t start the first month empty-handed. Hakaras
Hatov, Ahavas HaBrios...and Ahavas
Hashem itself are most certainly three of these great lessons we should
take with us in a practical and meaningful way!
Special
Note Four: Let us take one additional look at Kiymu VeKiblu. Before learning, simply take a moment to
dedicate and devote yourself to the study or the Shiur itself--forgetting
about work, old issues, new problems, the last phone call or email, what you
still have to do today, the mistake you recently made and how you can
correct it, how to do this or say that--and instead to wholly focus with joy
only on Hashem’s Torah--because this is really what Hashem wants. It
is reported that the Steipeler Gaon, Z’tl, who heard so many of the
world’s problems, said that the only way he could learn effectively with
so much weighing down upon him, was by simply putting everything else out of
mind and devoting the precious time in front of him to pure study. A
simple--but very effective--way for us to take Kiymu VeKiblu with us
throughout the year!
In order for us to better
appreciate the tremendous importance of any Kiymu VeKiblu Kabbalah (bli
neder), we provide special insights from the Chofetz Chaim into the
greatness of Torah (found in the Sha’ar HaTorah, Chapter 1, of the
Sefer Shemiras HaLashon):
:
1. Chazal teach that
there are 600,000 explanations
of each Pasuk of the Torah.
2. The light that
emanates from the names of HaKadosh Baruch Hu above emanates for 420,000,000
parsa’os.
3. The reason that the
Parashios of the Torah are not in chronological order is because if they
would be--anyone who read them would be able to be mechayeih meisim
and perform wonders.
4. A person should
reflect upon the fact that if he was to receive a letter from the king which
was difficult to read, or which required further study--how much time and
effort he would put into understanding the king’s directive. How
much more so when it comes to the eternal teachings of the King of all
kings--the Torah--of which we openly aver: “Ki Heim Chayeinu
V’Orech Yameinu--for it is our life and the length of our days!”
5. The Pasuk (Tehillim
62:13) states: “U’lecha Hashem Chosed Ki Atta Teshaleim
Le’ish KeMa’aseihu--You Hashem are kind--for You repay a person
according to his deeds.” Many ask--what is the kindness that the
Pasuk is referring to--after all, if a person does Mitzvos, isn’t it just
for him to be rewarded for them? The Chofetz Chaim answers with a
potent Mashal: If a person would invent a machine which could build an
entire city in a day from scratch, and would bring this machine to the king,
the king would surely reward him very handsomely. The king, however,
would in no event gift to him the cities that were built through the
machine, or even name all of the cities by the inventor’s name. After all,
it is the king who is building and outfitting the cities--and they are all
within his province and domain. Not so with Hashem. Although it is Hashem
Who is of course empowering creation at every moment, He in His chesed
deems it as if the one studying Torah is the one who is empowering the
world--for by doing so he is fulfilling the purpose of creation . This
is the incredible meaning of the word KeMa’aseihu in the Pasuk--Hashem
treats the student of Torah as the one who is keeping the world going--as if
he himself is continuously creating it!
6. The Zohar (Parashas
Shelach) teaches that one who is oseik in Torah is considered as if
he brought all of the Karbanos before Hashem, and Hashem provides
multiples kisa’os for him in Olam Haba.
7. The Zohar (Parashas
Vayeishev) also teaches that for one who is oseik in Torah, the gates
preventing his neshama from going to higher locations break until it
gets to its rightful place, and the Torah continues to protect him and is melamed
zechus on him until Techiyas HaMeisim.
8. Because the Torah
is composed of the names of Hashem, one who is oseik in Torah is
considered as if he is oseik in the Shem Hashem itself.
9. The Zohar (Parashas
Pinchas) writes that there is no joy to Hashem but for one who is oseik
in Torah--and if one stays up at night to study--his study is listened to
by the Tzaddikim in Gan Eden, with Hashem’s presence in their midst.
10. The Zohar (Parashas
Bereishis) writes that one who actually moves his lips reciting the words
of Torah as he studies is considered like a Malach on earth--as the
Pasuk (Tehillim 103:20) states: “Barchu Hashem Malachav Giborei
Koach..--blessed are you, the Malochim who do the will of Hashem...”
Hakhel Note: Kiymu V’Kiblu--let us be sure to make it an essential part of our
daily life!
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16 Adar II
REMINDER!
As we are now less than 30 days before Pesach, we should try to learn
the Halachos of Pesach (including the Halachos of the Seder) from a
practical Sefer. To some, it can
be the Mishna Berurah or the Aruch HaShulchan; to others it can be an
English Sefer such as The Halachos of
Pesach, by Rabbi Shimon
Eider, Z’tl. The importance of
studying the Halachos within the 30 days before Pesach is highlighted by the
Mishna Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 429 seif katan 1), who writes
that the source for the 30 day study period is actually found in the Torah
itself (see ibid.). As noted yesterday, we intend to provide two to three
short Halachos per day. This should not of course serve as a replacement of
one’s own study, but only as a supplement for our collective use. The
following halachos are culled from the Mishna Berurah, Dirshu Edition (Shulchan
Aruch Orach Chaim 432):
A.
Bedikdas Chometz is the first step on Erev Pesach in ridding ourselves of
Chometz possessions. Indeed, it is part of a large process of Biur Chometz--the
destruction of Chometz. Accordingly, the bracha one recites at the outset of
Bedikas Chometz is Ahl Biur Chometz.
The Pri Megadim rules that if one recited the bracha of Ahl Bedikas Chometz--he is not Yotzei. We do not recite a
Shehechiyanu at Bedikas Chometz, because its purpose is for Chag HaPesach
itself--and we rely on the Shehechiyanu made on the Leil HaSeder (similar to
one building the Sukkah who relies on the Shehechiyanu made on the first
night of Sukkos). (Dirshu Notes 1 and 5)
B.
Although one should not interrupt the bedika, if one needs to take care of
his bodily functions during Bedikas Chometz, HaRav Elyashiv, Z’tl, rules
that he recites an Asher Yatzar. HaRav Wosner, y’blcht,
adds that one can even answer Amen and Baruch Hu U’Varuch Shemo to the
brachos of others, and make brachos over thunder and lightning as well. (Dirshu
Note 8)
C.
Accordingly to the Shulchan Aruch HaRav, the obligation to check for Chometz in places
where there is regularly Chometz is MiD’Oraysa if one is not mevatel
his Chometz, but for places in which Chometz is not usually stored or used
but where it is possible that Chometz may have been brought--even if one is
not mevatel his Chometz, the chiyuv is MiD’Rabanan. (Dirshu Note 15)
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Special
Note One: Chazal teach that we learn from the words “Velo Yaavor” contained in the Megillah that if one had not read
the Megillah by the 15th, he could not go beyond that date and read the
Megillah on the 16th or at any future date in Adar.
From the fact that Chazal had to derive this teaching from a Pasuk,
and that otherwise we would be correct in assuming that if we had not
already done so, we could read the Megillah today, as well--we see that we
are still very much within the spirit and verve of Purim and Shushan Purim.
Accordingly, we provide the following additional post-Purim points
and questions for thought. Your
answers and comments are most welcome, as well as your novellae from Purim
and the Megillah:
A.
As we know, Esther risked her life by going to the Chatzer
Hapenimis--the inner courtyard in front of the king’s throne room.
The general consequence for one who did so without being called by
the king was death. Yet, a short
while later, Haman came to see the king and simply went to the Chatzer Hachitzona--the outer courtyard, in order to ask the king to
be allowed to hang Mordechai on the tree he had prepared.
The king asked: “Mi
Vehchatzer--who is in the courtyard?”
Apparently, going to the outer courtyard was not punishable by
death--as Haman did so and the king merely asked “Who is in the
courtyard?” and let him in. This
being the case, why didn’t Esther simply go to the outer
courtyard--instead of going through the life-endangering experience of
appearing in front of the king in the Chatzer Hapenimis?
B.
The Pasuk (Esther 7:7) relates that when Esther told Achashveirosh of
her request, and that it was Haman who was intending to exterminate her
people, the king was “Kahm Bechamaso--he rose in a rage.”
What was his rage about--after all, did he not know about the decree
against the Jews? Had he not in
fact granted this right to Haman--gratis?
C.
At the end of Shemone Esrei, prior to taking three steps back, many
recite a Pasuk whose first letter is the first letter of their name, and
whose last letter is the last letter of their name.
Fascinatingly, one whose name is Mordechai recites the Pasuk (Tehillim
119:97): “Mah
Ahavti Sorasecha Kol HaYom He Sichasi--How I love Your Torah--it is what
I talk about all day.” Although
Chazal teach that some members of the Sanhedrin separated themselves from
Mordechai because of his governmental affairs, many may mistakenly believe
that Mordechai was greatly diverted from his attention to Torah because of
his involvement with the king. We
suggest that this Pasuk teaches us that Mordechai’s clear essence was
Torah--and not even being second-to-the- king could change that.
Hakhel Note: To follow
suit, if your name is not Esther--it most certainly pays to look up the
Pasuk for Esther and see how beautifully it applies to her role and her
teaching as well!
D.
Now that we are in the second half of the month of Adar, is
Chazal’s teaching of Mishe Nichnas
Adar Marbim B’Simcha in the same force and effect as it was prior to
Purim? Rashi (Ta’anis 29A) explains that the reason we increase our Simcha
in Adar is because: “Yemei
Nissim HaYu LeYisrael Purim U’Pesach--these are days of miracles for
K’lal Yisrael--Purim and Pesach.” HaRav
Chaim Friedlander, Z’tl, explains that the Mitzvah of Simcha continues
all-the-way through Pesach because the common thread and theme is one of
Nissim that Hashem performs on our behalf, and the Geulah that results.
A closer focus at this common thread, he continues, shows that our
Yeshuah comes only from Hashem--and that the thought that our actions aid or
assist in any way are both foolish and untrue.
In fact, HaRav Friedlander teaches, although there were still 11
months left before the decree against the Jews was to take effect, and
although Esther could have waited until the king called for her rather than
risk her life--Mordechai and Esther both wanted to demonstrate (each in
their own way)--through the sack cloth, fasting, Tefillos and life-risking
actions that they realized that everything
was dependent on the Yeshuas Hashem. We
likewise read in the Haggadah that when Hashem took us out of Mitzrayim, it
was Lo Ahl Yedei Malach, Lo Ahl
Yedei Saraf, VeLo Ahl Yedei
Shaliach--but Hashem in His honor and by Himself took us out.
Accordingly, in this period between Purim and Pesach, our joy should
continue to build as we recognize that we are so especially and uniquely
privileged to be in Hashem’s loving hands-and that He will likewise
perform Nissim on our behalf to bring us the Geulah Sheleimah!
Hakhel
Note: For personal Chizuk in
Emunah, we once again provide the number of the Daily Chizuk Hotline:
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provides a thoughtful three-minute message daily--bolstering the awareness
of Yeshuas Hashem in our daily lives!
Special
Note Two: Imagine how you would
feel the day you won the lottery! It
would make no difference whether it was $45 million, $161 million or $276
million. A spirit of overflowing glee and insurmountable joy would
exude from every part of your being. Undoubtedly, the unquashed,
exuberant feeling would last for at least a day or so, and would only
slightly wane over the next several days and weeks. In a more
spiritual vein, the feeling of spiritual purity attained after Yom Kippur
likewise continues with us in the days that follow as we try to not let go
of our elevated plane. The days after Purim are unique in that they
combine the thrill of our physical lives being spared together with the
spiritual elevation attained from an understanding of the Megillah’s
events, and the profound lessons to be learned from the Mitzvos performed on
Purim day. At the very least, we should now be experiencing the joy of
being alive--and of having the zechus of making the most of our precious
life through the study of Torah and performance of Mitzvos.
The
Megillah relates that after Haman was advised that he was the only minister
to be invited to an exclusive party with the King and Queen, he felt
especially “Sameach V’Tov Lev” (Esther 5:9)--happy
and glad of heart. Why was
he so happy and glad of heart? Because there was no other person in
the world like him--it was the King, the Queen…and him alone!
Rav
Eliyahu Schneider, Shlita, explains that we, too, should feel this same
elation in that we have been especially chosen--chosen like no other
nation--to be Hashem’s standard bearers for the world by dutifully
performing the Torah and Mitzvos. He incredibly points to the words of
the Tochacha (the reproof) in the Torah which unequivocally teaches, in an
almost identical language, that the reason we will suffer the Tochacha’s
fate, is “because you did not serve Hashem “happy
and glad of heart”--i.e., that we did not properly appreciate and
marvel over our own uniqueness (Devarim 28: 47)! Furthermore, in
contrast to Haman, however--who lived only for himself and for his position
in this world--we live for infinitely greater purposes and for eternity.
Winning
the state lottery compared to the enormity of what we can accomplish would
be like telling a short joke at a four-hour long Purim Seudah!
Special
Note Three: Esther related the
plot of Bigsan and Seresh to kill the king “BeSheim
Mordechai--in Mordechai’s name.”
Chazal derive from this that one who repeats a matter in the name of
the one who said it, brings redemption to the world (Avos 6:6)--for the
Jewish people were saved because of Achashveirosh’s understanding of
Mordechai’s deed.” What was
so special about Esther’s act, and why does it produce such great reward?!
The
commentaries explain that repeating something in the name of someone else
when you could have just as easily ascribed it to yourself, and even when
you in fact on your own had the same thought, remark or teaching indicates a
high degree of ‘Ayin Tova’--good
naturedness and a good eye towards others which deserves special recognition
and special Bracha. Indeed, the
Middah K’Neged Middah is obvious--if one acts with an Ayin
Tova towards others even if there is good and reasonable basis not to be
so effusive in this Ayin Tova,
Hashem, in turn, will act with an Ayin
Tova even if there is a basis for him not to do so.
It is, therefore, the Midda of Ayin
Tova which permeates everyone’s Purim--giving Mishloach Manos to
others, distributing Matanos
L’Evyonim to each and every person that asks, and joining together for
a Purim Seudah. It is this
marvelous Middah of Ayin Tova--looking
away at self and graciously helping another--which we can take with us on a daily basis after Purim. Remember--Chazal
teach that it brings Geulah to the world--so let’s get seriously going.
At the end of each day, you may want to ask yourself did I act with
an Ayin Tova today--did I help bring the Geulah for us all?!
Special
Note Four: Although we take
leave of the Megillah for the time being, we must, once again, take care to
remember the words of the Chovos
HaLevavos (Sha’ar Cheshbon HaNefesh)—“Ki
HaYamim Megillos--for each one of our days are scrolls,” we must write
upon them that which we should [be proud to] remember about them. Each
one of us is important, and each page, each scroll, of the book of our life,
is filled with potential that only we--and no one else--can achieve.
We
should be as elated every day with the results of our own personal Megillah,
as we are with the outcome of the Megillah on Purim!
Special
Note Five: One Final Word:
Kiymu V’Kiblu--energize
yourself with these words when you study!
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KIYMU V’KIBLU:
Today is the day to ensure that your Kiymu
V’Kiblu thoughts turn into daily action, bli
neder! How will your Torah
study be improved?: Will you try
to not only read the words but say them aloud--at least in one aspect of
your daily Torah study? Will you be sure to learn at least one Halacha a day
about Hilchos Pesach until Pesach and continue in some way from there?
Will you think about how beloved the opportunity to study Torah
is--each time before beginning your Torah studies…?
We look forward to you sharing your Kiymu
V’Kiblu commitments, bli neder,
with us!
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YOM HAKIPURIM: In
how many ways were you able to discover that Purim is really like Yom HakiPurim? The lots are certainly
a place to begin…. If you have
not thought through the various possibilities--it is still Shushan Purim
today--try to get a better understanding!
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PUR-IM:
Why is Purim called its name in the plural if it is, as the Megillah
records--only “Al Shem HaPur”.
Why is it simply not called ‘Pur’ or ‘HaPur’? It may be that
the plural teaches us the great significance of both days--Purim and Shushan
Purim, for in actuality, the “V’nahafoch
Hu”, the dynamic turnabout, continues today on Shushan Purim!
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THE MIDPOINT!
As Shushan Purim is the middle of the seventh month of this year (a leap
year)--we have reached the fifty percent point--and accordingly we happily
note that one has half of the year left for the Teshuva he undertakes today!
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30 DAYS IN ADVANCE!
The Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chaim
429:1) rules that starting 30 days before Pesach (which is Purim) we begin
to study the Halachos of Pesach. Accordingly, we will bli neder briefly
mention two to three halachos per day relating to Pesach during the upcoming
month. This should not of course serve as a replacement of one’s own
study, but only as a supplement for our collective use. The following
halachos are culled from the Mishna Berurah, Dirshu Edition:
A. HaRav Shlomo Zalmen
Auerbach, Z’tl rules that one may give Maos Chitim from ma’aser money.
If one would like to be mekayem Maos Chitim behiduro, he should give those
who need not only money for matzos, but money for food and other needs of
the Chag (including clothing) as well (ibid. Dirshu Note 7).
B. If someone does not have
money for his own needs, he is required to borrow money in order to give to
others for Maos Chitim--for Maos Chitim is not only tzedaka--but a Halacha
in the halachos of Yom Tov--as evidenced by the fact that its requirement is
brought in Hilchos Pesach, and not in Hilchos Tzedaka (ibid. Dirshu Note
12).
C.
The Shabbos before Pesach is called Shabbos Hagadol because of the
nes that happened on that day-- the Mitzriyim willingly allowing the B’nai
Yisrael to prepare sheep--the god that they worshipped--for slaughter.
Because the Shulchan Aruch specifically mentions Shabbos Hagadol as the name
of this special Shabbos--there are those who learn that we should
l’halacha specifically refer to this Shabbos in this special way and greet
another with the phrase Shabbos HaGadol Shalom U’Mevorach! (ibid 230,
Dirshu Note 5).
Special
Note One: One of our favorite notes of the past: Whereas on other Yomim
Tovim, the “second day of Yom Tov” is for the people in Chutz L’Aretz,
on Purim the “second day”--Shushan Purim--is for Yerushalayim (and
certain other formerly-walled cities, almost all of which are in Eretz
Yisrael, in which a Second Day is only celebrated for reasons relating to a
doubt as to the proper day to observe). Why the turnabout? Why
is the “Second Day of Yom Tov” observed in Yerushalayim on Purim unlike
all the other Chagim? We suggest the following: the ikar,
the essence, of the celebration of the Shalosh Regalim--Pesach, Shavuos and
Succos--is in Eretz Yisrael, which is why they are referred to in the Torah
as the Shalosh Regalim--the three times a year we go up to Yerushalayim and
the Beis HaMikdash and bring sacrifices to rejuvenate ourselves through the
open miracles seen there (see these miracles listed in Avos 5:5) and
inculcate ourselves with the unique and sublime holiness of the people and
the place (See Sefer HaChinuch,
Mitzvah 489, Bava Basra 21A and Tosfos there, dibur
hamaschil Ki Mitzion).
The
Nes of Purim, on the other hand, is the last of our miracles found in Tanach,
and it is a miracle in a very different way, for it is a miracle taking
place in Chutz L’Aretz, and occurring, not instantaneously, but over a
nine-year period, all b’hester--concealed
event after concealed event after concealed event--until we looked back and
determined that an outstanding miracle had occurred.
Thus,
unlike the Shalosh Regalim, which celebrated the open miracles of Yetzias
Mitzrayim, Matan Torah and the Ananei Kavod (the clouds of glory), and which
were replete with the miracles of Yerushalayim in their observance, the
miracle of Purim was a miracle for the Golus. It teaches us how we are
to lead our lives with Bnei Yisrael and Eretz Yisrael still in a state of
defilement and impurity. Indeed, the Gemara (Megillah 14A) teaches
that on Purim we do not read the regular Hallel in order to rejoice in the
remembrance of the miracle, but “the reading of the Megillah--this is the
Hallel.” The Megillah (the word is related to the Hebrew word “Megaleh”--to
reveal) reveals to us Hashem’s hidden, rather than open and clear role, in
our experiences, our successes and our sheer continuity in Galus.
On
Purim, it is Yerushalayim that takes a “second day” because the miracle
of Purim is to be our guiding light through the Nisim Nistarim of Golus
which have occurred, primarily outside of Eretz Yisrael. Our role is
to uncover the Nissim, to recognize the hidden miracles of Hashem in our
every day lives. We can do this, overcoming the mirages, the illusions
and our own delusions of a lifestyle which does not have Hashem accompanying
and guiding us in our daily life, and replace it with a sincere and
meaningful awareness that we should appreciate and thank Hashem for (as we
recite in Modim three times daily):
·
Al Nisecha She’Bakol
Yom Imanu-Your hidden miracles with us every day,
·
Val Nifleosecha-Your
daily and natural wonders,
·
V’Tovasecha-Your
daily kindnesses,
·
She’bechol Es Erev
VaVoker V’Tzaharayim-which are not only with us daily, but throughout
the entire day--evening, morning and afternoon….
If
we can focus on these words three times a day, then we can demonstrate that
we have learned this key lesson of Golus and we can once again merit the day
when miracles are openly revealed to us and to all nations of the world.
The
unique period between Purim and Pesach is the period of time which leads us
from the hidden miracles of Purim to the revealed miracles of Pesach--Let us
use this time wisely by coming to a proper appreciation of the lessons of
Purim--which will lead us to Pesach--in Yerushalayim on the First Day of Yom
Tov!
Special Note Two:
A thought about Shushan Purim that we
believe is poignant. As we all
know, Yerushalayim is remembered on Shushan Purim, by our observing Purim
today. Dovid HaMelech cries out
in Tehillim 122: “Sh’alu Sha’lom
Yerushalayim Yishlayu Ohavoyich…pray for the peace of Yerushalayim;
those who love you [Yerushalayim] will be serene.”
The Radak in his commentary to this Pasuk teaches that these are the
words that Jews must utter in Galus--Pray to Hashem for the peace of
Yerushalayim. What is the
“peace of Yerushalayim?” The
Radak (almost prophetically) writes that this can only be attained with kibutz galios--the ingathering of the exiles--because there will not
be peace as long as the “Arailim”
and “Yishma’aylim”--the
Christians and Arabs--war over the City.
In his
commentary to this very same Pasuk, HaRav Avrohom Chaim Feuer, Shlita,
brings the following Chazal (from Meseches Derech
Eretz Zuta): “HaKadosh
Baruch Hu said to Bnei Yisrael: ‘It
was you who caused the Bais HaMikdash to be destroyed and My children to be
driven into exile. All I ask is
that you pray for the peace of Yerushalayim and I will forgive you!’”
Let us
honestly reflect: Haman was a
Rasha, and Achashveirosh was a Rasha and/or a fool, but ultimately it was
the Jews at that time that got themselves into that mess and had to get
themselves out of it. The
responsibility for Yerushalayim--for our kibutz
galios--which is so imminent, falls squarely on our minds and hearts.
We must hold ourselves accountable, not as a matter of guilt, but as
a matter of responsibility--to ourselves, our families, and our people.
Dovid HaMelech instructs us: “Sh’alu
Sha’lom Yerushalayim Yishlayu Ohavoyich”--Daven! Daven! Daven!
If one does
not feel he has any more time to recite additional Tehillim during the day,
let him at least be sure to recite the brocha of “Vl’Yerushalayim
Ircha”--which he is reciting in any event three times a day in Shemone
Esrei--with purity of mind and heart. For the next four weeks until Pesach,
let us use our power of prayer--for the sake of Yerushalayim, which is oh so
much for the sake of ourselves, for the sake of K’lal Yisrael--and for the
honor of Hashem!!
If one does not feel he has any more time to recite additional
Tehillim during the day, let him at least be sure to recite the brocha of
“Velirushalayim Ircha”--which he is reciting in any event three
times a day in Shemone Esrei--with purity of mind and heart. For the next
four weeks until Pesach, let us use our Power of Prayer--for the sake of
Yerushalayim, which is oh so much for the sake of ourselves, for the sake of
K’lal Yisroel--and for the honor of Hashem!!
Special Note Three: We continue an exciting
Monday/Thursday series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi
Reuvain Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider
Reveals The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXVIII
Styles of Writing
Three styles
of writing are used for STA”M: Kesav Beis Yosef, Kesav
Arizal, and Kesav Velish. (There is a fourth kesav used
exclusively by [some] Chabad Chassidim.)
Kesav
Beis Yosef
Kesav Beis
Yosef is used by non-Chassidic Ashkenazim. This is the only kesav whose form is described in the works of the Rishonim and is the only kesav that is
kosher according to all opinions.
Its name is
derived from the fact that this kesav (also known as Kesav
Ashkenaz) is the one mentioned in the Sefer Beis Yosef. (This is
a bit ironic since the Beis Yosef – R’ Yosef Karo, was a Sephardi.)
Kesav
Arizal
Kesav Arizal is used by Chassidim. It is the same as Kesav Beis Yosef,
except for the letters aleph, vav, ayin, tzaddi, and
shin, which are different in specific aspects of their composition.
It is named
after the Arizal who maintained that these letters should be written
differently for Kabbalistic reasons.
It should be
noted that the mesorah regarding two letters in particular is not
entirely clear. The two letters in question are the ches and the tes.
Some say the
Arizal maintained that the ches and tes should be changed from
its Beis Yosef appearance.
Although there certainly are exceptions, the generally accepted custom
when writing Kesav Arizal is to change the ches to an “Arizal Ches” while the tes is left in its Beis Yosef form.
Kesav
Velish
Kesav Velish is used by
Sephardim.
Although it
is endorsed by all Sephardi Acharonim, surprisingly, this kesav
is not discussed by the Rishonim.
The Chida and
other Acharonim write that various Sephardic communities have
various styles of Kesav Velish, and there is no clear
tradition regarding the particular components of each letter.
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12 Adar II
A RECENT ADVERTISEMENT:
The following notice appeared in an advertisement regarding Purim: “On
Purim, when Tzedakah collectors enter your home, from yeshiva bochurim to
elderly Rabbanim, women should be extra vigilant in maintaining a modest,
inconspicuous demeanor so as not to attract attention. In
the zechus of your extra vigilance in adhering to the laws of Tzniyus on
this holy day, may you and your loved ones experience great blessing and
reward!”
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DISCOVERY! HaRav Ezriel Erlanger, Shlita, very importantly
points out that Purim is a day of discovery--discovering Hashem’s Divine
Guidance and protection in the Step-by-Step story of the Megillah. However,
HaRav Erlanger adds, it is also a time to discover the inner beauty of our
friends and neighbors as we share our Purim day with them. One should go
beyond the outward differences and distinctions among us and seek to draw
closer to the Neshamos of Acheinu Bais
Yisrael…!
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Special Note One:
We continue with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series:
1.
When Haman complained about the Jewish People to Achashveirosh,
Chazal say he said “They spend their years with statements like ‘Shabbos HaYom, Pesach HaYom’, and are thereby not loyal to the
king.” The Chasam Sofer
explains that Haman meant to indicate with these words that the Jewish
people were so attached and enamored to their past and to their ways, and so
dedicated to Hashem, that every Shabbos they felt as if it was truly ‘Shabbos HaYom’--the first Shabbos ever, and that every Pesach was
‘Pesach HaYom’--that this was
the first Pesach ever. They
would, accordingly, never be loyal subjects for they had their own set of
priorities. In honor of his
marvelous ‘accusation’ let us truly feel the excitement of the ‘Shabbos
HaYom’ on Shabbos!
2.
What does the phrase of “Maharu
Es Haman La’asos Es Dvar Esther” in the Zemiros of Shimru Shabsosai have to do with Shabbos?
The Eitz Yosef (in the Siddur Otzar
HeTefillos) writes that Shabbos is referred to as ‘Esther’ in the
Zohar and Tikkunim--so that this phrase in the Zemiros in actuality is
referring to us preparing the Shabbos meals with alacrity in honor of
Shabbos. The nexus between
Shabbos and Esther deserves further reflection.
On a simple level, both Esther and Shabbos represent our recognition
and awareness of Hashem’s presence in the ‘hidden’ and natural events
of every day of our existence. It
is on Purim and on Shabbos especially that we have a greater Hargasha,
a greater experiential sense, of this feeling.
Your additional reflections would be very much appreciated.
3. Fascinatingly, Chazal (Megillah
23A) teach that the seven aliyos we have on Shabbos correspond to the shiva
ro’eh pnei hamelech. Rashi (ibid.) sites the Pasuk in the Megillah for
this: “Shivas Sarei Paras U’madai”
(Esther
1: 14
).
Every Shabbos--we are reminded of the Purim story!
4.
In preparation for the annual Mitzvah of reading Parashas Zachor
tomorrow, we provide the following important points:
A.
The opportunity to read Parashas Zachor this Shabbos is of such great
significance that, according to the Mishna Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach
Chaim 685, seif katan 16), if one can only come to hear either Parashas
Zachor or the reading of the Megillah, one should go to hear Parashas Zachor.
B.
There is a Mitzvas Aseh, a positive Torah commandment, to “always
remember the wicked deeds of the people of Amalek and their attack upon us,
to arouse our hatred of them”--as they were the first to attack us without
fear after the nations quaked and trembled over us (as described in Oz
Yoshir, the Song of the Sea). See Rambam Hilchos Melachim 5:5, S’mag
Mitzvas Aseh 115, Chayei Odom 151:2.
C.
The Sefer HaChinuch
(Mitzvah 603) writes that one of the purposes of this Mitzvah is for us to
recognize that one who causes pain to K’lal Yisrael is despised by Hashem,
and according to the level of enmity against K’lal Yisrael is their level
of destruction. Since Amalek’s enmity of us was greater than that of
all other nations, they are to be completely obliterated. Indeed, the
Ramban (end of Parashas Ki Setzeh) writes that we should “teach our
children and future generations--so did the rasha
to us, and that is why we have been commanded to erase his name.”
D.
There is a Mitzvas Lo Sa’aseh, a Torah prohibition, of “Lo
Tishkach”--not to forget the deeds of Amalek. This means that we
should not forget to despise them despite the passage of time, and to
remember that Hashem saved us from them, and that we will eventually avenge
their deeds and eradicate them. See S’mak 53 and Sefer Yereim 189.
E.
One should review the words of Parashas Zachor (with Rashi and/or
other meforshim) before the laining. We suggest reviewing it at the
Leil Shabbos Seudah in order that you and/or others are prepared for the
laining, since the Mitzvah is to arouse within us both a strong reaction to
their despicable deeds, and our obligation to eradicate them. Indeed,
the Maharam Shick writes that we do not make a special bracha on this
Mitzvah because we do not make a bracha on hashchosa--acts
of destruction.
F.
The Rambam (Hilchos Melachim 6:4) writes that an Amaleiki who makes
peace with K’lal Yisrael and accepts the seven Mitzvos B’nei Noach is
not to be hurt. In fact, some learn that the reason that the
descendents of Haman “learned Torah in Bnei Brak” (Gittin 57B) is
because they were the descendents of those sons of Haman who did not fight
against K’lal Yisrael (Sefer Adar U’Purim p. 68).
G.
The Mitzvah of Mechias Amalek, eradicating the Sonei Hashem and Sonei
Yisrael--those pure haters of Hashem and His people--began with Moshe
Rabbeinu and Yehoshua, continued in the times of Shaul HaMelech, Dovid
HaMelech and in the times of Purim, and we will be Zoche to complete it in
the times of Moshiach (S’mag-Mitzvas Lo Sa’aseh 226). As these are
days of Nissim and Geulah--miracles and redemption, may we be Zoche to do
all the Mitzvos of Hashem with Moshiach leading and teaching us, speedily in
our days.
H.
For further detail, see Sefer Adar U’Purim by HaRav Yoel
Schwartz, Shlita, upon which this note is based. For
the enlightening words of the Ramban on the relationship between the war
against Amalek and the end of our current Golus
Edom
, see the Ramban in Shemos 17:9.
Special
Note Two: In this week’s Parasha,
Parashas Tzav, we learn of the Korban Minchas Chavitin--a Korban that the
Kohen Gadol brought every day. Rabbi Moshe Scheinerman, Shlita,
explains (based upon a teaching of HaRav Moshe Feinstein, Z’tl) why the
Kohen Gadol brought this Korban every day--while all other Kohanim brought
this Korban Mincha only once in their lifetime--on the day that they were
inaugurated into the Avodas Bais HaMikdash. The Kohen Gadol’s bringing it every
day--one half in the morning and one half on the afternoon
especially symbolized the need for a person of spirit and aspiration to be
constantly renewing his energies, being aware and alert that each new
morning and each new afternoon was OPPORTUNITY,
NEW
OPPORTUNITY that was presenting itself
especially to him, and would not be available again on the morrow.
Each one of us, without actually having to bring the Minchas Chavittin, can
alert ourselves to the invaluable and irreplaceable treasures that await us
each morning and each afternoon in Torah, Tefillah, Chesed, and Middos
Development. Every day, we have our own OPPORTUNITIES,
NEW
OPPORTUNITIES--and we too can come before Hashem as a Kohen Gadol
in his loyal, sincere and elevated service!
Special Note Three: Final
Important Purim Points and Pointers:
1. Mikrah Megillah:
GREAT
AND
IMPORTANT REMINDER: When following the Megillah Reading at night and
in the morning your are urged to point from word to word in order to
keep yourself actively involved in following Kriyas HaMegillah.
2. Mishloach Manos:
A. Mishloach Manos must
just consist of two different portions of food--they can both be meat, or
any other type of food or drink (See Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 695:4 and
Mishna Berurah there). Rabbi Shlomo Pearl, Shlita, brings that HaRav Shlomo
Zalmen Braun, Shlita, ruled that one may cut a pineapple in half, put the
two halves on a plate and be Yotzei the Mitzvah! Not all would agree with
this P’sak, and would require two different items. See, for example, Aruch
HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 695:14.
B. Several people can
‘partner’ together for Mishloach Manos as long as there are enough
portions (two per giver) i.e., 12 people can jointly send 24 items to one
person and all be Yotzei the Mitzvah! (Sefer Halichos Shlomo p. 337)
C.
According to the Rambam (Hilchos Megillah
2:17
)
it is preferable to increase the amount of Matanos L’Evyonim that you give
over the amount of Mishloach Manos. See the moving words of the Rambam
there.
D.
The following are psakim of HaRav Elyashiv, Z’tl, relating to Misloach
Manos, excerpted from the Sefer Yevakshu
MiPihu, which contains hundreds of Pesakim of HaRav Elyashiv relating to
Purim and is available in many Seforim stores:
(i). Each portion given should be at least a kezayis,
and should be something that is viewed as chashuv. One could not, for
instance, give a slice of bread and an onion and be yotzeh the Mitzvah. However,
one could give chocolates or candies--provided that there is as least a
kezayis of them.
(ii). A roll and a container of butter (or jelly) are
considered two portions and one has fulfilled the mitzvah with them--but if
the butter or jelly has already been spread on the bread it is only one
portion. Two kinds of meat (prepared with different spices, or one cooked
and the other roasted) would also be considered two different portions.
(iii). One can be Yotzeh the Mitzvah by giving two kinds of wine,
or two kinds of soda. However, one is not yotzeh the Mitzvah with water,
soda water or mineral water.
(iv).One is not yotzeh the Mitzvah with tavlin such as a
container of tea bags or coffee. [The mechaber of the Sefer surmises that
one could not be yotzeh with a drink of tea or coffee--for that is only a
combination of two items that you cannot be yotzeh with--water and the
tavlin of tea or coffee]. One could be yotzeh with a container of
sugar, since it is edible as is.
(v). One is yotzeh the Mitzvah even if the food would
taste better warmed up--as long as it is edible as is.
(vi). It is better to give items which comport with
the chashivus of the giver and the receiver--but this is not me’akev, as
long as the other halachos (such as those above) are satisfied.
(vii). One can fulfill the mitzvah in giving to a parent--for one
should be ‘BeRayus’ with them as well!
(viii).Children of age should give to their friends, A
child who is 13 years old may give to his 12 year old friend (although he is
still a katan) and still be yotzeh the Mitzvah--as this is his Rayus.
(ix). One must know who sent the Mishloach Manos in
order for the sender to be yotzeh (it can’t be anonymous!)--otherwise
there is no increase in love and friendship.
(x). The two portions do not have to be given at the
same time--they can be given one after the other.
(xii).It is permitted to eat in the morning before performing the
Mitzvah. However, the Mitzvah of ‘Zerizin Makdimin’-- acting
with alacrity when performing Mitzvos--applies to Mishloach Manos as it
applies to all others!
3. Matanos L’Evyonim:
A. One can be Yotzei the
Mitzvah with a check if the poor person can use it in a store. (Sefer Halichos
Shlomo p. 342)
B. The Sefer Pele
Yo’etz provides the following moving words regarding Matanos
L’Evyonim: “It is befitting to have mercy on them, and for one to
realize that just as money comes in it goes out--for the eyes of the poor
look to those who are wealthier--and the eyes of the wealthier look to
Hashem who will give more if the person gives more. Accordingly, if one
feels weak or weakened by so much giving, he should realize that ‘Birkas
Hashem Hi Ta’ashir--the bracha of Hashem will make one wealthy’, and
he should strengthen himself by saying “Gibor
Ani”--I am a Gibor to help those whom Hashem wants me to help--and
Hashem will help them--and you!”
4. Seudas Purim:
A. For those of you will be
making a Siyum on Mesechta Megillah or Mishnayos Megillah as part of our
daily program--Mazel Tov and Many More!!
B. The Rema (in Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chaim 695:2) writes that the Seudas Purim, the festive Purim
meal, should commence with Divrei Torah. The Mishna Berurah (in Orach Chayim
429, seif katan 2) rules that one must begin learning about Pesach on
Purim--which is exactly 30 days before Pesach. Accordingly, putting the Rema
and Mishna Berurah together, it is therefore a custom to commence the Purim
Seudah with a Halacha about Pesach. In this way, one also connects the
Geulah of Purim to the Geulah of Pesach (see Ta’anis 29A, which states
that the reason we should increase our simcha to such a great extent in Adar
is because it is the commencement of both the miracles of Purim and Pesach).
C. Some have the custom of
eating zaronim at the Purim Seudah,
in remembrance of the food that Esther, as well as Doniel, Chananya, Mishael
and Azarya had to eat while in the royal court.
D. If a father tells his
son not to get drunk on Purim, the son should listen to him--for he can
fulfill the Mitzvah of drinking through drinking a little more than usual
and going to sleep--and still beautifully fulfill the Mitzvas Asei
D’Oryasah of Kibbud Av Va’eim! (Rabbi Shlomo Pearl, Shlita) Hakhel Note:
For a listing of Rabbi Pearl’s Shiurim visit www.SeeTorah.com
E. Let us remember an
essential result of Purim--’Kiymu VeKiblu--the Jewish People
reaffirmed their voluntary commitment to the Torah.’ Rashi (Shabbos 88A)
importantly explains that the reason that we uniquely reaffirmed our
commitment after Purim was ‘MeiAhavas
HaNeis SheNa’aseh Lahem’--from the love, from the deep appreciation
of the miracle that was performed on their behalf. HaRav Henoch Leibowitz,
Z’tl, teaches that if we truly appreciate Purim--if we too have an Ahavas
HaNeis--then each and every one of us should undertake his own Kiymu
VeKiblu. At the Purim Seudah itself--one may want to Bli Neder take on
his own Kiymu VeKiblu in Torah--and perhaps encourage others to do so
as well. Here as an example is a simple suggestion: In the Iggeres HaRamban,
the Ramban writes that when one completes his studies he should search for
something that he can take with him and apply or fulfill. Make it a part of
each study session--before you “close the book… or mp3 or cd” think
about something that you learned and how and will it have a daily Kiyum
in your life. With this you can take the Kiymu VeKiblu with you every
day of the year!
Special Note Four: As we
have noted in the past, the Rema (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 690:17)
writes “the children’s custom is to make an image of Haman HaRasha on
sticks or stones, or to write the name of Haman HaRasha on them, and to hit
them against each other, so that his name is erased…and from here comes
the custom to make noise at the mention of the name of Haman HaRasha when
the Megillah is read in shul--and one should not be Mevatel (nullify) a
Minhag (custom) or make light of it.”
The Mishna Berurah there (seif
katan 59) writes that this is not only the Minhag of children, but of
adults, as well, and adds that the Chacham Tzvi would bang with his leg at
the mention of Haman HaRasha. Although many communities and Rabbonim
objected to this custom as disturbing the Megillah reading and perhaps for
other reasons, it is indeed reported that the Chofetz Chaim himself stomped
with his foot when Haman HaRasha’s name was mentioned (Chofetz Chaim
Chayav U’Poalo). The Piskei Teshuvos (6:554) notes that this
was the Minhag of other Gedolei Yisrael, as well.
The Piskei Teshuvos
(ibid.) brings the explanation of the Chasam Sofer as to why we have noise
and disturbance--so as to demonstrate that we do not want to hear his name.
We may add that we should feel the same way about other Reshaim--past and
present. After all, the Posuk in Mishlei 10:7 states, “V’Shem Reshaim Yirkav--the name of the wicked shall rot.” It is
one thing to take something into your mouth not knowing it was rotten, but
would you let your mouth touch something knowing it was spoiled?! This is
something we would most certainly be careful about. Our noise and stomping
at the mention of his name are the equivalent of saying the words “Yimach Sh’mo” (we just do not want to talk during K’riyas
HaMegillah)--which is like ejecting the rotten item out of your mouth. See Sefer
Avudraham 2:230-231. We must recognize that Haman HaRasha’s despised
name had to be written (in various ways) in the Megillah only for the very
many lessons and reasons that the Anshei Knesses HaGedolah determined with
their Ruach HaKodesh.
The Piskei Teshuvos (ibid.)
adds from the Ba’al Shevet Mussar, Z’tl, and Rav Chaim Pilagi, Z’tl,
that when we hit at the mention of Haman HaRasha’s (and according to some
Minhagim, his family members’) name, Hashem makes him actually feel these
smites--so that he is in tremendous pain. Why? Because the miracle of Purim
happened to every Jew in every generation--after all, if Haman HaRasha’s
plan had been successful, R’L, we would never have been born. Therefore,
he must feel all of the smites of all Jews of all generations since Purim.
Let us appreciate Purim
deeply--and literally rejoice in our salvation.
Special Note Five: Our
Annual Purim Bonus Below!
Over the last two weeks, we have provided questions and answers, which
have been culled together by clicking here.
In addition to the
questions and answers provided by link, we provide for your Purim Pleasure
our:
QUESTIONS
AND
ANSWERS FOR THE PURIM SEUDAH
The following Questions and Answers are Kosher for
Purim and Year-Round use:
QUESTION: In what year of the Jewish calendar
did Purim occur?
ANSWER: According to Yalkut
Me’am Loez, Achashveirosh came to power in the year 3392, and Haman
was hung in 3404.
QUESTION: How many years did Purim occur
before Chanukah?
ANSWER: Approximately 216 years (Sefer
Targum Sheini by Rav Tzvi Dov Cohen, Shlita).
QUESTION: Why
isn’t the Shaim Hashem in the Megillah?
ANSWER: Many
answer because Hashem’s presence is hidden in the in the subtle events of
the Megillah. We may suggest that this is to teach us that we should not
fool ourselves--the final battle with Amaleik was not fought then. Only when
the final battle is fought before the building of the Third Beis HaMikdash
will Hashem’s Name become complete. Hakhel Reminder: Chazal teach that
whenever the term ‘HaMelech’ is used in the Megillah in lieu of HaMelech
Achashveirosh that it also LeHavdil refers to Hashem (Esther Rabba 3:10).
Look out for it and think about how!
QUESTION: How many wars between Bnei Yisrael and
Amaleik are mentioned in Tanach?
ANSWER: Actually, there were at least eleven
(11) battles with Amalek in Tanach, in one form or another. In the Torah--3
BATTLES: a) Shemos 17: 8 and Devorim 25:17; b) Bamidbar 14:45; and c)
Bamidbar 21:1 and 33:40. In Neviim--6 BATTLES : a) Shoftim 3:13; b) Shoftim
6:3; c) Shoftim 6:33; d) Shmuel Aleph 14:48; e) Shmuel Aleph 15:3; f) Shmuel
Aleph 30:1. In Kesuvim--2 BATTLES: a) Divrei HaYamim Aleph 4:43…and of
course b) MEGILLAS ESTHER! It is clear that this nation has really been out
to get us--but in the end we will prevail!
QUESTION: Who
was the king before Achashveirosh?
ANSWER: Coresh-see
first Rashi to the Megillah.
QUESTION: Who
brought Mordechai from Bavel to Shushan?
ANSWER: Coresh--see
Targum to Megillah 2:6.
QUESTION: Mordechai was the tenth
generation to which great personage?
ANSWER: Shaul HaMelech (Targum Sheni 2:5)
QUESTION: What other name was Achashveirosh known
by in Tanach?
ANSWER: Artachshaste, mentioned in Ezra 4:7. Chazal (Esther
Rabbah 1:3) note and interpret each name.
QUESTION: Can you give at least three reasons why Achashveirosh
made his incomparable Mishte at the outset of the Megillah?
ANSWER: 1. Because he stopped the
building of the Beis HaMikdash, and he was sure the Beis HaMikdash would no
longer be rebuilt. With the party, he wanted to happily demonstrate his
final and complete rulership over the Jews (based upon the Alshich). 2. In
honor of his birthday (Midrash Aba Gurion). 3. It was his wedding feast with
Vashti, and this is why Vashti also made a party (see Targum Yonasan, Ibn
Ezra, and Kad HaKemach).
QUESTION: Why does the Megillah go to such great
lengths to describe the wealth of Achashveirosh’s palace and party? Why do
we care?!
ANSWER: It is to teach us that if this is
what those who anger Hashem receive--Kal Vachomer to those who
do Hashem’s will! The G’ra (Al Derech Hapshat) adds that it is to
teach that--if this is how grand Olam Hazeh is – imagine how great Olam
Habah will be--after all, an hour of Olam Habah is worth all of Olam Hazeh
of all time!
QUESTION: Why didn’t Achashveirosh force people
to drink to join in his joy--why was there no “Oness” to drink?
ANSWER: The Megillas Sesorim (Megillah
1:8) explains that Achashveirosh wanted the Jews to sin willingly--”Kedi
SheYehenu Beratzon.”
QUESTION: What did Mordechai do during the seven days of Achashveirosh’s
party?
ANSWER: He served
as a Sar HaMashkim, as did Haman (see Rashi to Megillah 1:8). HaRav Chaim
Kanievsky, Shlita, explains that he did this in order to save Bnei Yisrael
from Ma’acholos Asuros. However, the Targum teaches that he wasn’t there
and that he davened, and did not eat and drink, for the seven days of the
party (Targum Esther
1:10
).
QUESTION: One of the especially named attendees
at the Mishte were the ’HaPartemim’(Esther 1:3)--what
does ‘HaPartemim’ mean?
ANSWER: Some form of rulership. The Me’am Lo’ez writes that
they ruled over areas near the
Euphrates
, the
Pras
River
--hence the letters of the word Peih
Reish Tes Mem Yud Mem.
QUESTION: According to the opinion that Memuchan
was Haman:
(A) why was it,
BeHashgacha, that he had to give the advice to kill Vashti?; and (B) Also,
al pi hatevah--why would he want to kill Vashti--what did she do to him
already?!
ANSWER: (A) So that he himself should be the cause for Esther to
marry Achashveirosh--so that she could kill him and his sons. (B) He saw
through sorcery that a queen would kill him and he thought it would be
Vashti.
QUESTION: What is the significance in the fact that the Gematria of Haman and
HaMelech are the same?
ANSWER: One may
suggest that that this is to signify that both Achashveirosh and Haman had
the same feeling of hatred towards Bnei Yisroel.
QUESTION: Why didn’t Esther relate where she
was from?
ANSWER: The easy answer is, because Mordechai instructed her not
to--as the Pasuk clearly states (Esther
2:20
). As to the reason for Mordechai’s instruction, various
explanations are given--including a recognition by Mordechai that perhaps
some disaster was going to threaten K’lal Yisrael and her royal position
would be the means of their salvation--identifying herself now as a Jew
could mean an early end to her position. The Gemara (Megillah 13B)
additionally indicates that, even if there was not an absolute directive by
Mordechai to hide her identity, Esther herself did not want to reveal to
Achashveirosh her royal ancestry (she was a descendent of Shaul HaMelech)--because
of her tzniyus and anava.
QUESTION: Why was Mordechai sitting at the
Sha’ar HaMelech not a ‘give away’ as to where Esther was from?
ANSWER: Daniel appointed his friends to high positions, and
appointed Mordechai to be one of the people in the Sha’ar HaMelech before
Esther was taken as queen (Ibn Ezra).
QUESTION: Instead of blatantly not bowing to him,
why didn’t Mordechai simply avoid Haman and not go near him?
ANSWER: There are various explanations for
this. The Chofetz Chaim learns that Mordechai was correcting the mistake of
his ancestor Shaul HaMelech, who had compassion on Haman’s ancestor, the
King of Amalek--Agag. As a result of this misplaced pity, Haman was
eventually born and issued his evil edicts. Mordechai, therefore, was
unyielding, and stood up to Haman like a pillar of iron refusing to give
even an inch for the sake of the honor of Heaven and the honor of Klal
Yisroel.
QUESTION: Why didn’t Mordechai and Esther let Achashveirosh be killed by
Bigsan and Seresh so that Esther could be freed and go back to Mordechai and
her people?
ANSWER: She would
have been taken as the queen by the next king anyways, and Mordechai and
Esther understood that a special Hatzalah of Bnei Yisrael would result from
the unique circumstance of her being taken as queen.
QUESTION: Why didn’t Mordechai tell
Achashveirosh of the plot of Bigsan Veseresh directly--why did he relate it
through Esther?
ANSWER: He wanted Esther to be more highly regarded and more
influential before the king (Yosef Lekach).
QUESTION: What was the sin committed by Bnei
Yisrael that prompted the great gezeira against them?
ANSWER: The Gemara (Megillah 11A and 12A) lists
three reasons: 1) a laxity in Torah study and Mitzvah observance; 2)
participating in Achashveirosh’s first party in which he used the Keilim
of the Beis HaMikdash, and which he hosted in celebration of the Jews not
being redeemed; and 3) bowing down to the tzelem (idol) of Nevuchadnezzar
and/or Haman--, which violated a prohibition of Avoda Zara. HAKHEL
NOTE: We see how severe sin the first one really is, if it can be
compared to such grievous sins as the second two!
QUESTION: On what day did Haman make the “Pur”?
ANSWER: The 13th day of Nisan
(see Rashi to Mesechta Megillah 15A and Malbim to Esther 3:7).
QUESTION: If the Megillah says that a ‘Pur’
is simply a Goral, a lottery, why is the term ‘Pur’ used at all?
ANSWER: ’Pur’ indicates a lottery
for the bad, whereas Goral indicates a lottery for the good (HaRav Yaakov
MiLisa). Hakhel Note: Thus we see the Venahafoch Hu in the name Purim
itself! Alternatively, the ‘Pur’ is a special name for the dice that
Haman cast (Ya’aros Devash).
QUESTION: Why was Achashveirosh’s notice to
kill the Jews issued so far--almost a year-- in advance--didn’t he realize
that this would provide ample time for the Jews to act?
ANSWER: It was done at Haman’s urging so that the king would
not rescind the decree, for once it was sealed with the royal seal, it could
not be recalled (Malbim Manos HaLevi). Alternatively, one can suggest that
Achashveirosh thought the Jews were powerless before Hashem, based on his
miscalculation they were “not redeemed at the end of their 70 year
exile.”
QUESTION: The Megillah records that ’Pas-shegen
HaKesav’ (Esther
3:14
)--what does the word “Pas-shegen” mean?
ANSWER: Rashi and the Ibn Ezra write that Pas-shegen means:
the text, the nussach, the content. Artscroll translates it as “copies”
(of the document containing the decree).
QUESTION: How many humps did the Achashdranim
Bnei HaRamachim have? How many legs did it have?
ANSWER: According to HaRav Yaakov Emden,
Z’TL (Megillah 18A), these were a unique type of camel with two humps and
eight legs, and were accordingly, exceedingly fast. Fascinatingly HaRav
Emden notes that these camels were reportedly in existence in
Persia
even in his time. According to others,
the phrase refers to a special type of mule which was driven by expert
riders. (See Ibn Ezra to Esther
8:11
and Rashash to Megillah 18A).
QUESTION: In addition to his plan to kill all the
Jews, what edicts did Haman immediately issue against them?
ANSWER: Chazal (Megillah 16B) teach us what the
other edicts were from the Pasuk “LaYehudim Hoysa Orah…”
(Esther
8:16
): The additional decrees
included prohibiting the study of Torah, the observance of Yom Tov,
performing a Bris Mila and the wearing of Tefillin.
QUESTION: Why did Esther initially refuse
Mordechai’s request to appear before the king?
ANSWER: She thought that she did not have to
put herself into danger without first being called by Achashveirosh, as
there would be ample time over the year to speak to him, and she would
probably see Achashveirosh soon as she had not seen him in 30 days.
QUESTION: Why did Mordechai emphasize to Esther
that she should not be silent “Ba’eis Hazos”--at
this time?
ANSWER: Because it was Nissan, the time of
Geulah, and one should not wait for a different time.
QUESTION: Why did Esther ask first that the
people fast for her, and then state that she and her maidens would also
fast--wouldn’t it have been Derech Eretz for her to say that she would
fast--and then ask them to fast too?
ANSWER: Chazal (Bava Kama 82A)
teach that if one davens for his friends and needs the same thing, then he
is answered first. She therefore asked them to fast for her, so that they
would be answered and saved first (Maharal).
QUESTION: Why did Esther ask that
everyone fast for three days?
ANSWER: We provided the Ben Ish Chai’s answer
earlier in the week. Alternatively, Chazal teach that Kinah (jealousy),
Ta’ava (desire), and Kavod (honor seeking) take a person out of this
world. Thus, one day was designated for each of these Middos, as the Zohar
HaKadosh teaches that Yamim represent Middos--these three Middos that had to
be corrected (Pri Tzaddik, Parashas Chukas).
QUESTION: The Megillah teaches that Esther told Mordechai that not only
should the Bnei Yisrael not eat and drink for three days--but that she and
her Na’aros would also fast. Yet, she said “Gam Ani Ven’aarosai
Atzum Kein”--Atzum is in first person singular. What happened to her
maidens--weren’t they supposed to fast as well?
ANSWER: Rav
Shlomo Kluger, Z’tl, in the Sefer HaChaim explains that Esther could only
state what she knew to be the truth--that she would fast. She did not know
what her Na’aros would do privately and she would not say something that
she did not know for certain to be the truth.
QUESTION: Who in the Megillah was smitten BeSanveirim (illusions)
and how was he cured?
ANSWER: The Sefer Orah
VeSimcha brings the Midrash that Achashveirosh was suffering from
Sanveirim--but when Esther came to the Chatzer, Gavriel tilted the king’s
head towards her and he was healed. Achashveirosh therefore put out his
golden scepter to bring her closer since he was healed by seeing her.
QUESTION: Why did the tree that Haman had
prepared for Mordechai have to be 50 Amos tall?
ANSWER: Haman was afraid that the noose would
break, and that Mordechai would thereupon be free of the death penalty (as
is the custom in all kingdoms), he thus wanted to ensure that Mordechai
would die from the fall in all events (Ben Dovid). Alternatively,
Haman saw Mordechai in a dream flying on top of his house. He knew that
dreams have substance, so he wanted the tree to be higher than his house to
ensure that this was the meaning of the dream. What the dream really meant
would be (and was) that Mordechai was placed “Al Beis Haman--in
charge of Haman’s house” shortly thereafter!
QUESTION: According to Chazal, how many students
was Mordechai learning with when Haman came in to take him on the royal
horse?
ANSWER: Twenty-two
thousand. This is equivalent to the number of Malochim who escorted Hashem
to Har Sinai. This perhaps demonstrates the new Kabalas HaTorah by Bnei
Yisrael of Kiymu V’Kiblu…we replaced the Malochim when we
accepted to Torah of our own free will!
QUESTION: How could Mordechai ask Haman for
a haircut, after all it was the 16th of Nissan--the first day of Chol HaMoed?
ANSWER: The Maharatz Chayes explains
that because Mordechai was wearing sack cloth and ashes, and was about to
put on royal garments, he was treated as one who had just left the Beis
HaAssurim--who is permitted to take a hair cut on Chol HaMoed!
QUESTION: Why did Esther invite Haman to her
party with Achashveirosh? The Gemara gives 12 reasons and Eliyahu HaNavi (as
quoted in the Gemara) confirms that Esther had all 12 of them in mind. Can
you name at least three?
ANSWER: The Gemara may be found in Megillah
15B. Here are several reasons: a) she wanted Achashveirosh to suspect that
she and Haman were plotting together against him; b) she wanted the Jews not
to be overconfident with her political abilities to get them out of their
life threatening situation--by her inviting Haman to the party(!), they
would daven with even greater intensity; c) she wanted all the other
ministers to be jealous of Haman and so unite against him; d) she wanted
Haman to be available to trip himself up in some way ; e) so that
Achashveirosh would not realize that she was Jewish prior to the party ; and
f) so that Hashem would have special mercy on her--seeing that she, a Nevia
and a Tzadekes, would have to be in the same room with this arch-enemy of
the Jews.
QUESTION: At the first Mishte--Esther’s request
was that Achashveirosh and Haman come back for a second Mishte--why
couldn’t she accomplish her goal at the first Mishte?
ANSWER: Esther did not sense any change
that had occurred in K’lal Yisrael’s situation at the time--and she was
expecting to see a sign that the Tefillos and fasts were accepted. Indeed,
the next morning brought Haman parading Mordechai through the streets of the
capital--the sign was there! (Ibn Ezra) Alternatively, the Chasam Sofer
explains that Amaleik is defeated by “Machar”--you wait until
‘tomorrow’ in order to defeat them (see Rashi to Shmuel I 30:17).
QUESTION: Esther told Achashveirosh “She’eilasi
U’Vakashasi”. What is the difference between a She’eilah and
a Bakasha?
ANSWER: Some explain that a She’eilah is
for the short term, and Bakasha is for the long term.
It is for this reason that Esther later said “Nafshi V’She’eilasi
VeAmi BeVakashasi” (7:3)--for it was the nation’s long term future
that was at stake, not only the life of Esther.
QUESTION: Who killed his wife because of someone
he loved, and killed someone he loved because of his wife?
ANSWER: Achashveirosh killed Vashti based on
Memuchan’s accusation, and killed Haman based upon Esther’s accusation.
....Yet another reminder that Hashem makes the world go around and around.
QUESTION: For how long was Haman hung on the tree?
ANSWER: From
16 Nisan--until 14 Adar of the next year. This was for the world to see that
the Bnei Yisrael were not to be killed but respected. Finally, on the 14th of
Adar almost a year later, his sons were hung on the gallows below him (Shailos
U’Teshvous Torah LeShma 321, based upon the Targum Sheni).
QUESTION: Why is Haman specifically called an
Agagi (8:3) when Esther pleads with Achashveirosh to reverse his decree
after Haman was hanged?
ANSWER: The Bnei Yissaschar explains that
usually when a ruler dies, his decrees are nullified, as his death is viewed
as a sign that the decree was inappropriate. However, because Haman was an
Agagi and not really from the ruling authority of Paras U’Madai,
the decree was not nullified, and Esther had to make a special appeal.
QUESTION: Agag and Haman each had a son with the
same name--what was it?
ANSWER: Veyzasa (see Esther 9:9 and Targum
Sheni).
QUESTION: Which son of Haman was hung on
the lowest rung of the gallows, hanging just an Amah above the ground?
ANSWER: Veyzasa (Targum Sheini
9:14
). There is a reason for
everything--even as to how and where each of our enemies are
punished--otherwise Chazal would not record it. We similarly find at the Yam
Suf that the Mitzriyim were punished in different ways (being treated in the
waters as lead, stones, or straw, depending upon how they treated the Bnei
Yisrael). Everything has a Cheshbon--everything!
QUESTION: What was the special cause of VeHa’ir
Shushan Tzhala VeSameicha (and the city of
Shushan
rejoiced)--how was Shushan’s
Simcha different from the Jews’ Simcha of Layehudim Hoysa Orah
VeSimcha...?
ANSWER: Not only were the Jews happy, but
those who respected true justice were happy as well. When Haman’s decree
was first issued, the city of
Shushan
was Navocha--they were confused (Manos HaLevi). This was a
direct fulfillment of the Pasuk teaches “Birvos Tzaddikim Yismach
Ha’am…when the righteous become great the people will rejoice, when
the wicked men rule the people sigh.” (Mishlei 29:2) Alternatively, the
term “VeHa’ir Shushan” indicates that not only did the people
rejoice, but even the inanimate objects of the city--the trees and rocks
also rejoiced together with the rejoicing of Mordechai HaTzaddik.
QUESTION: Why did Achashveirosh suddenly
turn from a Jew-hater into a king who provided a royal decree helping the
Jews to quash all of their enemies?
ANSWER: The Sefer Ya’aros
Devash explains that Achashveirosh, through necromancy, learned
that his successor as king would be a Jew. He bitterly hated the Jews
for this reason, for he assumed that they would rebel against him and take
over his throne. When he learned that Esther was a Jew--he realized
that his son Daryavesh--a Jew--would be the next king, and he was greatly
relieved and pleased that the rulership would stay in his ‘family’.
QUESTION: Why is Charvona “Zachor Latov”?
ANSWER: Some learn that the officer Charvona is
spelled earlier in the Megillah with an “Aleph”, and later in the
Megillah with a “Hey” (when he tells Achashveirosh about Haman’s tree)
because it is actually not the same person. Earlier in the Megillah (
1:10
) he is an officer of Achashveirosh. Later, it is Eliyahu HaNavi,
merely posing as Charvona, who we remember for the good. Others learn that
the officer Charvona had Hirhurei Teshuva, and is thus remembered for the
good.
QUESTION: How many mishtaos, or parties, are
mentioned all-told in the Megillah?
ANSWER: Six--a) the Mishte of Achashveirosh for
all of Persia; b) the additional Mishte which Achashveirosh made for seven
days for just Shushan; c) the separate Mishte of Vashti; d) the Mishte made
by Achashveirosh when Esther became queen; e) the first Mishte among Esther,
Achashveirosh and Haman; f) the next day--the second Mishte among Esther,
Achashveirosh and Haman. If that isn’t enough, the Megillah separately
records that Haman and Achashveirosh sat down separately simply “to
drink” when the King’s initial order against the Jews was sent out
(Esther
3:15
)!
QUESTION: How many people were hanged in the
course of the Megillah?
ANSWER: 13--Haman, his ten sons, Bigsan, and
Seresh.
QUESTION: Name two evil people in the Megillah
whose names rhyme.
ANSWER: Zeresh and Seresh (Seresh, one of the
infamous plotters whose plan was overheard by Mordechai).
QUESTION: Why did Esther request of the king that
the Bnei Yisrael be given an extra day to fight their enemies in Shushan (Megillah
9:13
)?
ANSWER: The Megillas Sesarim (HaRav
Yaakov MeLisa--the Nesivos) writes that Shushan had more Kedusha in it
because the Sanhedrin was there, and because Mordechai was a Navi. When
Haman’s Gezeira was put into effect the Kedusha was lost, and could not
return until the Tumah was eradicated. Esther saw that the Ruach HaKodesh
had not yet come back, so she understood that the Tumah in the city was
still there. Accordingly, the 10 sons of Haman had to be hung, the other
Amaleikim in the city obliterated--and the Kedusha then returned!
QUESTION: What happened to Zeresh?
ANSWER: Well, first of all, we curse her
every year--”Arura Zeresh Aishes Mafchidi”. The Targum (
9:14
) writes that she ran away with 70 of
her sons, and they became beggars. A
Rav taught that this was truly a tremendous punishment--for not only is an
Ani considered like a Mais--but she lived to see Mordechai the Jew in
control of all Haman’s property and possessions.
QUESTION: What
happened to all of Haman’s possessions?
ANSWER: The
Midrash (Shocher Tov 22) teaches that Haman’s money was distributed as
follows: 1/3 to Mordechai and Esther, 1/3 to those involved in Torah study,
and 1/3 toward reconstruction of the Beis Hamikdash. What a V’Nahafoch Hu!
QUESTION: Why do the unwalled cities and walled cities have different days
for observing Purim?
ANSWER: The Shoel
U’Maishiv brings the Ramban who writes that the walled city
dwellers didn’t sense the miracle as much because they thought that they
were secure in their walled cities--and Mordechai and Esther got them to
understand that the miracle very much applied to them as well! Do you think
you’re secure because you have an alarm system?...
QUESTION: If you rearrange the letters of “Shushan”,
what does it spell?
ANSWER: “Sasson”--or happiness!
QUESTION: Identify six instances of Middah
K’neged Middah that appear in the Megillah.
ANSWER: a) Vashti made Jewish girls who were
her captives work for her unclothed--and so she was ordered to come before
the king unclothed (Megillah 12B); b) Haman was hung on the tree that he
prepared for Mordechai; c) Bigsan and Seresh wanted to kill the king, yet
they were killed instead; d) The Jews ate and drank at Achashveirosh’s
party, so they were forced to fast for three days; e) Haman wanted everyone
to bow to him--at the penalty of death, and in the end Achashveirosh ordered
him to be killed--because he fell before Esther; and f) Mordechai put on
sackcloth and ashes on his head over what Haman had decreed, and in the end,
took over Haman’s position, wearing the royal apparel and a large gold
crown.
QUESTION: What famous American object has the
same gematria as “Amaleik”? What can you learn from that?
ANSWER: Amaleik has the same gematria as
“dollar”--both have the numerical equivalent of 240. As far as the
lesson, we will only point to Amaleik’s grandfather--Esav--and his passion
for money and worldly goods. We leave other lessons up to you.
QUESTION: Which cities in Eretz Yisrael (and
outside it) today would read the Megillah on two days--the fourteenth and
the fifteenth of Adar because of a doubt as to whether they were walled from
the time of Yehoshua Bin Nun?
ANSWER: Among the cities: In Eretz Yisrael:
Chevron, Yafo, Gush Chalav,
Akko
, Tzefas, Lod, Shechem and Teveria
(which is a separate issue--See Megillah 5B). In Chutz La’Aretz:
Damascus
and
Baghdad
. See Sefer Adar U’Purim by
HaRav Yoel Schwartz, Shlita, for further discussion.
QUESTION: What are the last five seforim in
Tanach?
ANSWER: According to the printed Tanach, the
last five Seforim are the Megillos of Koheles and Esther, followed by
Daniel, Ezra-Nechemia and Divrei HaYamim. However, the Gemara in Bava Basra
14B-15A lists the following as the last Seforim of Tanach: Eichah
(describing the Churban), followed by Daniel, Megillas Esther, Ezra-Nechemia
and Divrei HaYamim. This second listing is, obviously, also chronological,
as Sefer Daniel discusses periods prior to the events of Megillas Esther.
QUESTION: Who in the Megillah sought after the
peace of one person and was rewarded with being Zoche to seek the peace of
his entire people?
ANSWER: The Megillah teaches that Mordechai
went “Lidrosh Es Shlom Esther” (
2:11
). Chazal teach that Hashem said “You went to seek the
peace of one person--in this merit you will seek the peace of your entire
nation--Vedover Shalom Lechol Zaro.” (Esther Raba 6:6). What a
great lesson--how great it is to seek someone else’s peace--think about to
where it can lead! Perhaps our Mishloach Manos and Matanos L’Evyonim are
to serve as our jump start in seeking the peace of others!
QUESTION: How many words are there in the “Al
Hanisim” of Purim?
ANSWER: In Nusach Ashkenaz, there are 68.
HaRav Yaakov Emden in his Siddur writes that 68 is the Gematria of “Chaim”--and
we thank Hashem for the life he granted us at that time--which has its
life-bearing effects to this day, which will continue forever and ever!
QUESTION: Why do we refer to the giving of
gifts as Mishloach Manos, and not merely as Shlo’ach Manos?
ANSWER: The letter mem means
‘from’. The Pasuk states ‘Mishloach Manos Ish L’Rei’aihu
U’Matanos LaEvyonim’ (Esther
9:22
). The goal is that from dedicated
Mishloach Manos will result sincere Matanos LaEvyonim as
well!
QUESTION: True or false? In order to
fulfill the mitzvah of Mishloach Manos, you must give two different foods
that have two different Brachos.
ANSWER: False. Mishloach Manos must
just consist of two different portions of food--they can both be meat, or
any other type of food or drink (See Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 695:4 and
Mishna Berurah there).
QUESTION: What
did the G’ra send for Mishloach Manos?
ANSWER: The
Sefer Ma’aseh Rav (249) provides the answer: Cooked
chicken and cooked fish, and similar ready-to-eat items.
QUESTION: How can one fulfill the principle
of Nosei BeOl Im Chaveiro by accepting Mishloach
Manos?
ANSWER: The Torah Jew generally does not
like to receive gifts as that Pasuk teaches, Sonei Matanos Yichyeh.
Thus, by accepting another’s gift to help him fulfill the Mitzvah, one is
overcoming his overall hesitancy to accept gifts!
QUESTION: Why were two days of Purim
necessary --Purim itself and Shushan Purim, after all, was not the majority
of the miracle completed by the 14th of Adar?
ANSWER: Perhaps the most common answer
to this question is that with Shushan Purim we give special Kavod to the
cities of Eretz Yisroel, as Shushan Purim is celebrated in cities walled
from the time of Yehoshua ben Nun--which included many cities in Eretz
Yisroel. The Chasam Sofer, however, explains that since people are so
busy with the Mitzvos of the day, there may not be as much Torah learning on
Purim as there is on other days. Accordingly, Purim is ‘split’
into two days--so that there will be Torah studied in one place, when it is
not studied in another!
QUESTION: What is the source for the
wearing of costumes on Purim?
ANSWER: The Sefas Emes explains that
after Achashveirosh’s second decree in favor of the Jews, many people
dressed up as Jews (Misyahadim) in order to save their lives. We dress
up to remind ourselves of how they dressed up--to be like us!
Special Note Six: As
we move through Purim Day, we should remind ourselves of the words of the
Arizal (found in the Pri Eitz Chaim)
that EVERY Purim the Neis of Mordechai and Esther is re-aroused. What
a day--what an experience!
MAY
WE GO FROM REDEMPTION TO REDEMPTION!
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11 Adar II
RESTATING
THE OBVIOUS: Yesterday, more than 45 rockets were fired from
Gaza
in under an
hour--and the draft law against Torah and those who study it was passed.
The enemies of Torah are extremely dangerous--for they endanger not only
their own lives--but the lives of others. It
is up to us to daven for the Yeshuah! Please see more below.
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Special Note One: To
help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar Marbin B’Simcha,
we provide the following questions (and answers!) relating to the events of
Megillas Esther:
1.
QUESTION: Why did Mordechai not wait for Esther to be
granted permission to enter the inner courtroom of Achashveirosh--after all
there was still eleven months until the harsh decree would be enacted, and
she would surely be called to see Achashveirosh before then. Why did
Mordechai insist that she risk her life so early-on?
ANSWER: HaRav Elya Lopian, Z’tl, teaches that Mordechai was
telling Esther that in order to overcome the gezeirah ra’ah--a special level of Mesiras Nefesh was necessary.
Esther understood--and fulfilled Mordechai’s instructions. HaRav Chaim
Kanievsky, Shlita, provides a different answer. He teaches that for as long
as the decree was in force--the Jews would be in great pachad--in terrible fear. Mordechai paskened that it would be better
for Esther to undertake this great Mesiras Nefesh than to leave the entire
Jewish nation in fear for an undetermined period of time.
2. QUESTION: Why
do we not daven especially on Purim for Mechiyas
Amalek?
ANSWER: The Sefer Kav HaYashar (Chapter
99) writes that: “I have heard in the name of the Ga’on Moreinu HaRav
Rebbi Heshel that when he wanted to try out a pen he would write the name
Amalek or the names Haman and Zeresh--and then cross them out to fulfill the
Mitzvas Asei of Macho Timcheh Zecher
Amalek.” The Kav HaYashar
then continues: “… we are
obligated to daven for the obliteration of Amalek so that Hashem’s Name
and His throne can become complete. We will then fulfill the words of
the Pesukim: “…Vehisgadilti
V’hiskadishti Besoch Ha’amim” (Yecheskel 38:23) and “Bayom
Hahu Yiheyeh Hashem Echad U’shemo Echad.” (Zecharia 14:9)
3. QUESTION: We
recite Shehechiyanu twice over the reading of the Megillah--on Purim night,
and on Purim day. Is there any other Mitzvah for which Shehechiyanu is
recited twice in the same day?
ANSWER: We do not know of any--do you? How we should appreciate the
Shehechiyanu of Purim! Hakhel Note: The Shehechiyanu in the morning also
covers the other Mitzvos of the day--and one should be sure to have those in
mind when reciting or hearing
the bracha at Megillah reading!
4. QUESTION:We
must try to understand what every word in the Megillah means. What does Achashteranim
Bnei Haramachim (Esther 8:10) mean?
ANSWER: The Ibn Ezra writes that they
are mules which are the sons of female horses (mares). Rashi explains that
they are types of camels that can run very swiftly.
5. QUESTION: From
what Pasuk in the Megillah do we learn that Mishenichnas
Adar Marbim B’Simcha applies to the whole month--including the balance
of the month after Purim?
ANSWER:
”VeHachodesh Asher Ne’hepach Lahem Meyagon
L’Simcha”--the month
was turned from a time of agony to a time of joy! (Esther 9:22) (See gloss of Chasam Sofer to Shulchan Aruch Orach
Chaim 551:2)
Special
Note Two: The Midrash teaches us
that Achashveirosh had a middah tova.
When someone did something good for him, he would write it down.
Thus, when Achashveirosh could not sleep that night, Mordechai’s
good deed was read and rewarded…and we are here today as a result!
If Achashveirosh could maintain this midda
tova--all the more so should we put it into use in our lives!
Special
Note Three: HaRav Chatzkel
Levenstein, Z’tl, teaches that in our times we cannot fully obliterate
Amalek--for even to begin with, we do not know with certainty all the people
who constitute Amalek. So, in
our time, our ikar Mitzvas Mechiyas Amalek
is to despise and destroy the Amalek, the evil within us--in preparation for
destroying the Amalek from without--which as a result will hopefully take
place in the very near future!
Special Note Four: Thoughts
for Ta’anis Esther:
1. There is a special inyan
to recite Tehillim Chapter 22 on Ta’anis Esther and Purim, for this is the
Kepitel recited by Esther herself upon entering Achashveirosh’s throne
room uninvited (See Kav HaYashar 97). The Kav
HaYashar adds that when we gather today in Shul to daven, we are
considered to be in the “Chatzar
HaMelech”--and “Bevadai”, surely through our Selichos and
Tefillos we arouse Mordechai HaTzadik and Esther HaMalka--who will
“certainly join” in our Tefillos. Accordingly, he writes, that Ta’anis
Esther is a day which is “MESUGAL ME’OD” for our tefillos to be
accepted in the zechus of Mordechai VeEsther. “One who needs mercy from
Hashem should recite Tehillim Chapter 22, and then pour his heart out to
Hashem for the mercy he needs--especially mentioning the Zechus of Mordechai
and Esther in whose Zechus the Sha’arei Rachamim should be opened and his
Tefillos should be accepted.”
Additional Note One: The Kav
HaYashar also brings that the days of Ta’anis Esther and Purim are
days of Ratzon V’Ahava--let us
utilize them to our utmost.
Additional
Note Two: The G’ra holds that
this Chapter is actually the Shir Shel Yom for Purim itself.
2. As noted yesterday,
Rebbetzin Kanievsky, A’H, urged women to recite on Ta’anis
Esther Tehillim Chapters 28, 32, 79, 92, and 22, followed by Acheinu
Kol Bais Yisrael. Hakhel Note: The Chasam Sofer writes that the Megillah
especially teaches that Mordechai expressed a “Tze’akah
Gedolah U’Marah” when he learned of Haman’s decree. In the end,
however, his pleas and the pleas of his people turned the decree 180
degrees. This should teach us that whatever the situation, Hashem is in
control, and the Tze’akah Marah can unbelievably change to Tzahalah VeSimcha!
3. The Yesod V’Shoresh
HaAvodah (Sha’ar 12: Perek 3) writes that one should increase his
Torah study on Ta’anis Esther…maybe you can learn just a little more
in honor of this great day?
4. When contributing
Machatzis HaShekel today, one should say “Zecher
L’Machatzis HaShekel”--this is the remembrance of the Machatzis
HaShekel, so as not to leave the impression that this is an actual
contribution to the Bais HaMikdash, which was given at this time of year. (Luach
Eretz Yisroel of Rav Tukchinsky Z’tl)
5. The
Mishna Berurah (Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 686, seif katan 2) writes the
following about Ta’anis Esther: “It is called Ta’anis Esther so that
we remember that Hashem Yisborach sees and listens to each person in his
time of trouble when he fasts and returns to Hashem with all of his heart,
as was done at that time.” We must not lose sight of the fact that Teshuva
is a tremendously important part of the day today. As we look at
the troubled state of our brethren in Eretz Yisrael and worldwide, and at
the turbulent and tottering state of all of mankind, Teshuva should
certainly be a high priority today--make it yours!
6. Because
it is a tough request--so it is another reminder: on Purim, one
should endeavor to give Mishloach Manos not only to his relative, his best
friend or his neighbor, but also to someone whom you are a little bit “on
the outs” with, or with whom you do not speak enough, or with whom you
have a somewhat cool relationship for various reasons, or for a particular
reason, or for no reason at all. Now--today--is the time to think about who
this person or those people will be…there is no better time to break the
ice--or even to warm the cool water--by knocking on someone’s door
unsolicited with a smile and a colorful Mishloach Manos. What better way
could there be to dispel the claims of Haman HaRasha that we are “a
dispersed and separated people”? Anyone who dislikes coolness, discord or
dispute between two groups or even within one group of our people should
also move to eliminate it from within himself and his family, as well.
So…get ready, practice and rehearse--knock on that door…and “PURIM
SAMEACH”-”A FREILICHIN PURIM”-”HAPPY PURIM”!
Special
Note Five: Chazal teach that Haman told Mordechai “Your Machatzis HaShekel
contributions preceded and bested my offer of 10,000 talents of silver.”
Indeed, today we are, once again, giving our Zecher L’Machatzis HaShekel. This may very well be a
reminder to us that we should be on the alert to give “Shekalim”,
Tzedakah, in order for us to stave off and avert the designs and decrees of
the Hamans of our generation. Let us remember, as we recite in the Haggadah,
that “in every generation they stand up to destroy us and HaKadosh Baruch
Hu saves us from their hand.” With our Tzedaka, we will hopefully give
HaKadosh Baruch Hu all the ammunition that He needs.
Hakhel
Note: In fact, HaRav Matisyahu Salomon, Shlita, quotes the
famous Rambam in Hilchos Megillah. The Rambam writes that “it is better
for a person to give more Matanos L’Evyonim than it is to spend money on a
larger Seudas Purim or Mishloach Manos--for there is no Simcha
Gedola U’Mefo’ara--there is no greater or more glorious joy--than
one who makes the unfortunate happy.” Indeed, HaRav Salomon notes, both
the Nefesh HaChaim and the Zohar HaKadosh write that if one brings Simcha to
the world; he is bringing Rachamim--mercy--into the world, and changing Din,
the attribute of strict justice, to Rachamim, Heavenly Mercy--and there can
be nothing better than that! Our service, then, at this time of year, is to
open the gates of Rachamim that we so desperately need opened so wide by
bringing Simcha into the world through our own Simchas HaChaim, and all the
more so by bringing others Simchas HaChaim--making others happy as well!
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Of course,
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Special Note One: To help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas
Adar Marbin B’Simcha, we provide the following questions (and
answers!) relating to the events of Megillas Esther:
1. QUESTION: If
only Mordechai did not bow down to Haman--and the rest of K’lal Yisrael in
Shushan Habira did--then why would Haman want them killed, after all, they
were doing his will?
ANSWER: This is yet another example of a Sonei Yisrael showing
his true colors!
2. QUESTION: What are the first letters of Yavo
HaMelech V’Haman HaYom (Esther 5:4)--and what is their significance at
this point in the Megillah?
ANSWER: The letters are, of course, the letters Yud-Key-Vuv-Key--the Sheim
Hashem that demonstrates Hashem’s great mercy for us. By putting herself
at a feast with the horrible Achashveirosh and Haman, Esther was pleading
with Hashem to override the Middas Hadin and bring upon K’lal Yisrael His
Middas HaRachamim!
3. QUESTION: The Megillah is one of the Kisvei
HaKodesh--which has rules as to how it is written and how it is read.
Why is Megillas Esther referred to as an Igeres,
and when read in public, is opened not formally like a Sefer Torah--but
actually folded over like a letter.
ANSWER: HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, explains that the Megillah
contains three major Letters, the
Igeres that Achashveirosh initially sent out for men to rule in their
homes--which cast some aspersion on the second Igeres of Haman to destroy
the Jewish nation--and then the third Igeres,
giving the Jews the opportunity to defeat their enemies. Because of the
great importance of the ‘Igeres’
on Purim, the Megillah itself, albeit one of the Kisvei
Kodesh, is also read like an Igeres.
HaRav Kanievsky also points out that the reason that the Purim Mishteh plays
such an important role on Purim day for us is because the many Mishta’os
in the Megillah are such an important part of the chronology of the Nes.
4. QUESTION: Achashveirosh authorized the Jews to
take the spoils of war from their enemies. Yet, the Megillah (Esther
9:15
) teaches U’vabizah
Lo Shalchu Es Yadam--that K’lal Yisrael refused to take any booty.
Why?
ANSWER: The Rabbeinu Bachya writes that
the property of Amaleikim is assur
b’hana’ah--so that there is no remembrance of Amaleik by someone
saying this belonged to Amaleik or that belonged to Amaleik. If so--how,
then, was Esther able to take over the Bais Haman and all of its assets
(Esther 8:7)? HaRav Chaim Kanievsky explains that Haman had truly sold
himself into slavery to Mordechai--and everything that belongs to a
slave belongs to his master--so everything that Esther was taking really
belonged to Mordechai!
5. QUESTION: Why is Purim not celebrated on the 13th
of Adar--after all, was that not the day that the
Ikar Neis occurred--the day that the Jews, c’v, were to be
annihilated, turning into a day of the Jewish people defeating their
enemies?
ANSWER: HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, suggests that on
the 13th the Jews were not sure that the enemy had truly
succumbed--and the possibility existed of a counter-attack on the 14th.
When on the 14th the Jews were able to rest and did not face
further conflict, they realized that Hashem had sent them a complete Yeshuah!
Special Note
Two: Our Kabalas HaTorah on Purim differed from our Kabalas HaTorah on
Shavuos, in that our acceptance of the Torah on Purim came out of love
rather than fear. How does one express this new-found love? The
Mishna Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim, 61; seif katan 2) quotes a
Yerushalmi which identifies each one of the Aseres HaDibros in different
phrases in Kriyas Shema. The words “V’Ahavta
Es Hashem--and you shall love Hashem”--at the outset of Kriyas Shema
alludes to the second of the Aseres HaDibros--not to take Hashem’s name in
vain. Thus, one very practical way to demonstrate his love for Hashem
is to be very, very careful with reciting Brachos, as these are the
crucial moments of the day that we are privileged to actually recite the
name of Hashem. If one is unsure whether or not he made a Bracha
Achrona or has made an Asher Yatzar, he must realize that he is not being
careful enough, and should undertake some form of correction, at least on a
temporary basis, to demonstrate that he really does love Hashem. You
may have other ways to demonstrate your love--and they may all well be
within the Purim Spirit! We welcome your thoughts.
Special
Note Three: We
present below many Pesakim of HaRav Shmuel Kamenetsky, Shlita, relating to
Purim from the expanded version of Kovetz
Halachos for Purim, by his close Talmid, Rabbi Doniel Kleinman, Shlita.
PART II
A. Each time one gives
Mishloach Manos, he fulfills the Mitzvah of Mishloach Manos.
The two items of Mishloach Manos must be of two different species--so
that one would not fulfill the Mitzvah by giving the top and the bottom of a
piece of chicken, a red and green apple, or white wine and red wine--even
though they may have different tastes. A
salad, even if it contains several different vegetables, is considered one
portion.
B. Mishloach Manos should
be of a Shiur which one usually honors a guest with in his home.
The food or drinks supplied should be a davar
chashuv. In this regard,
although one or a few chips or candies, for instance, would not be a davar
chashuv--if one gives an entire bag or box, the individual items
collectively, would be considered a davar
chashuv. The item being sent
should be based upon the recipient--so one who is sending to a minor could
give cake and candies, and these would be chashuv
in his eyes. Water or seltzer
would not be considered chashuv,
but other drinks could be. Spices
and condiments are not considered valid manos--for they are not eaten by
themselves, but only used to aid other foods.
Ketchup and mustard would likewise not be a valid item for Mishloach
Manos. One can send an item to
his friend who may not be able to eat it because he is allergic, as other
members of his family could eat it in his stead.
The items sent must be ready-to-eat, and therefore could not consist
of raw fish or meat, a coffee container, or tea bags, all of which require
further preparation. Both
portions of the Mishloach Manos must be delivered at the same time, and
cannot be delivered one after the other.
C.
If one delivers Mishloach Manos to another who is not home and leaves
it by the door and does not tell him--and the recipient returns home after
Purim--he is not Yotzei the Mitzvah of Mishloach Manos with that person.
However, if a person sends Mishloach Manos before Purim and it
arrives on Purim, he is Yotzei the Mitzvah. Similarly, if one leaves
Mishloach Manos at his friend’s door Purim night and his friend discovers
it in the morning, one is Yotzei Mishloach Manos.
D.
If one gives Mishloach Manos to a mumar who is Mechalel Shabbos, he
has nevertheless fulfilled the Mitzvah.
If an adult sends Mishloach Manos to a minor--he has nevertheless
fulfilled the Mitzvah.
E.
It is a Machlokes HaPoskim whether a person who purchases a utensil
in order to give it to his friend as a present is considered as if he ‘is
doing business’ with the utensil, in which case it would not require tevilah
while in his possession. Indeed,
according to the Taz, the giver cannot tovel
the item--the tevilah does not help--and the bracha is a bracha levatalah, for the
recipient must tovel the item.
HaRav Kamenetsky, however, holds that when one buys an object with
the intent of giving it to his friend, it is considered as if he is buying
it for himself, and it is considered his--it is just that he intends in the
future to give it to his friend. Accordingly,
he would be able to tovel the
utensil, and give it to his friend. Hakhel Note:
Based upon this Machlokes HaPoskim, one resolution may be to put a
sticker on the utensil stating that it is ‘Not
Toveled’. In all events,
one should consult with his Rav or Posek as to the proper method for
delivering Mishloach Manos--when giving a utensil with it.
F.
Once a child has reached a basic level of understanding, then a boy
should not be dressed as a girl, nor a girl as a boy.
G.
As brought in the Rema to Shulchan Aruch, one should learn Torah
immediately prior to the Purim Seudah, since the Pasuk states “LaYehudim
Haysa Orah V’Simcha”--the light of Torah must precede the Simcha of
the meal because it brings a person to true Simcha. It is not
sufficient for a person to rely on his study of Torah in the morning [such
as at Yeshivas Mordechai HaTzaddik!].
H.
Women are equally as obligated in the Seuda as men. Women
should also drink a little bit (a revi’is or less) of wine, and can also
be Yotzei with grape juice instead of wine. However, there is no
obligation for children under Bar/Bas Mitzvah to drink even grape juice.
It is, in all events, forbidden for anyone to become drunk. Hakhel
Note: HaRav Kamenetsky’s
lesson is clear--our Seudah should be graced only by the Yetzer Hatov and
the Torah atmosphere that Mordechai HaTzadik and Esther HaMalka were ready
to give their lives for--and would be so proud of!
Additional Note:
As Mishloach Manos time draws nearer and nearer, we are reminded not
to forget the Bain Odom LaMakom when beautifully performing this great
Mitzvah of Bain Odom LeChaveiro. This
means that especially meaningful brachos should be made upon the Manos
received. One point:
If you received a small cookie and a large, but sliced piece of cake,
and you intend to eat both, which item would you make the Borei Minei
Mezonos on? The Shulchan Aruch (Orach
Chaim 168:1) rules that it is more chashuv to make a bracha on a shalem--on
a whole, uncut item even if it is smaller--than to make a bracha on a
non-whole item--even if it is larger. One
can also deduce the obvious mussar lessons from this as well!
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BE CAREFUL! Just
because you may commonly see liquors at someone else’s Simcha, this does
not mean that they are necessarily Kosher. For example, the Star-K Liquor
List, lists the following among a group of Not-Approved
Liquors: Glenfiddich, Glenlivet, Glenmorangie, Glenrothes. The Star-K also
cautions against use of flavored beers without a proper Hashgacha.
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Special Note One: To
help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar Marbin B’Simcha,
we provide the following questions (and answers!) relating to the events of
Megillas Esther:
1. QUESTION:
What two words in the Megillah have the Gematria of 95?
ANSWER: Both Hamelech and Haman. This
may suggest that neither was a lesser enemy of K’lal Yisrael than the
other one was! Fascinatingly, Rabbi Ozer Alport, Shlita, points out that 95
is also the Gematria of Keis Kah (Shemos
17:16), from which phrase Chazal teach that Hashem swore that neither His
Name nor His Throne will be complete until Amaleik is destroyed. See Rashi
(ibid). The phrase Keis Kah with
respect to Amaleik may also teach us that Hashem’s Hand is hidden in the
Megillah--there for us to discover.
2. QUESTION: Who was
the first to do battle with Amaleik?
ANSWER:
Yehoshua Bin Nun (Shemos
17: 9). Some suggest that it is for the honor of Yehoshua that Chazal
required cities walled from his time to read the Megillah on the 15th.
3. QUESTION: At
the end of the Megillah, the Pasuk brings that Achashveirosh levied taxes on
both the mainlands and the islands (Esther 10:1). Why does the Megillah need
to teach us this--what is the connection to the events of the Megillah?
ANSWER: HaRav Nosson Wachtfogel, Z’tl, teaches that
although K’lal Yisrael was tremendously uplifted by the great miracles
that had occurred--Achashveirosh did not raise himself spiritually at all,
and he continued to focus on mundane and monetary pursuits--more money, more
money…(Leket Reshimos, p. 113).
4. QUESTION: At
the conclusion of the Purim miracle, Haman and later his sons are hanged.
Why is there no Mitzvah on Purim that relates to Mechiyas
Amaleik which was such a great part of the Purim salvation?
ANSWER: HaRav Wachtfogel, explains that Simcha Alein Makt Ouf Amaleik--a Jew’s Simcha itself destroys
Amaleik--and that there is no greater mechiyas Amaleik than Simcha (ibid.,
p. 120).
5. QUESTION: If
one, under the direction and guidance of his Rav, engages in Ahd
Delo Yadah--then other than the actual Mitzvos HaYom, what must one be
sure to do prior to Ahd Delo Yadah?
ANSWER: Teshuvah
in Ahavas Reiyim and Ahavas Chaveirim in a real and substantial way (ibid., 136).
Special Note Two: At
a Hakhel Shiur relating to Purim, Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier, Shlita, urged
everyone to prepare for Purim by reading the Megillah anew without the
influences of his childhood thoughts--but as a Sefer of Tanach. Rather
than view King Acashveirosh as a roly- poly, fickle nitwit, we should
realize instead Chazal’s teaching on the beginning words of the Megillah:
‘Hu Achashveirosh’--Hu BeRisho Mitechilaso Ve’Ad Sofo--he is
Achashveirosh--evil from the beginning until the end. Haman, then,
could find no better partner to annihilate the Jews than him--for their
annihilation was a great desire of his, as well [see Question 1 above].
It is very telling that even after the Neis Purim occurred, he still did not
allow the rebuilding of the Bais HaMikdash for as long as he was king!
Yet, with all of his hatred for us, Hashem caused him to move his
kingdom’s capital to Shushan, the place of the Jews, so that Mordechai
would not have to burden himself in traveling any distance to his palace.
Hakhel Note: With all of this in mind, let us take the time to study
and appreciate the depth of every nuance and detail in the Megillah--and
make many new discoveries this year. We most certainly invite you to
share your discoveries and original thoughts with us!
Special Note Three:
We once again present below many Pesakim of HaRav Shmuel Kamenetsky,
Shlita, relating to Purim from the expanded version of Kovetz Halachos for Purim, by his close Talmid, Rabbi Doniel
Kleinman, Shlita.
PART I
A. Even if one is exempt
from fasting because of illness, he should minimize the amount of food and
drink that he consumes on the Ta’anis. A pregnant woman and a
nursing woman may consume regular amounts, as necessary.
B. If one intends to rise
early on Ta’anis Esther and eat before Alos Hashachar, he must start his
Seudah at least a half hour before Alos, although it is permissible to eat
less than a Kebeitzah within the
half hour period.
C. This Shabbos, a Megillah
is not Muktzah (not even Machmas
Chisaron Kis) for one can study Torah from it.
D. Before one touches his
Megillah, he should wash his hands (see Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 147:1).
E. When Chazal teach that a
person who does melacha on Purim will not see a siman bracha from it, this
does not refer to permissible melacha--such as a dovor
ho’avad (matters relating to preventing a financial loss) and melacha
for simcha. Additionally, one is permitted to cut his hair and nails
and do laundry.
F. It is best if women go
to Shul to hear the Megillah read BeTzibbur. If one has a wife, a son
who has reached the age of Chinuch, and a baby in the house--who should go
to Shul--his wife, or the older child? It would appear better for the
wife to stay home (and hopefully hear the Megillah together with ten women
later) and that he should bring his son to Shul to fulfill the Mitzvah of
chinuch (BeRov Am).
G. If someone knows that he
will not be able to hear every word in Shul, and will have to make up the
words he does not hear from a Chumash (which is only Bedi’eved)--it is
better to make a smaller Minyan in one’s home and be yotzeh LeChatchila by
hearing every word from a Megillah. However, if one will be forced to
read or hear the Megillah without a Minyan, it is better to go to Shul and
make up the words from one’s Chumash when necessary.
H. If a person was unable to hear the Megillah at
night, he cannot make it up by hearing the Megillah two times during the
day. If one person didn’t hear
the Megillah, and finds nine people who agree to listen again even though
they were already yotzeh, it is still called Megillah B’Tzibbur, which is Pirsumei Nissah!
I. If a person senses that
he lost his focus on the Megillah, he should read from his Chumash from the
place where he lost his focus until he catches up to the Ba’al Kriyah.
This holds true for both men and women. It is for this reason
that it is best to have one’s own Kosher Megillah, and to lein the
Megillah together with the Chazan. Indeed, if one is uncertain whether
he missed one word of the Megillah (either at night or during the day), he
must hear the entire Megillah reading again.
J. One does not fulfill his
Seudas Purim with a Seudah that he eats on Leil Purim.
Nevertheless, at night, one should have candles burning, the table
set, eat a meal with bread, although he does not need to eat meat.
One should also drink a little wine, but there is no Mitzvah at all
at night to drink beyond that.
K. One can be Yotzei the
Mitzvah of Matanos L’Evyonim with a check even if it is postdated, because
one can use the check in payment or otherwise negotiate it to someone else.
L.
In a footnote, Rabbi Kleinman brings from the Yesod V’Shoresh HaAvodah that one who gives freely on Purim makes
‘Tekunim Gedolim BeOlamos HaElyonim
HaKedoshim’. One fulfills
Matanos L’Evyonim if he gives Tzedaka to a Katan and if he gives Tzedaka
anonymously.
M.
A woman can be Yotzei her Matanos L’Evyonim through her husband’s
giving, but it is better for her husband to tell her that he is giving on
her behalf.
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We
provide by
clicking here a link to the Tefillos recited at the awe-inspiring Kinus
in lower
Manhattan
. Anyone
who could not attend can most certainly recite the Kepitelech of Tehillim
today, to demonstrate his unity and oneness with his brothers in Eretz
Yisrael and with the Torah HaKedosha itself. Whether one was at the Kinus or
not, the week before Purim is most certainly a week to STRENGTHEN OURSELVES
IN KAVANNAS HATEFILLAH. As we noted last week, perhaps we can bli
neder make a special attempt to have special Kavanna for the meaning of
the words at the end of each bracha of Shemone Esrei beginning with the
words Baruch Attah Hashem...Magen Avraham, Mechaye Hameisim, HaKel HaKadosh
during this MOST AUSPICIOUS PERIOD.
One
Additional Point: The word “imanu-- with us” appears one time in Shemone
Esrei--when we recite the thankful words of “V’al Nissecha She’bechal Yom Imanu--for all of the [hidden]
daily miracles.” So, you think
that miracles of this kind happen only on Purim?!
The Hidden Miracles happen IMANU--with us every day as well!
Let us additionally remember to spend the week before Purim getting
ready for the grand celebration by focusing in on thanking Hashem for the
miracles that he bestows upon us every day of our lives--and let us
especially remember to thank Hashem for that which we know about--but also
the salvations that we don’t even know about (ranging from the heinous
plans of our enemies or even ‘friends’ against us --to appreciatively
being saved in the winter from a dangerous slip and fall).
Chazal teach that the days of Purim will never become botel (Yalkut
Shimoni Mishlei 544)--so too should we never, ever cease to thank Hashem for
all that He bestows upon us daily.
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Special Note One: To
help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar Marbin B’Simcha,
we provide the following questions (and answers!) relating to the events of
Megillas Esther:
1. QUESTION:
Why was Esther referred to as Esther?
ANSWER:
One answer is because she was hidden
(the root of Esther being seiser--hidden)
in Mordechai’s house for 75 years
after she was born (Targum and Targum Sheini) until she was discovered by
the henchman of Achashveirosh so that the nes
of Purim could occur.
2. QUESTION:
What was Mordechai doing for the
seven day feast that began after the 180 day feast was over (Megillas Esther
1:5)?
ANSWER: He understood the peril of this
concluding party, and fasted and davened for seven days (Targum).
3. QUESTION:
How was Vashti put to death by Achashveirosh?
ANSWER: Let us just say you could no longer
give her a ‘heads-up’ (Targum).
4. QUESTION:
After Haman’s decree, the Megillah (
3:15
) records V’hair Shushan
Navocha-- and the people of Shushan were bewildered.
Why were they not happy--after all, can’t we assume that they were
all Jew-haters?
ANSWER: Yes,
you can assume that--Rashi (ibid.) explains that it was only the Jews in Shushan
that were bewildered. This is
why it is so important to learn the Megillah BEFORE Purim with at least one
basic peirush....
5. QUESTION:
We sing “Shoshanas
Yaakov...Birosam Yachad Techeiles Mordechai.
What was the Techeiles of Mordechai all about?
ANSWER: HaRav
Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita suggests that when Mordechai was told to wear the
king’s garments, he had to place tzitzis (with Techeiles) on the
four-cornered ones, and as a result K’lal Yisrael realized that it was him
and not Haman on the king’s horse!
Special
Note Two: HaRav Shimon Schwab, Z’tl (Rav Schwab on Prayer, Artscroll,
p.526) poses a “I should have thought of that” question: Why does the
Megillah in some detail, and why do Chazal subsequently in Ahl
HaNissim, spend the time and effort to describe that Haman was hung on a
tree, and that his 10 sons were hung on the tree almost a year later. Why do
we have to remind ourselves of this every year in the Megillah and in the Ahl
Hanissim so many times? Indeed,
Rav Schwab points out—even in the Maoz Tzur of Chanukah we sing “Rov
Bonov Vekinyanav Al Hoetz Tolisa—Haman and a good number of his sons
were hung on the tree.” What special significance does the tree have to
this very special day?
Rav
Schwab answers: Chazal (Chullin
139B) teach that Haman is alluded to in the Torah with the Eitz HaDaas—Hashem
asks Adam: “Hamin Hoetz Asher…—Did you eat of the tree which I commanded you
not to eat?” What is the relationship of Haman to the Eitz HaDaas –is it
merely a play on words of Haman
and Hamin? Obviously not. There is
a great lesson here. Haman intended to commit the most heinous crime
imaginable—the genocide of an entire people. The aveirah of Adam and Chava
at first blush seems to be of no comparison whatsoever.
After all, they wanted to grow spiritually—to know the difference
between Tov and Ra (Beraishis 3:5)—it was an Aveira for them to eat only
because Hashem did not want them to grow in this way at this time. They
succumbed to the appeal which the fruit had to their senses—albeit a
supernal and lofty one. As Rav Schwab teaches: “This was the most exalted
form of an aveirah ever committed.” Nevertheless, the Megillah and Chazal
teach that the worst possible aveirah known to man—genocide-- had its
origins in the sublime and elevated desire of Adam and Chava.
This is the route of aveira, this is the path of the Yetzer Hora.
Those ‘worst kind’ of aveiros start somewhere—they have their origin
in the slightest of aveiros. Haman’s aveira only began…because of the Hamin
that engendered it.
So,
when we read and refer to--and even pray about --the Tree of Haman this
Purim, let us make sure that we glean its great lesson. We will tell the
Yetzer Hora--”No, I am not going to begin—the one word of Lashon Hora,
the one bite of questionable food, picking up the muktza item because there
‘must be some heter’, not paying the worker what he asks because you
want to teach him a lesson… all of the good intentions, all of the
‘practically no aveira’ of what you may be thinking, doing or
saying—remember that 50 Amos high tree-- look up to its top—and to the
‘little’ sapling!
Special
Note Three: We provide the
following exceptional excerpt from “The
Light of the Ben Ish Chai on Megillat Esther” “--the commentary of
the Ben Ish Chai on the Megillah, as translated by Rabbi Yerachmiel Bratt,
Shlita (as you give your Mishloach Manos with one hand, perhaps you can give
this wonderful sefer to your friend with the other!):
“The Chida in the name of Rav Germiza stated that the gematria of
the expression Mordechai HaYehudi (Mordechai the Jew) equals the name of
Hashem as Shakai (shin dalet and yud; 314).
The name Shakai indicates that Hashem controls all and that He can
completely up heave the powers of the spheres of the universe.
As a true Amaleki, after Haman told his family of his honor and
fortune, he stated that all was valueless to him when he saw Mordechai
HaYehudi. Haman specifically
referred to Mordechai as Mordechai HaYehudi because he was really referring
to Hashem’s control over the balance of power in the universe.
In one fell swoop, Hashem could shift power from Haman to Mordechai.
Indeed, Zeresh and Haman’s advisors urged Haman to take swift
action before the balance of power in the universe shifted in favor of
Mordechai. Their human thoughts fell short and unaccomplished.
Shortly thereafter, Mordechai HaYehudi ascended to power while Haman
and his sons were overthrown and hanged....”
Hakhel
Note: Is it no small wonder then
that this name of Hashem--Shakai--is placed upon our Mezuzos to remind us
Who is in control of all as we come and go!
Special Note Four: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday
series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain
Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals
The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXVII
Question
I recently saw a stunning, illustrated megillah selling for a small
fortune. I was thinking about saving up to buy it, and thereby enhance my
fulfillment of Mitzvas Megillah. My
chavrusa claims that while it may be a nice piece of Judaica, in
terms of Mitzvas Megillah, not only is it not a beautification, it is
a disgrace. I am rather offended
by his position. Could he
possibly be correct?
Answer
Actually, he is correct. While disgrace may be a strong
term, the rationale behind it is accurate. Megillas Esther is part of
Kisvei HaKodesh (The Holy Writings), one of the twenty-four books of
Tanach. The correct way of beautifying Kisvei HaKodesh is by
fulfilling all the halachic requirements
mandated by Chazal. To add to the physical megillah, however, is a kind of
statement that the scroll lacks intrinsic beauty. This is quite an insult to
the mitzvah since in fact, there is nothing more beautiful than a mehudar
STA”M item. There is no need for us to add to what HaShem and Chazal
find intrinsically beautiful.
Regarding the phenomenon of illustrated Megillos, Rav Elyashiv Zt”l
was wont to say “ain ruach chachamim nocheh haimenu”, or loosely
translated “the chachamim are not pleased with him”.
An external adornment such as a silver case is indeed befitting.
It communicates: “I value my beautiful megillah [or mezuzah] so much that
I want to store it in an appropriately beautiful case.”
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FROM
A READER: “Regarding your question as to why Mordechai is
referred to as a Yehudi if he came from Shevet Binyomin: By the time of the
Megillah we already have seifer Daniel (1:6 and elsewhere) using the term
Yehudah as “survivor of Malkhus Yehudah”, i.e. “Jew” in the same
sense of the word. And in Melakhim II
18:26
, during Chizqiyahu, the language is called Yehudit,
in contrast to Aramit.” Hakhel
Note: You are mechavein to the words of the Ibn Ezra (Megillas Esther 2:5)!
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Special
Note One: We continue with our Erev Shabbos--Halachos of Shabbos Series:
A.
Shabbos (6 Adar II) is the third Yahrzeit of the Fogel family--Mr. and Mrs.
Ehud Fogel, and their three children, Yoav, Elad and Hadass H’YD. As we
recite Av HaRachamim before Musaf--let us have in mind that we ask Hashem to
recall them with compassion and that we anxiously await in our day for
Hashem to avenge the blood of our people.
B.
The following is excerpted from the outstanding pamphlet entitled: “Welcoming
the Shabbos Queen”:
1.
The Midrash tells us that Hashem told Moshe Rabbeinu, “I have a
wonderful gift in My treasure house, called Shabbos. I would like to bestow
it upon the Jewish people. Go and inform them of this.” The King of kings,
Hashem Himself, attests to the fact that Shabbos is a wonderful gift. He
sent Moshe on a special mission to tell our nation about it, so that we
should appreciate its greatness and hurry toward it. Hashem has especial
happiness when a person voluntarily adds time to Shabbos. In Kabbalas
Shabbos, we say, “Let us go forward to greet Shabbos, for it is the source
of all blessing.” This is a fundamental precept of Creation.
The
Chofetz Chaim says that Hashem concentrated all forms of blessing into
Shabbos Kodesh. Whoever observes Shabbos and honors it, welcoming it as it
enters and seeing it out as it leaves, merits the wonderful blessings
offered by Shabbos. The Chofetz Chaim was wont to say, “People are always
seeking merits for success. Aren’t the mitzvos enough for them? Is there
any amulet or segulah more effective than following Hashem’s commands?
This is especially so regarding the mitzvah of Shabbos Kodesh, which draws
down Heavenly blessing upon all the other days of the week.” Whoever
merits honoring it by adding on time beforehand and afterward will surely
receive the blessings inherent in Shabbos. HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita,
advises those in need of salvation and blessing to strengthen themselves in
the area of adding on time to Shabbos. He says this is a proven segulah for
healing, livelihood, shidduchim, marital harmony, success in raising
children, and all other matters.
2.
The Sefer Meleches Shabbos states
that receiving the Shabbos early is a merit for seeing blessing in one’s
livelihood. The author of Sod Hashem
writes that when a person brings in Shabbos early, Hashem treats him in a
similar manner: The person expanded the boundaries of this exalted day,
thereby minimizing the days of mundane activity. In turn, if he ever finds
himself in a financial bind and he calls out to Hashem, Hashem will broaden
his portion without boundaries. He will merit fulfillment of the pasuk,
“Hashem has broadened our boundaries and we have multiplied in the land”
(Bereishis 26:22).
3.
It is written in the Aruch Hashulchan:
It is a tremendous zechus to bring in Shabbos early. How fortunate is the
one who exerts himself in this mitzvah. There is no end to his reward, and
the Shabbos itself will speak in his defense.
4.
Bringing in Shabbos early is a proven method for maintaining one’s shalom
bayis. It is praiseworthy to have the Shabbos table set by
midday
on
Friday and to welcome Shabbos as early as possible. The Zohar tells us that
Shabbos is called Shalom, peace. On Shabbos, Hashem grants abundance of
peace to all of Am Yisrael. He sends the angels of peace to every Jewish
home, to bless them with peace. The earlier one accepts Shabbos, the earlier
he receives this blessing of peace in his home. Commentaries offer a hint to
this. The letters of the word Shabbos are an acronym for the phrases Shabbos B’Bayis Takdim
(you shall bring Shabbos early into your home) and Shalom
B’Bayis Tekabel (you will attain peace in your
home). Chazal exhort us to speak softly with our family members on Erev
Shabbos. It is worthwhile to increase words of encouragement and praise to
one’s wife and children, for their help in preparing for Shabbos. It is
appropriate to recite the following prayer: Master of peace, King of peace,
bless me with peace and remember me and all members of my household and all
Your nation, Beis Yisrael, for good life and peace.
5.
The Mishnah Berurah quotes the Ba’alei Kabbalah who state that one should
be extremely careful regarding his marital harmony on Shabbos. He must never
allow the Satan to draw him into any sort of dispute or quarrel, especially
late on Friday afternoon, when it is close to Shabbos. The tzaddik, Rav
Hersh of Ziditchov, Zt’l, said that having the table set before chatzos on
Friday afternoon is a segulah to invalidate the negative forces which arouse
dissention in many homes on Erev Shabbos. It is known that Torah scholars
are careful to spread a white tablecloth on the Shabbos table on Friday
morning and prepare the Shabbos candles immediately upon returning home from
Shacharis on Friday morning. There are those who straighten up the house and
prepare the Shabbos table on Thursday evening.
6.
The Mishnah Berurah (Siman 256) writes that one who encourages others to
bring in Shabbos early, will be rewarded with children who are great Torah
leaders in our nation. HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, says that the Mishnah
Berurah is not merely offering a nice segulah for righteous children, but is
stating a halachic ruling, which is guaranteed.
7.
Rabbi Moshe Shmuel Shapiro, Zt’l, Rosh Yeshivas Be’er Yaakov, used to
commend the practice of accepting Shabbos early. A Jew once approached him
and said that he had gotten enmeshed in a difficult court case, with all the
evidence pointed against him. Rabbi Moshe Shmuel advised him to take in the
Shabbos one half hour earlier than usual. The man did as he was told, and
within a short time, was pleasantly surprised to find the entire case turned
over - in his favor. He was declared completely innocent.
8.
One accepts Shabbos either with candle lighting or by the recitation of Mizmor shir L’yom HaShabbos or Lecha
Dodi, which ends with the phrase, “Come, my bride, the Shabbos
queen.” At the very least, one should say, “Gut Shabbos,” or,
“Shabbat Shalom,” with the intention of bringing in the Shabbos. From
this point on, all work prohibited on Shabbos is forbidden. The sefer Mishmeres
Shalom suggests that one should say, “I am hereby bringing in the
Shabbos early as Hashem has commanded us to add from the weekday to the
Shabbos. Ribbono Shel Olam, allow me to merit observing Shabbos
appropriately, and do complete Teshuvah.” It is admirable to dress in
Shabbos clothing before lighting the candles. Also, one should precede
lighting the candles with giving a few coins to tzedakah.
Hakhel
Note: Let us try, bli neder,
week by week...!
Special
Note Two: The Parasha begins (Vayikra 1:2) with the words “Adam Ki Yakriv Mikem Korban Lashem…Takrivu Es Korbanchem”. HaRav
Meir Schuck, Z’tl, notes that the Pasuk starts in the singular (Adam)
and ends in the plural (Takrivu),
and explains that this comes to teach us that when one wants to get closer
to Hashem, he should include the rest of K’lal Yisrael in his avodah.
One’s goal should be to have everyone join together in Avodas Hashem--not
to stand apart, but to be part of a united community--all serving the Ribono
Shel Olam.
This
lesson is especially true, HaRav Schuck continues, with respect to Tefilah.
Our daily Tefilos are said in the plural. Our personal requests for health,
wealth, and forgiveness include
everybody in the Tefilah. When we daven for our elevation and growth in
Avodas Hashem we also ask for our united growth. May we all see the return
of the Avodah in the Beis HaMikdash--not just me, but everyone. We
daven that we should all have the
good in life.
HaRav
Schuck uses this fundamental idea in analyzing the difference between
Kayin’s Karbon and Hevel’s Karbon. Hashem accepted Hevel’s Karbon and
He did not accept Kayin’s Karbon. Many Meforshim have asked why, and
various answers are given. HaRav Schuck provides a beautiful p’shat. With
regard to Hevel, the Pasuk says “V’Hevel
Hevei Gam Hu”. The word Gam
indicates that when Hevel brought the Korban his intent was “Gam
Hu”--that he is bringing the Korban not only for himself, but with
others in mind as well. He wanted to thank Hashem together with
everyone--and it was with this intention that Hashem found his Korban
acceptable.
The same idea, concludes HaRav Schuck, is seen in the story of Purim. Esther
says to Mordechai: “Lech Kenos Es
Kol HaYehudim”--get everyone together and that way our prayers will be
heard. Haman Harasha said the Jews are ‘Mefuzar
U’Meforad’--spread apart and not united. His intention was to tell
Achashveirosh that the Jews will not be protected by their G-d because they
are not united. He somehow sensed that the only way the Jews can be helped
by Hashem, is if they are united. To counter this, Esther showed the world
(and maybe the Jews themselves) that we are all united and therefore deserve
Hashem Yisborach’s help!
Hakhel
Note: With this absolutely essential lesson, we understand how vital it is
for those in the
New York
area
to try to participate in this Sunday’s Kinus in lower
Manhattan
.
Even those who cannot physically attend and even those out of
New
York City
should certainly try to participate by reciting Tehillim at that time.
Perhaps shuls outside of
New
York
could make a minyan at
2:00
(
New
York
time) and daven and recite Tehillim with special fervor as well. Let us take
this great lesson of this week’s Parasha--and make it le’ma’aseh
mamash this Sunday!
Special
Note Three: We provide points and pointers on this week’s Parasha:
A.
The Shulchan Aruch itself (Orach Chayim 98:4) lists the ways in which
our daily Tefilah is compared to bringing Karbanos in the Beis HaMikdash. As
the Shulchan Aruch rules, “Tefilah
is in place of a Korbon and
therefore one must be careful that it is like a Korbon:
·
In
Kavannah, because improper thought invalidates a Korbon;
·
By
standing when it is recited, as the Avodah was done standing;
·
In
a certain place, as each Korbon had a specific place for shechita and Matan
Dam;
·
With
nothing interrupting between him and the wall, as with a Korbon where a
Chatzizah could be Posul [Hakhel Note:
one may speak to his Rav regarding this point, if his seat in Shul is
not near the wall]; and
·
It
is befitting that a person has nice, special clothes, just as there were
special Bigdei Kehunah for the Avodah. Note
: At the very least, one should not enter to daven in the same
attire as if he were about to repair something around the house!
Hakhel
Note:
As we have noted in the past, it is well known that deep
knee bends are a recommended method to improve one’s physical flexibility.
Chazal, however, never prescribed this exercise, especially during
davening. When we bend our knees
and bow our heads in Shemone Esrei, it is not intended as a physical
exercise, but as a mental exercise.
As we bow, the sefer Shaarei Orah (p. 39) writes, we should
feel a pure and complete submission or servitude to HaKodosh Boruch Hu.
This feeling of submission can be assisted by thinking about a specific
benefit which HaKodosh Boruch Hu has bestowed upon you, which no one
else can provide.
Special Note Four: The following
exceptional excerpt from Love Your Neighbor (by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin,
Shlita), is based upon tomorrow’s Parasha, and is absolutely imperative in
our every day life.
“The Parasha actually begins “VaYikra El Moshe…”--and He [Hashem] called to Moshe, and
[Hashem] spoke to him from the Ohel Moed saying (Vayikra 1:1). The Gemara (Yoma
4B) states from the last word “saying” which denotes “say to
others”, we learn that a person has no right to repeat what someone tells
him, unless given explicit permission to do so. Following are basic
laws pertaining to secrets:
1. If
someone tells you private information about his business or any personal
matter, you are forbidden to disclose it to others. Your doing so
could cause the person who confided in you financial loss, embarrassment, or
other damage. Even if the speaker did not request that the matter
remain secret, you are not allowed to repeat it. It is self-evident
that the speaker does not want such information to be divulged. However,
if the person related information concerning himself in the presence of
three or more people and did not request secrecy, you are permitted to
relate it to others. Since the speaker related it to a group of three
or more people, we can assume that he does not mind if the information will
be known. If, however, someone tells you about his wrongdoings, you
are forbidden to spread that information to belittle him, even if he related
it in the presence of three. Although the speaker has shown that he
does not mind if others know about his misbehavior, it is nonetheless
forbidden for anyone to deliberately publicize someone else’s actions to
harm or embarrass him (Chofetz Chaim, Chapter 2).
2. When
someone reveals to you seemingly harmless information in a manner which
shows that he would like it to be kept secret, you are forbidden to repeat
it to others even if he did not explicitly tell you to keep it secret.
In the Pasuk quoted above, Hashem related information to Moshe in the
Ohel Moed, and the Torah teaches that it was permissible for Moshe to repeat
the information only because of ‘Laymor’--Saying--i.e., because Hashem
gave him explicit permission to relate it to others (Be’er Mayim Chaim
2:27).
3. The
Chofetz Chaim writes that it is a good habit never to repeat what people
tell you unless they give you permission to do so. In this way you
will never relate information that might cause harm (ibid.).
4. You
have no right to repeat someone’s secret just because you add the phrase
“Don’t repeat this to anyone else.” The person to whom you
related the secret might pass on the secret, also adding, “…and don’t
repeat this to anyone else.” In a very short time, the secret could
become public knowledge and cause harm or embarrassment to the person who
confided in you (Pele Yoetz, section on “Sod”).
5. Husbands
and wives have no right to tell each other secrets that someone told him or
her in confidence (ibid.).
Finally,
a person should be careful not to disclose his own secrets to others. Before
someone reveals a secret, he is the secret’s master. But once
someone reveals a secret, the secret is his master, for he lives in fear
that it will become known to others (Menoras Hamaor 2:4).”
Let
us apply the Parasha’s great teaching in our everyday lives--for
everyone’s benefit!
Special
Note Five: To help continue to
arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar
Marbin B’Simcha, we provide the following questions (this time--and
answers!) relating to the events of Megillas Esther, which have been culled
from the Sefer Sifsei Chachomim, introduction to Mesechta Megillah, and
other sources:
1. QUESTION: At what
point in the Megillah did Michoel and Gavriel work together on behalf of the
Jews?
ANSWER: After Haman ordered Doniel (who was bringing
messages back and forth between Mordechai and Esther) killed, Michoel and
Gavriel together took his place (Targum Sheini to Megillas Esther
4:12
).
2. QUESTION: The
Megillah records that when Achashveirosh saw that Esther had dared to appear
before him without being called, he miraculously extended his sharvit towards her. The Pasuk (5:2) there spells sharvit
with a yud. Later on in the Megillah (8:4), the Pasuk describes how
Achashveirosh extended the sharvit
to Esther again, but there the word sharvit
is spelled without a yud. Why--what is the difference?
ANSWER: Chazal teach that when Achashveirosh
extended the sharvit to Esther when she entered without permission it
miraculously extended for a huge amount of amos--perhaps 200! (see Megillah
15B). We may suggest that then it was no small sharvit--it was as complete
as it could get--a sharvit with a yud!
3. QUESTION: The
word Purim is written five times in the Megillah--twice with a Vav and three
times without a Vav--why?
ANSWER: The two times with a Vav (i.e., with the
word complete) allude to the 14th and 15th of Adar,
each of which are celebrated as Purim in all respects, only depending upon
whether the city was originally walled or not. The three times Purim is
written without a Vav represents the 11th, 12th and 13th
of Adar, days upon which in certain circumstances in the past the Megillah
could have been read (and Matanos L’Evyonim given)--but Simchas Purim was
in any event even in these circumstances celebrated on the 14th.
(Cheishek Shlomo)
Hakhel Note to Questions 2
and 3: Oh, how much we can learn
from the presence or absence of even one letter in the Megillah!
4. QUESTION:
Can you name at least three Nevi’im--other than Mordechai and Esther--who
lived at the time that the miracle of Purim took place?
ANSWER: Baruch Ben Neryah, Sraya Ben Machsaya, Daniel,
Chagai, Zechariah and Malachi. (Rashi to Megillah 15A)
5. QUESTION:
When was Haman hung?
ANSWER: Haman was hung in the evening after the 16th
of Nissan (i.e., the night of the 17th). (ibid.)
6. QUESTION:
Why does the Megillah refer to Haman’s lottery with the term “Hipil
Pur, Hu HaGoral”(Megillah 3:7)-was is the difference between a Pur
and Goral?
ANSWER: The Meforshim (ibid.) explain that a Pur is
a lottery which is intended to have a negative result, while a Goral
is intended to have a positive. Thus, Haman had intended for it to be
a Pur for Klal Yisroel--however--the Megillah already testified at
that time that it would be a Goral--a lottery in which we were the
winners!
7. QUESTION:
On what day did the Ikar Neis of Purim occur?
ANSWER: The thirteenth day of Adar, when the major wars
against our enemies were fought (Rashi to Megillah 2A).
8. QUESTION:
What does the word Manos in Mishloach Manos refer to?
ANSWER:
Although we commonly translate the term as portions, Rashi (Megillah 7A)
defines Manos as Minei Ma’adanim, kinds of delicacies.
9. QUESTION:
According to the opinions that one should give Mishloach Manos through a
Shaliach, through an agent--can that agent be a monkey, or other person who
would generally not represent you as your ‘Shaliach’?
ANSWER:
The Chasam Sofer (in the Chidushei Chasam Sofer to Gittin 22B) writes
that the Shaliach need only be competent when the matter to be performed
really needs to be performed by the principal, but we just accept the
Shaliach as his agent. However, when the Torah requires that a
Shaliach be sent--such as in Mishloach Manos, then one can even send a
monkey or any other person who would be Pasul as a Shaliach to deliver the
Shaloch Manos. How is this for a novel idea for this Purim?
10. QUESTION:
How does one fulfill the concept of Pirsumei Nissa on Purim?
ANSWER: The reading of the Megillah publicizes the
miracle--and as a result everyone praises (or should praise) Hashem in its
aftermath! As a matter of fact, the reason that we read the Megillah
at night and during the day is to remember how K’lal Yisroel cried out to
Hashem to be saved both at night and during the day--and through this we
remember the Nes!
11. QUESTION: What
should one be sure to do at the Purim Seudah?
ANSWER: The Nehorah
Shaleim writes that one should read the Parasha of Vayavo
Amaleik (Shemos 17:8-16), and the Parasha three times of Zachor
Eis Asher Lecha Amaleik. He should also have candles lit as on Shabbos,
and speak of the Nisim that occurred.
12.
QUESTION: The Navi (Yeshaya 43:18) writes that “Ahl Tizkeru Rishonos--once the great Geulah comes, we will no longer
remember the Mo’adim that took place celebrating Yetziyas Mitzrayim.”
Yet, Chazal teach that we will still celebrate Purim--how was the Nes of
Purim greater than all of the Nissim of Yetziyas Mitzrayim?
ANSWER: In Mitzrayim we were not threatened with
immediate annihilation of all--men, women and children, while Haman’s
decree was from young to old, men and women--covering our entire people. It
is thus the salvation of our entire people--oh how we must celebrate--and
how we will--forever!
13.
QUESTION: Why do the Jews who live in
Spain
and
Africa
have to celebrate Purim--if they were not under
the rulership of Achashveirosh?
ANSWER: The Chida writes that on Purim every year
great lights shine through the entire
world--just as those that were revealed in the times of Mordechai and
Esther, as the Pasuk says: “LaYehudim
Haysah Orah V’Simcha”.
14.
QUESTION: Esther’s name is mentioned three times in the
Megillah as Esther Bas Avichayil. Why is her full name mentioned three
times?
ANSWER: We do not know--sometimes that is also an
answer! If you know of an answer, please let us know!
15. QUESTION: What is the source for the concept of drinking on
Purim to the point of not knowing the difference between ‘Arur Haman
and Baruch Mordechai’?
ANSWER:
The source is easy--Megillah 7B--but why?! Once again, we look forward
to your answer!
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4 Adar II
MEGILLAH
READING
! The
Chovos HeLevavos teaches us: “Ki HaYamim Megillos Kisvu
Bahem Mah Shetachpetzu Sheyizacher Lachem--Everyone’s days
are like Megillos--write in them what you wish to be remembered for.” (Sha’ar
Cheshbon HaNefesh, Chapter 3).
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PURIM COSTUME ALERT: The Luach Davar B’Ito reminds all that
Purim costumes (especially hats from
Eastern
Europe
) may contain Shatnez, and
accordingly should be checked in advance of Purim to make sure that the
costume is usable. The Luach also strongly advises against
using costumes which can scare others. It also suggests that the child
‘tries the costume on’ in front of a parent so that it fits, is clean
and no buttons are missing…to avoid any last minute consternation or
disappointment.
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Special Note One: One may
worriedly feel that he has to be a little bit tighter with Tzedaka until
Purim comes, and may also feel uneasy about all of the contributions on
Purim as well. There is a story related about R’ Itzele Petterburger,
Z’tl, who reached into his pocket and gave a stranger Tzedaka. After
the person left, R’ Itzele remarked that he felt no difficulty, no
hold-back, with his act of giving--so the Tzedaka in that case was probably
not a true one. The Yetzer Hara would only bring about hesitation and
resistance when the Mitzvah was real--otherwise, he will let it go by with
pleasure. In a similar vein, the Torah in last week’s Parasha
records that Moshe Rabbeinu gave an exact accounting of what happened with
the Mishkan’s collections, because people would be or were suspicious of
him otherwise. What?! Suspicious of Moshe Rabbeinu--who had
brought them out of Mitzrayim and in fact had brought so much spiritual and
physical wealth to them?! Where did all of their money come from
anyway?! It must be, then, that the Yetzer Hara provides levels of
friction and antagonism when it comes to true giving--which would not come
about if one was spending the money on an expensive dinner, warm sweater, or
on an extra pair of shoes or spare laptop. So, if you are approached
for Tzedaka within the next ten days--remember for the large part
where your inner resistance is coming from. Similarly, when giving
Matanos Le’Evyonim--overcome the challenge and remember to give each and
every person wisely--and B’Sever Panim Yafos!
Special Note Two: To
help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar Marbin B’Simcha,
we provide the following questions (this time--and answers!) relating to the
events of Megillas Esther, which have been culled from the Sefer Sifsei
Chachomim, introduction to Mesechta Megillah, and other sources:
1. QUESTION:
We have stated that there are 40 generations from Yaakov to Mordechai. What
is the significance of relating Mordechai to Yaakov?
ANSWER: The
Midrash Talpios teaches that
Mordechai’s neshama is rooted in the neshama of Yaakov. Hakhel Note:
Chazal teach that there were only twenty generations from Eisav to Haman--their
rishus was much closer to each other!
2. QUESTION:
What was the name of Haman’s mother?
ANSWER: Her name was Amasla’i (Bas Urvasi). Chazal (Baba Basra 91A) teach that the name
of Avraham Avinu’s mother was also Amasla’i
(Bas Karnevo). One suggested
reason for the two mothers having the same name is that whenever the name
Haman ben Amasla’i is
mentioned, it is me’orer the
zechus of Avraham Avinu--just as when we mention even the city of
Chevron
, we are me’orer
the zechus Avos (see Yoma 28B).
3. QUESTION:
What are the ten significant
kingdoms that span all of human history?
ANSWER: (i) Hashem when He created the world,
and Whose Rulership was recognized by all; (ii) Nimrod,
when he rebelled before Hashem in front of the world; (iii) Paroh Melech
Mitzrayim; (iv) the kingdom of Ahm Yisrael in Eretz Yisrael; (v)
Nevuchadnezzar, king of Bavel; (vi) Achashveirosh; (vii) Yavan; (viii) Rome;
(ix) Moshiach; and (x) when Hashem once again is recognized by all as Ruler
of the world, as the Navi teaches: “VeHaya
Hashem LeMelech Ahl Kol Ha’aretz”.
4. QUESTION:
We know that the Gematria of Boruch Mordechai and Arur Haman are the same.
To what is the Gematria of Arurah Zeresh equivalent?
ANSWER: Esther Livracha (Steipeler Gaon).
5. QUESTION:
Why is Mordechai called an Ish Yehudi in the
Megillah--if he was a direct descendant of Shimi Ben Geirah who was from
Shevet Binyomin?
ANSWER: Chazal (Megillah 12B-13A) give
different possible explanations. Following are several:
A. He did come
from Binyomin--but it was an honor to be referred to as a Yehudi.
B. His father
was from Shevet Binyomin, but his mother was from Shevet Yehudah.
C. Shevet
Yehudah claimed the credit for Mordechai--as Dovid HaMelech did not kill his
ancestor Shimi Ben Geira as he could have, thereby allowing Mordechai to be
born.
D. The word
Yehudi refers to someone who is kofer in
Avodah Zara--and Mordechai did not bow down to Haman and anything that he
may have been wearing. Hakhel Note: Be proud to be called a Jew!
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PART XXVI
One of the more sought after items this time of year is the famous “Gra
Megillah”. Although many people know that they want it, few people
actually know why they want it or what it is. And even among those who know
that it is an 11 line Megillah, few know why it is so. Most people would be
surprised to hear that the Gra himself never insisted on an
eleven-line Megillah, nor did he ever own one. With all this in mind, let us
explore the origins of “The 11 line, Gra Megillah”.
In the Talmud Yerushalmi, we find the following passage: “R’
Yosi, the son of R’ Bun, said [about writing the names of the ten sons of
Haman]: The word ‘ish’ must be at the beginning of the page, and
[the word] ‘es’ at the end of the page.” The Maseches Sofrim
adds: “Ish at the beginning of the page, es at the end of
the page, written on eleven lines, aseres at the end of the page.”
Some explain the words “beginning and end of the page” to mean the
“top and bottom of the page.” According to them, even if the Megillah
has many more than eleven lines, the names of the ten sons of Haman must be
written on a separate page to allow the word ish to be the first word
on the top of the page, and the word aseres the last.
The Gra disagrees with this interpretation and explains that
“beginning and end of the page” means “beginning and end of the
line.” According to him, then, the word ish needs to be at the
beginning of the page – on the right side of the page, i.e., the beginning
of the line. And the word es needs to be at the end of the line. The Gra
does agree that the word aseres should be at the bottom of the page.
Practically speaking, what this means is that, according to the Gra,
as long as the word ish is written at the beginning of the line, even
if many regular lines are written above it, the Megillah has been
written properly.
Moreover, argues the Gra, the Megillah should be written
that way. The reason is that according to the other opinions – which place
the word ish at the top of the page and the word aseres at the
bottom – the aseres bnei Haman must be written in enlarged letters
in order to fill up the page. For instance, in a twenty-eight line Megillah,
the letters would have to be more than double their normal size. In a
forty-two line Megillah the letters would have to be almost four times the
normal size‼ Since we find no tradition that the names of the aseres
bnei Haman should be enlarged, this practice is an obvious error. The Gra,
therefore, felt that the aseres bnei Haman should be written as the
last eleven lines of the column in regular-size print.
The other opinions argue that such a Megillah is not correctly written
since other lines are written above the names of the aseres bnei Haman,
and the word ish is not at the top of the page. A possible reason for
having no clear tradition to make enlarged letters can be simply because,
theoretically, one could write an eleven-line Megillah and not have to
enlarge any letters – i.e., the only requirement is to have ish as
the first word on the page and aseres as the last. There is indeed no
tradition as to the size of the letters simply because this varies based on
how many lines the Megillah actually has.
The custom in all of Klal Yisrael is in accordance with
these other poskim who say that the Megillah should have the names of
the aseres bnei Haman written on their own page. Hence, in order to
accommodate the opinion of the Gra as well, the concept of an
eleven-line Megillah was “created.” This way the aseres bnei Haman
are on their own page with no lines above them while at the same time the
print is the same size as the rest of the Megillah.
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3 Adar II
MAY
IT BE IN OUR DAYS AS
WELL
!
The
Luach Davar B’ito records from Sefer Ezra (6:14-18) that today, 3
Adar is the specified day that K’lal Yisrael , led by Chagai and Zecharia,
completed and celebrated the successful construction of the Bayis Sheini!
The Luach accordingly suggests
that one read these Pesukim in Sefer Ezra. May we re-live these
events--through the completion of Bayis Shelishi, speedily and in our days!
We are certainly in a mesugal period--as
this is also the month of Geulah Purim--and as the well-known Chazal teaches
us, we celebrate Purim in Adar Sheini so that we place the Geulah of
Mitzrayim (Pesach) in close proximity with the Geulas Purim (and hopefully
the Geulah Sheleimah this month as well!).
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Special Note One: To help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas
Adar Marbin B’Simcha, we provide the following questions (and answers)
relating to the events of Megillas Esther, which have been culled from the
Sefer Sifsei Chachomim, introduction to Mesechta Megillah:
1. QUESTION:
Why is the Megillah called Megillas Esther--and not Megillas Mordechai?
ANSWER: There
are several answers given:
A. Mordechai
was on the Anshei Knesses HaGedolah that approved the Megillah’s
codification as one of the Sifrei Tanach. Referring to the Megillah as
Megillas Mordechai could cause some to claim that Mordechai endorsed it
because of his own honor, or as a remembrance as to how the king raised his
position and accorded him great honor and wealth.” Indeed, it was Esther
who requested of the Chachomim: ‘Kisvuni
L’Doros--write down my story for future generations.’ (See Megillas
Esther 9:29, and Megillah 7A).
B. Esther acted
with greater Mesiras Nefesh, as she stated (Esther
4:16
): “V’cha’asher
Avadeti Avodeti.” Rashi (Shemos 37:1) provides a similar comment on
the Pasuk: “Vaya’as Betzalel Es
Ha’Aron--Betzalel made the Aron”. Because he did more than others,
it was rightfully referred to by his name.
C. The ikar
HaNes occurred through her (see Megillah 4A Tosfos d’h She’af).
D. Even though
Esther was a yesoma and raised by
others--nevertheless a Yeshua Gedolah for all of K’lal Yisrael came
through her. This should provide a nechama to all those who are downtrodden
to strengthen their bitachon in Yeshuas Hashem--which can come --through him
or her--at any moment.
E. To remind us
that because Esther reported in the name of Mordechai what Bigsan and Seresh
intended to do to Achashveirosh she brought Geulah to the world--and that we
too can bring Geulah to the world by fulfilling Chazal’s teaching (Avos
6:6): “Kol Ha’omer Davar B’sheim
Amro Meivi Geulah LaOlam!
F. See Special
Note 4 below for an additional suggestion!
2. QUESTION:
Are there any cities in Chutz La’aretz that could have possibly been
walled from the times of Yehoshua Bin Nun?
ANSWER: Possibly,
Prague
,
Czechoslovakia
and
Temesvar
,
Romania
--the Shelah HaKadosh writes that an
individual should be machmir on himself in these cities and read the
Megillah at night and in the day (without a bracha) on the 15th
of Adar as well.
3. QUESTION:
How much time passed between Vashti being put to death and Esther becoming
queen?
ANSWER: 4
years--for Vashti was killed in the 3rd year of Achashveirosh’s
reign and Esther became queen in the 7th year of his reign.
4. QUESTION:
How many generations were there from Mordechai back to Yaakov Avinu?
ANSWER: 40
(see Targum Sheini to Esther 7:6 for a listing of Mordechai’s ancestry
generation by generation)
5. QUESTION:
How many years had Mordechai been in Galus before the Nes of Purim occurred?
ANSWER: Mordechai
went into Galus with Yechanya the king of Yehuda in the year 3328. The Nes
of Purim occurred in the year 3405. This means that Mordechai had been in
galus for 77 years prior to the Nes of Purim!
Special Note
Two: Once, after resolving a
difficulty in a Rambam, Rebbi Yisroel Salanter, Z’tl fainted.
“If I have such talent,” Rebbi Yisroel explained upon coming to,
“I have a tremendous responsibility,” the
Heavenly Court
will demand of me:
“Why didn’t you get the whole world to do Teshuva?”
Hakhel Note I:
We all have tremendous Kochos, more than we know. With these Kochos
comes responsibilities, not only to ourselves but to others.
This year, Purim will be celebrated on a Sunday, which means that
there is a greater responsibility to somehow and in some way involve those
who you know who are not yet Torah observant in the meaning and importance
of the day. May we suggest that
you go to the www.kiruv.com website and review the great possibilities that
you have of bringing a brother closer to Torah?
Even if you simply refer an uneducated acquaintance to some
inspirational websites, you will have accomplished a great deal.
These include: ohr.edu,
aish.com, simpletoremember.com, beingjewish.com, jewishresourcecard.com.
You don’t have to faint--and Hatzlacha Rabba!
Hakhel Note II:
The Maharal explains that the reason Haman was so happy that the
month in which he would kill the Jews came up as Adar was because it was the
last month of the year, thus symbolizing that it was the month which would c’v
be the end of K’lal Yisrael’s existence.
He was so mistaken, because Adar as the last month, symbolized our
existence beyond that of all of the other nations--we would continue and be
last! We each can do our part in
not only keeping ourselves part of those that are ‘last,’ but bringing
our neighbors, friends, co-workers, etc. into the great ‘Adar Group’ as
well!
Special Note
Three: As we learned in last
week’s Parasha, when one entered the Ohel Mo’ed, the Shulchan, or the
table with the Lechem HaPanim on it was on
the right and the Menorah was on
the left. The Shulchan, of
course, symbolizes prosperity and blessing in this world while the Menorah
represents the light of Torah and its study.
We would have better understood it if the Menorah was to the right and the Shulchan to the left.
After all, we attribute greater Chashivus to the right, and, moreover
the right was north--which was the direction in which the Kadshei Kadshim--the
most holy of Karbanos were brought. In
order to resolve this paradox, some commentaries explain that there is a
great difference between our approach to attaining the ‘Shulchan’ and
our approach to attaining the ‘Menorah’ in life.
What do we mean? Chazal (Pesachim
50B) teach that Torah can first be studied She’lo Lishmah--not for its own
sake, and that will eventually lead to Lishmah.
As Chazal especially express it:
“Mitoch She’lo Lishmah Bah Lishmah.”
With this, we can understand why we first begin teaching young
children with candies and treats, prizes and more prizes.
As a person grows, however, he realizes that it is the Torah itself
which is the eternal treat and the everlasting prize.
When it comes to the Shulchan, however, there is no room for She’lo
Lishmah. We cannot focus upon
earthly passions, desires, goals, and attainments as an end in itself--even
with the intent of eventually making one’s life more noble and elevated.
One should not ever place the emphasis on satisfaction of Olam Hazeh
needs as an end in and of itself. It
is for this reason that the Shulchan must be on the right--for it must
always be in the ‘Lishmah mode.’ What
a great lesson! Many times
throughout the day when one finds the challenge arise as to a particular
indulgence, gratification or desire, he should remember that the Menorah is
to the left… but that the Shulchan always remains to the right!
Special Note
Four: This time of year
represents and reminds us of the special level of Hashgacha that Hashem
graces us with. Sometimes it is
clear to see, and sometimes we may not even realize how we were lead in a
particular direction or on a specific path.
Indeed, some commentaries to Tehillim 117 explain that the reason we
exclaim: “Halelu
Es Hashem Kol Goyim, Shabechuhu Kol HaUmim--praise Hashem all nations,
praise Him all nationalities” is because we do not even know the nature or
extent of the designs and schemes against us from which we were saved--and
only they do. On the other hand,
with the Nes of Purim, it was clear for all to see Hashem’s tremendous
‘behind-the-scenes’ actions for many years--and that but for the great
Hashgacha Pratis we would have been annihilated--as had actually happened to
scores of nations previously in existence.
Indeed, the term “Megillas Esther” expressly affirms the dual
nature of our Hashgacha--sometimes it is ‘Megillah,’ meaning thoroughly
revealed--and sometimes it is ‘Esther,’ meaning wholly hidden.
It would certainly be an appropriate Avodah at this time of year to
work on experiencing and appreciating the Hashgacha Pratis in each one of
our personal lives. “Why did I
feel that I was coming down with a cold and then not get it?”
“Why did my cell phone break today?”
“How did I get involved in redding this Shidduch?”
“Why did I learn this today--is there some way in which I should be
applying it?”... Although one
cannot go through an entire day noting this and noting that, it most
certainly behooves us during the month of Adar to write down at
least one Hashgacha Pratis incident of the day which you recognized as a
clear indication of Hashem’s hand in your life.
It is no secret, and we have noted here before, that once a person
recognizes the tremendous Hashgacha to which he is subject, the more Simcha
he will feel in his closeness to Hashem.
Your own personal Adar 5774 Hashgacha Pratis Calendar--a marvelous
goal and special achievement for what we hope will be a Simcha-filled month!
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2 Adar II
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MANY PEOPLES’ LIVES HAVE BEEN DAMAGED BY THE INFORMATION GIVEN
ABOUT THEM OR TO THEM REGARDING SHIDDUCHIM.
A Guide to Getting and Giving Information
The Chofetz Chaim said that, regarding a shidduch, people speak
when they should be quiet, and hold back when they ought to speak up. The
Soton, he explains, works both sides of the fence. In those who have
important information that should be conveyed, the Soton stirs such a dread
of speaking loshon hora that they hold their tongues. In those who are eager
to pass on their fleeting negative impressions, he provides ample
encouragement, warning them not to violate the Torah’s prohibition against
“standing by as a fellow man’s blood is shed.”
Since each and every one of us may be called upon at any time to
divulge information about an individual or a family in regard to a shidduch,
it is obligatory for us to become acquainted with the halachos of what is
permissible for us to say and what is not. Furthermore, it is essential to
know how to properly transmit those details deemed Halachically appropriate
and how to obtain critical information ourselves when the need arises.
Finally, it is imperative to know when to convey information. What is
permissible to relay in the early stages of the shidduch process may
actually be prohibited further along in the procedure without permission
from a Rav.
Since each and every one of us may be called upon to divulge
information about someone for the purpose of a shidduch, it is crucial for
us all to become familiar with the relevant halachos.
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STARTING TO THINK ABOUT MISHLOACH
MANOS: Now would also be a good time to begin
thinking about not only who you have
to send Mishloach Manos to, but also who would be truly
moved and appreciative for
being remembered, thought about, or reconciled with through the Mishloach
Manos. Rabbi Yechiel Spero,
Shlita, in A Touch of Purity
writes that in the phrase “Mishloach Manos Ish
LeRei’eihu” both the word Ish
and LeRei’eihu have the same Gematria to indicate the level of
identification, affection, and oneness that one should have with another!
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Special
Note One: We now intensify our feelings in the words:
“Mishenichnas Adar
Marbin B’Simcha”. In fact, HaRav Dessler, Z’tl, (Michtav
M’Eliyahu, Volume 2, p. 125) writes that the Simcha we experience
should be built upon day after day, so that it continuously grows through
the month. For true Simcha to be built upon, the joy must be more than
a superficial experience. As Rabbi Mordechai Becher, Shlita, pointed
out at a Hakhel Shiur, depressed people can be tickled and will laugh, but
will quickly return to their depression after the tickling has ceased. The
Simcha we look to build upon over the course of this special month relate
more to our Ruchniyus--specifically, to the Mitzvos we perform. As we have
noted in the past, the Chayei Adam (68:13) writes that “HaSimcha
HaGedolah B’Mitzvah--joy is the greatest [or at least one of the
greatest] elements in performing a Mitzvah.” He continues, based
upon the Arizal, that the happiness one experiences when fulfilling a
Mitzvah should really be more blissful than that experience when one finds a
host of pleasures and precious jewels. In fact, the Mishna Berurah (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chaim 669:1, seif katan 11) writes in the name of the Arizal
that the highest levels he reached came about through his great joy in
performing Mitzvos. It behooves us to take a Mitzvah that we perform
daily, and put a little thought into it prior to its performance so that we
can be truly joyful when performing the Mitzvah. Most certainly, the
privilege and the ability to study Torah--Hashem’s direct words and
instructions--should bring us to bliss. Every time we sit down to
learn we must appreciate the joy we bring to our inner selves--and the
eternity that will result from it. Additionally, the opportunity to stand
before Hashem in prayer, with the knowledge that the King of kings, the
Creator and Provider is listening, should likewise provide nothing less than
unbridled ecstasy. Of course, the opportunity to perform each and
every Mitzvah, large or small, easy or difficult is an opportunity of
infinite Olam Haba right here in this temporal Olam Hazeh. We should
certainly not rob ourselves of an opportunity for true spiritual joy--at
least once a day during this special month! One should make sure to
put forethought into at least one Mitzvah he is about to perform daily,
sincerely appreciate and delight at the opportunity, and simply delight in
its performance.
Special Note Two:
To help continue to arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas Adar Marbin
B’Simcha, we provide the following questions (this time--and answers!)
relating to the events of Megillas Esther, which have been culled from the
Sefer Sifsei Chachomim,
introduction to Mesechta Megillah:
1. QUESTION: How
many Pesukim are there in the Megillah?
ANSWER: 166--corresponding to the number of words in
Hallel HaGadol (Tehillim 136). (Sefer
Rokeach)
2. QUESTION: On what
day and in what year did Haman intend to annihilate the Jews?
ANSWER: 13 Adar 3405.
Note: Achashveirosh only ruled for 14 years--from 3392 to 3406.
Hakhel Note: Coincidence?
3. QUESTION: What
Pasuk in the Megillah teaches us that we will celebrate Purim even in the
days of Moshiach?
ANSWER: “Vimei
HaPurim Ha’eileh Lo Ya’avru Mitoch HaYehudim Vezichram Lo Yasuf Mizaram--and
these days of Purim will never cease among the Jews…” (Megillas Esther
9:28).
4. QUESTION: If when
blowing the Shofar, we recite the bracha of Lishmo’ah
Kol Shofar, then why when reciting the Megillah do we not recite the
Pasuk Lishmo’ah Kriyas HaMegillah?
ANSWER: The reading of the Megillah involves
havanas
halev--an understanding beyond just hearing, like Kriyas
Shema (Sefer Avudraham).
4. QUESTION: Why is
Hashem’s name not written in the Megillah?
ANSWER: There are several answers to this question:
A. Since the Persians
recorded the story as well, they would have replaced any Sheim with the name
of their own false deity. Accordingly, it is an honor to Hashem for His name
not to be mentioned (Maharil).
B. So that the unlearned
people at the time would not mistakenly rationalize that they could
intermarry, for after all, had not Esther done so?
C. Chazal (Chulin 139B)
teach that the allusion to Esther in the Torah is from the Pasuk Ve’anochi Hastir Astir--and I will hide myself [at that time].
Accordingly, we learn that Hashem wanted His name to be hidden relating the
events of Esther.
Special Note Three: As
we pointed out last week, the Ba’al HaTurim teaches that the 18 brachos of
Shemone Esrei correspond to the 18 times in last week’s Parasha that the
Pasuk records: “Ka’asher Tziva
Hashem Es Moshe”. The
Ba’al HaTurim then continues with a second insight:
The word Lev appears 113 times in the Torah, which corresponds to the 113
words which end each bracha of Shemone Esrei--Baruch Atta Hashem Magein Avraham… Baruch Atta Hashem Mechayei HaMeisim….Baruch Atta Hashem HaKel HaKadosh….
The corresponding number of
113 teaches us that we are to especially have Kavannah as we recite the
conclusion of each bracha of Shemone Esrei. In the now short period that
we are in before Purim--this may be the ideal time to focus on having
Kavannah in the concluding words of each bracha of Shemone Esrei…Baruch Atta Hashem Go’el Yisrael…Baruch Atta Hashem Rofeih Cholei
Amo Yisrael…. Baruch Atta Hashem Sho’meiah Tefillah…. Baruch Atta
Hashem Hamevareich Es Amo Yisrael BaShalom!
Special Note Four: As we take leave of the Mishkan and move in
Sefer Vayikrah to the Karbanos that were brought there, HaRav Ezriel
Erlanger, Shlita, brings an amazing teaching from the Ramban. The Ramban
notes that when enough materials had been donated for the building of the
Mishkan, those in charge of building the Mishkan reported this to Moshe and the people were told that there was enough and that they need not
bring anymore. This demonstrates the greatness of K’lal Yisrael. If it
was any other government or any other important person that was collecting
funds, it would certainly have not stopped people from adding on to the
treasury or to the coffers of what was certainly an important cause. By
saying “we have enough” the
leaders of K’lal Yisrael demonstrated that the emphasis on life is not
hording or aggregating money without a distinct purpose and cause in mind.
This lesson--so clearly recorded in the Torah-- was not only for the Dor
HaMidbar--but for all future generations as well. Our passion and drive is
not for money and more of it--but for Mitzvos and more of them!
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1 Adar II
CHODESH ADAR II
HAS
ARRIVED!
A. Today, being the first
day of the month of Adar II, we begin the seventh month of the year(!) Yes,
we still have the majority of the year in front of us to grow and
accomplish. Shushan Purim is the midpoint of the year--what
a wonderful midpoint! Let us each give ourselves a gentle wake-up tap on
our forehead, and remind ourselves of our goals and hopes—and how we can
practically accomplish them.
B.
If you start learning Mishnayos Megillah today and learn just
three Mishnayos a day (after Maariv, with your son, etc.), you will complete
the entire Mesechta on Purim, and if you then continue to learn Mishnayos
Pesachim starting on Purim (it is a mitzvah to begin learning Hilchos Pesach
on Purim (as brought in the Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 429; Mishna Berurah
seif katan 2), you will complete
Mishnayos Pesachim before Pesach!
C. If you start today, and
learn one perek of Megillas Esther a day, you will have reviewed the
Megillah in time for its laining on Leil Purim.
Remember--the Torah Jew places special emphasis not only on the
Mitzvah--but on the Hachana --the
preparation for the Mitzvah!
D.
The following contemporary Sefarim (Hebrew) are recommended by the Sefer
Luach Davar B’Ito in preparation
for Purim: Purim V’Chodesh Adar
(HaRav Cohen); Yemei HaPurim (HaRav
Schwartz); Nitei Gavriel--Purim
(HaRav Tziner); and Yismach Yisrael
(HaRav Dardik).
E. MAKE SURE THAT YOUR SHUL JOINS
YESHIVAS MORDECHAI HATZADDIK THIS PURIM!
Yeshivas
Mordechai Hatzadik,
Torah study in Shul on Purim day, has hundreds of branches worldwide,
with tens of thousands participating. If your Shul does not yet
participate in this noble project (Torah study on such a busy day--what a
Zechus!), please contact Avos U’Banim (contact information below) to
learn how you can join. Most certainly, it is a special merit to
contribute towards the prizes given to the children for learning on this
day! Avos U’Banim even supplies Shuls with a prize for every young
man that attends at a significantly reduced cost. For more information
please contact Avos U’Banim’s
US
director, Rabbi Yosef Tenenbaum at 1-845-798-6637, or contact Avos U’Banim
by e-mail at avotusa@kewnet.com
F.
The mass Tefillah demonstration yesterday will B’EH show us how sincere,
heartfelt Tefillos at this time of year open up the great gates of Heavenly
Mercy for us! Each and every one of
us should get involved in improving his Tefillos in at least one meaningful
way over the next two weeks to Purim!
Hakhel
Note: We are advised that the
Tehillim Chapters recited yesterday were 79, 80, 137, 55, 51, 90, 89, 95,
107, 96 and 86. If anyone would like to join in and recite these Kepitelech--showing
his achdus with the Acheinu Bais Yisrael in Eretz Yisrael!
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DOUBLE
THE ZECHUS--
AND
BE A MACHAZIK HATORAH ON PURIM! From Yad Eliezer: “The backwaters of Eretz
Yisrael are often some of the strongest places for Torah and Yiras Shamayim.
It is worthwhile going to visit some of these places and seeing what
learning totally Lishma is all about. Elad gets almost no help at all.
It is a city filled with Avreichim of high caliber who learn and live in
B’Tzimtzum Gadol. Yad Eliezer has an offer of a $40,000 match for Elad for
Purim. This will go to Avreichim who are extremely needy and it will
be given out on Purim as Matanos L’Evyonim. Every dollar you give
will turn into a $2 gift to an avreich who needs your help desperately.
Please donate at the Yad Eliezer website--yadeliezer.org--and
note ‘Elad Match’ in comment section, or call 718-258-1580. May we all
be zoche to Biyas Goel Tzedek!
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Special Note
One: When is ga’avah
good? One answer is that its letters--gimel, aleph, vav and heih, represent
the days upon which Purim can fall--Tuesday, Sunday, Friday and Thursday! To
help arouse the spirit of Mishenichnas
Adar Marbim BeSimcha, we provide the following questions (this time--and
answers!) relating to the events of Megillas Esther:
1. QUESTION: How long was Haman a barber for before he became
Achashveirosh’s right-hand [or, perhaps, second-hand] man?
ANSWER: He was a barber in K’far Kartzum for
22 years (Megillah 16A).
2.
QUESTION:
When Haman heard that Achashveirosh ordered him to take Mordechai around on
the king’s horse--what did Haman suggest to Achashveirosh to do for
Mordechai instead?
ANSWER: He said that it
would be enough to give him one village or one river (ibid.).
3. QUESTION: Name at least two acts that are attributed to the Malach
Gavriel in the Purim story.
ANSWER: He placed a
tail on Vashti so that she would be too ashamed to appear at
Achashveirosh’s feast (Megillah ibid. 12B). Also, when Achashveirosh could
not sleep and he ordered that his Divrei HaYamim be read before him, Shimshi
the king’s scribe and a Jew-hater kept on trying to erase the recording of
how Mordechai had saved Achashveirosh’s life from Bigsan and Seresh--and
Gavriel kept on re-writing it (ibid. 16A).
4. QUESTION: Can you identify a Pasuk in Tanach that Haman knew?
ANSWER: Chazal teach
that when Haman told Mordechai to get up onto the king’s horse, Mordechai
advised him that he was too weak from fasting to do so. Haman
then had to bow down so that Mordechai could step on him to ascend onto the
horse. When Mordechai did so, he
kicked Haman. Haman responded:
“Does it not state ‘Binfol Oyivcho
Ahl Tismach’?” (Mishlei 24:17)? Mordechai
responded that the Pasuk does not refer to the enemies of K’lal Yisrael
(ibid.)!
5. QUESTION: What gezeiros
did Haman make against K’lal Yisrael, besides for his intent to ultimately
r’l annihilate them?
ANSWER: (i) He decreed that no one could
purchase a Jew as a slave--so that no Jew would be protected at the time of
the intended annihilation (ibid. 11A); (ii) From the Pasuk of “Laihudim Haysah Orah”--which teaches how the Jews celebrated after
Haman’s plan was foiled, we learn what he decreed against: Orah--the study of Torah, Simcha--the
observance of Yom Tov, Sason--Bris
Milah, and Yikar--Tefillin.
Hakhel Note:
Once again, the Pasuk reads: “Laihudim
Haysah Orah V’Simcha”--we may learn from this that the prerequisite
to Simcha is-- Orah--Torah! Certainly, one thing we should be doing now in
preparation for Purim is learning more Torah--especially relating to Purim
and the Megillah!
Special Note Two: We continue an exciting Monday/Thursday
series on the practical aspects of Sta”m, written by Rabbi Reuvain
Mendlowitz, Shlita, author of Inside Sta”m--An Insider Reveals
The Answers To All The Questions You Should Ask When Purchasing Or
Maintaining Tefillin, Mezuzos, Megillos, Sifrei Torah And Nevi’im.
For a fuller
treatment of all topics to be discussed, we urge you to purchase the Sefer,
which provides practical and meaningful information and ideas.
PART XXV
Question
As Purim approaches (usually from
Chanukah time!), every socher of St”am begins to receive phone
calls inquiring about Megillos Esther. Often the potential consumer wants
one for himself, while equally common is one who wishes to purchase the
Megillah as a present for a son-in-law, husband etc.
It is therefore worthwhile to take some
time out and explore some of what one should be aware of when entering the
Megillah market.
1.
1.
Price. Many who are
interested in purchasing Megillos are expecting to pay in the $700-800
range. It is important to understand that in the current economic climate it
is difficult to find mehudar Megillos for under $1,200. The equation is
simple. Most good sofrim charge no less than $100 per 42-line column. (Based
on the current 3.5 shekel to dollar rate). Klaf for a Megillas Esther is no
less than $150. Since a Megillas Esther is the length equivalent of ten
42-line columns, we have come to an $1,150 minimum – before checking and
computer checking--and of course before the socher has added his fee.
I
would like to be perfectly clear – I am not saying that a mehudar Megillah
cannot be obtained for under $1,200. I am saying that
the majority of Megillos sold for under $1200 are not mehudar.
2.
Kashrus. I have heard
the following words many times from potential clients; “Oh that’s okay,
I don’t need such a good Megillah, as long as it is kosher l’kriah
that’s fine too.” What they are referring to is the famous halachah that
only requires a Megillah to be 51% kosher. As long as this is the case one
may lein from the Megillah. This however, is an error. Halachah
clearly dictates that a Megillah be kosher. Only b’dieved, when no
kosher Megillah is available may a Megillah with even a single
pesul be used. The fact is that the majority of inexpensive Megillos (below
$1,000) are written by below-average sofrim and rarely undergo a quality
hagahah. Hence, such a Megillah should not be used to lein from
unless it has been meticulously examined by a quality magiah.
H 3. Melech. One of the
most common phrases a socher hears this time of year is, “Do you have a
nice HaMelech Megillah available?” This
is referring to the purported “hiddur” of HaMelech being the first word
on each column.
The
fact is that no such hiddur exists. How this “got in” as a
“recognized” enhancement of Hilchos Megillah to the extent that it is
often the first question asked by the potential consumer, remains an
unsolved mystery!
One final point that is perhaps worth
pondering: Every year we see
many people willingly and gladly parting with $1,000-2,000 for the privilege
of owning their very own Megillas Esther. Yet these very same people are
often not prepared to pay that price for their son’s Bar Mitzvah Tefillin.
Let us bear in mind that
Tefillin is a mitzvas asei d’oraissa 300 days a year, while Krias
HaMegillah is not a mitzvah d’oraissa and is only one day a
year....
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