In one of his shiurim, HaGaon HaRav
Yitzchak Zilberstein, Shlita, explained that his father-in-law, Maran HaGaon
Rav Yosef Sholom Elyashiv, Shlita, on Erev Shavuot would visit the sick,
remembering that we learn that prior to giving Bnei Yisrael the Torah on
Shavuos, Hashem healed all the sick, including the blind, deaf and mute -
all were healed.
Rav Elyashiv explained to a sick man that every year, on Shavuos, this power
is renewed. This is a time when one may call upon Hashem and asked to
be healed; even for such illnesses that we generally feel there is no cure.
It was asked at what time on Yom Tov may one ask for a refuah. Rav
Elyashiv pondered for a moment and stated the time is when we read the
Aseret HaDibros in the torah reading.
We provide the following important Yom Tov
Halachos, as excerpted from the essential Sefer-“Guidelines-Yom Tov”
(part of the Guidelines Series) by Rabbi Elozor Barclay, Shlita and Rabbi
Yitzchok Jaeger, Shlita. We
highly recommend the study of practical Hilchos Yom Tov, and this Sefer is
an excellent resource. Of
course, every person should consult with his own Rav if he/she has a
particular shaila, and most certainly where one realizes that his practice/minhag
does not comport with the Halacha, as set forth below.
Should one open food packages and bottles
before Yom Tov?
Yes, since the rules of opening these
items are the same as on Shabbos. Similarly,
since tearing is forbidden, it is advisable to prepare pieces of aluminum
foil, paper towel, etc., which may be required when cooking on Yom Tov.
Should any other precautions be taken
before Yom Tov?
One should check one’s pockets, a baby
stroller etc., before Yom Tov to ensure that one will not carry any
unnecessary items, and to remove any Muktzeh items in one’s pockets.If the municipal garbage collection will take place on Yom Tov, the
garbage cans should be moved to the sidewalk on Erev Yom Tov.Many people prepare a 24-hour Yahrzeit-type candle to light, so that
a flame is available on Yom Tov.
Is it permitted to measure the ingredients
One may not measure precisely, but rather
estimate the amount required. If
a person wishes to use the same measuring utensils that he uses during the
week, he should take more or less than usual. Similarly,
one may not weigh meat to know how much to cook.
Are there any exceptions?
The addition of too much spice to a food
may ruin its taste. Therefore,
if a person usually measures the spice exactly on a weekday, he may also do
so on Yom Tov. However, if he
usually estimates the quantity, he must do the same on Yom Tov.
Are there any foods that should not be
cooked on Yom Tov?
Foods that are equally tasty if cooked
before Yom Tov, e.g., gefilte fish, compote, instant pudding, jello, ice
cream, etc. If one left these
foods to cook on Yom Tov, one should use a shinuy.
What is regarded as a shinuy?
The empty pot should be placed on the
fire, and then the ingredients should be poured in.
May one light a Yartzheit candle?
A person who has Yartzheit, or wishes to
light a Yartzheit candle on the days when Yizkor is recited, should do so
before Yom Tov begins. If he
forgot, he may do the following: light the candle in Shul or light it in a
dark room in the home where it will provide illumination. (Another
alternative for those who live in Chutz La’Aretz where Yizkor is recited
on the second day of Yom Tov is to light a 48-hour candle before Yom Tov.)
May one lower a gas flame?
The gas may not be turned down in order to
save money or to reduce the heat in the kitchen. However,
one a may lower the gas in certain situations connected to cooking (see
In which situation may a flame be lowered?
the recipe calls for a low flame to be used for cooking a particular food.
prevent a cooked food from burning considerably, but enable it to keep hot.
If the pot can be partially removed from
the fire or placed on a Blech, this should be done rather than lower the
May one carry a key chain if not all of
the keys are needed?
It is preferable to remove the unwanted
keys. According to some
opinions, one may carry a key chain, even if it contains keys that have no
use on Yom Tov. Keys that are
Muktzeh, e.g. car, safe, must be removed before Yom Tov.
May one carry a house key if someone is
keys to a hotel room must be left at the reception desk.
May one do Borer on items other than food?
According to most opinions, this is
forbidden. Therefore, when
sorting clothes, silverware, dishes, etc., one must use the rules of Borer
that apply on Shabbos.
How should a fly or dirt be removed from a
It must be removed with some of the
surrounding liquid, as on Shabbos.
Is the Melacha of Dash permitted?
No, the restrictions of Shabbos apply also
on Yom Tov. Common examples
It is forbidden to squeeze juice from
fruit, even if one wishes to drink it immediately and it could not have been
done before Yom Tov. The
remaining tea may not be squeezed from a teabag into a cup. Dishes
may not be washed with a sponge. Baby-wipes
may not be used.[Hakhel Note:Similarly, when eating a grapefruit, one should one not deliberately
squeeze the juice out of the grapefruit with a spoon or any other eating
May one mash or grate foods that are not
products of the earth?
if the food was cooked before Yom Tov, a shinuy is required when using a
grater or mincer. A fork, knife,
or potato masher may be used without a shinuy. If
the food was cooked on Yom Tov, one may even use a grater or mincer without
a shinuy. Examples include eggs,
fish, cheese, meat, chicken, liver. A
shinuy would be grating the food directly onto a table or cloth, or holding
the grater upside down.
May one grind or mash foods that are
products of the earth?
Food that would spoil if it was ground or
mashed before Yom Tov, may be prepared on Yom Tov in the usual manner e.g.
banana , potatoes, apples.
Food that would be partially reduced in
quality if ground before Yom Tov, may be ground on Yom Tov with a shinuy,
Food that could be ground before Yom Tov
with no reduction in quality should be ground before Yom Tov. If
left until Yom Tov, it should be ground with a shinuy, e.g., nuts or rock
Which dishes may one wash?
Any that may be needed again that day. It
is forbidden to wash dishes for the following day.
May one heat water to wash dishes?
Yes, but only for the dishes that became
dirty on Yom Tov. One may use
hot water from the boiler if the system is not controlled by an
electronically operated thermostat. Dishes
that were dirty before Yom Tov may be washed only with water that was heated
before Yom Tov.
In which cases are the laws of Muktzeh
more lenient on Yom Tov?
Raw food is not Muktzeh.
Candles are not Muktzeh, even when lit.
It is permitted to move Muktzeh to be able
to access food items. For
example one may:
Move an electric mixer that is blocking
access to food;
Move Muktzeh items that are lying on the
table and preventing one from eating;
Remove Muktzeh items from a mixture.
Items used in food preparation are not
Muktzeh, e.g. matches, a strainer, a grinder.
May one melt liquids?
Yes. Although on Shabbos one may not
create a new entity, this restriction does not apply to food preparation on
Yom Tov. Therefore, one may
defrost frozen liquids by placing them on a fire, and one may use butter or
margarine when frying, although this causes them to melt. Similarly,
one may pour hot water over greasy plates when washing them.
Is it permitted to make ice cubes?
Shlomo Hamelech, the wisest of all men, teaches
us in Mishlei , “Eitz Chaim Hi Lmachazikim Bah--it is a tree of
life for those who grasp it.”Many
raise the question-shouldn’t the phrase be Lmachazikim Osah--it is a tree
of life to those who support it?One
beautiful P’shat related is that we do not support the Torah--it is the
Torah that supports us--if we grasp on to it.Just as the Aron is “Nosei Es Nosav”--the Kohanim were even
carried over the Yarden river by the Aron(!), so, too, does the Torah carry
us through our Olam Hazeh, if we are "Machazikim Bah."Based upon this thought, it is very well understood why we recite
this Posuk as we put the Torah away into the Aron HaKodesh--for we indicate
that although we may be putting the Torah back in the Aron, we continue to
cling to it as we face our daily needs and challenges--until the next time
that we read from it again.
Special Note One: Many
recited yesterday and/or will recite today what is commonly known as the
“Tefillah of the Shelah Hakadosh” for Erev Rosh Chodesh Sivan.
The Luach Davar B’Ito, however, writes
that in fact, the Tefillah was composed by HaRav Shabsai Sofer, Z’tl, from
Premishla. The Shelah Hakadosh
then gave this Tefillah his endorsement by placing it into his Sefer. One
can most certainly recite this beautiful Tefillah again today! This
is the link, once again provided by Artscroll:http://www.artscroll.com/parentprayer.html
Special Note Two:One of our important readers wrote to us that he was puzzled by going
to the store and finding that Listerine PocketPaks Breath Strips no longer
bore a Kof-K on its packaging. We
made inquiry of the Kof-K and received the following response:
“Johnson & Johnson, the manufacturer
of LISTERINE® POCKETPAKS® has informed KOF-K Kosher Supervision that they
will be discontinuing kosher certification of LISTERINE® POCKETPAKS® as of
July 1, 2009.In anticipation of
this change, Johnson & Johnson has revised packaging to no longer bear
the KOF-K Kosher symbol.
Due to potential consumer confusion, KOF-K
Kosher Supervision recommends LISTERINE® POCKETPAKS® only when bearing the
Some reasons for LISTERINE
needing a Hechsher arethe following:
product is viewed as a food item falling under the purview of Hilchos
product contains kosher
sensitive ingredients (i.e. can be animal derived) such as Polysorbate 80
and Glyceryl Oleate.
a kosher product is no
longer certified, the company is allowed to obtain ingredients from non-kosher
For further information, one may contact
Rabbi M. Lebovitz, Rabbinical Administrator at the KOF-K at email@example.com
Additional Note: We
remind our readers that Listerine SprayMist does not have any supervision,
and that Listerine Consumer Affairs has advised consumers that it is not
Special Note Three: A
concluding note on the “Corn Flakes-Cheesecake”: One
reader wrote that even if the Corn Flakes was there for flavor or taste, the
bracha would still be Shehakol, as the Corn Flakes would be considered Tofel
to the Ikar, which is the cheese cake. This
appears correct, but if one has this issue, he should consult with his Rav
to confirm--especially if he loves Corn Flakes!
Special Note Four: Today
is the Yartzheit of Shmuel Hanavi. Dovid
Hamelech wrote about Shmuel Hanavi as follows (we will recite this in
Kabolas Shabbos tonight):“Moshe
V’Aaron BeChohanav U’Shmuel B’Korei Shmo (Tehillim 99:6)… Moshe and
Aaron are among His leaders, and Shmuel is among those who call out His
name--they called out to Hashem and He answered them.” We
see from here that Shmuel was contrasted to Moshe and Aaron together--with
Shmuel being answered by Hashem in the same manner as Moshe and Aharon! There
is a great lesson here. Shmuel
Hanavi teaches us how a person can raise himself up to new heights--and be
literally included together with others of great stature in the service of
Hashem. What an inspiration this
should serve for us all. Think
of your Rav, Posek, or Rosh Yeshiva, and truly endeavor to reach his Middah
or Madreiga--at least in some way!
Special Note Five: Project
Inspire’s newest, wonderful campaign is to share the excitement and
enthusiasm of Shavuous with someone who has never experienced the joy of
learning Torah. They urge you to
send an uneducated Jew a seven minute eye-opening video about the relevance
of Torah, and the successful people of all backgrounds who learn it. Then,
offer to learn with him/her before, after, or during this Shavuous. Three
thousand, three hundred years ago, you stood by Har Sinai together.This Shavuos, remind them about what they have received. Here
is how to view—and then distribute—this seven minute video: Click
here for the Blueprint videoFor
a form to use to share this video, please click here.
Special Note Six: In
Chutz La’Aretz, the second day of Shavuos this year is imbued with the
extra-special Kedusha of being Shabbos Kodesh, as well. This
gives each and every one of us a special opportunity to help those who are
less fortunate celebrate not only Yom Tov, but Shabbos, as well, by
assisting them with their Shabbos and Yom Tov needs. Please
be a proactive “Rodef Chesed” by identifying the proper person or cause
in your community and giving with an open hand. Your
own Simchas Yom Tov will then be infinitely--and eternally--extended!
Special Note Seven:As we all know, we are required to have Kavannah for the meaning of
the word in Shemone Esrei--especially so in the first Brocha. In
a note before Purim, we explained the difference between the three terms
“Ozer, Moshia, U’Mogen” in that first Brocha. Yesterday’s
remarkable salvation of life, limb, tashmishei kedusha, and property in
Riverdale, New York from the hands of crazed terrorists can easily be
explained as it is in the news--or it can be explained with the knowledge
that Hashem is“Ozer, Moishia,
U’Mogen.” Now, here is the
quiz:Which Middah of Hashem is
demonstrated through this Yeshua-- Ozer, Moshia, or U’Mogen? This
great event should most certainly propel us into the proper Kavannos when
reciting each of these three words!
Special Note Eight:We continue with our Erev Shabbos Halachos of Shabbos Series:
Sefer Shalmei Yehudah (10:15) on Hilchos Muktzah writes, in the name
of HaRav Elyashiv, Shlita, that, although generally medicines that you were
not taking before Shabbos are Muktzah to move or handle, certain
“over-the-counter” medications such asTylenol, Aspirin, Acomil (in Israel) may not be Muktzah, because they
are so widely used by the multitude, and accordingly can be handled in a
regular manner on Shabbos.
Sefer Shabbos B’Sifarta writes that L’Chatchila one should not
use tissues or cut toilet paper which has specific designs, as this
constitutes Mochek D’Rabanan (see Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 336; Mishne
Berurah Seif Katan 27). The
author of the Sefer, HaRav Avrohom Adas, Shlita, of Yerushalayim writes that
HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, told him that Bi’shas Hadechak (in case of
extreme necessity), one can be lenient.
the same Sefer, HaRav Adas writes that on Shabbos one may not return a
drawer that has fallen or been taken out of a large wall unit, or a shelf in
large clothing closet (Boneh). Please
consult with your Rav as to how this may affect a particular situation that
you may have in your home.
relating to Boneh, HaRav Adas writes that one should not make shapes out of
paper such as planes or ships, or shape melons into designs (such as baskets
Special Note: We
received several important communications from readers:
Kashrus Alert: A reader notified
us that she purchased Listerine PocketMist (an oral spray), and then
realized that it did not have any Hashgacha. Upon
calling Listerine, she was advised by the consumer affairs department that
the product was not under Rabbinical Supervision, and that it was not
Hakhel Note:We also have information on Listerine Pocket Paks Breath Strips,
which no longer carry a Kof-K on the packaging, which, B’EH, we will
provide to our readers tomorrow.
reader advised us that when his “wife makes cheesecake crust, she makes it
out of corn flakes.” Accordingly,
he concluded, that in his case the appropriate bracha was always a Shehakol.
We note that he may not
necessarily be correct, because the bracha rishona on some brands of corn
flakes is a Borei Pri Ha’adama! Additionally,
with the advent of modern culinary techniques, it may in some instances be
important to advise guests as to the ingredient content of certain items
they are being served (similar to reminding someone on Pesach that a cake he
is about to partake of is non-gebrokts, so that he realizes that the bracha
on it is a Shehakol).
Related Note: We
asked the OU, the Rabbinic supervision agency for Wise Dipsey Doodles, a
corn chip product, as to the appropriate bracha on this product. The
OU advised that although corn is listed in the ingredient panel as its first
ingredient, this corn is in fact crushed, and the appropriate bracha is a
Shehakol. If one is ever in
doubt, it is best to contact the Kashrus Organization which supervises the
product, as they have the greatest familiarity with the ingredients and its
respect to our note on Yehei Shemei Rabbah, a reader wrote: “As an aid to
kavannah, I point to each word of “Yehei Shemei Rabbah”…. I find that
it helps tremendously!”
respect to our note on being a Rodef Chesed, a reader commented that
bandages are something easy to carry around in a wallet or purse--and that
“hopefully, it will be a segulah that no one around you has to use
e. Finally, with respect to our note on
Hashavas Aveidah, a reader provided the following insight: Another way to do
the Mitzvah of Hashavas Aveidah without getting up from your chair is to
search for unclaimed funds for your family and friends. http://www.osc.state.ny.us/ouf/index.htm
Special Note One: Regarding
yesterday’s note on the proper brachos on cheesecake, a reader incorrectly
inferred that if he made a Shehakol on a cheesecake dessert at the end of a
meal, he would also recite a Borei Nefashos, in addition to the regular
Bentching. This is not the case. The Bentching will serve as the
Bracha Achrona on the cheesecake as well, and no Borei Nefashos would be
Special Note Two: We have
discovered, and made available on our website, what may be described as
perhaps a bit more “advanced” Kavannah Card for the daily recitation of
Yehei Shemei Rabbah. This Card contains both a focused Kavannah
Peshuta and an understandable Kavannah Pnimis--and lists the seven possible
Mitzvos that the Sefer Shomer Emunim states one can perform every time he
answers Yehei Shemei Rabbah properly. As we have previously noted,
HaRav Mattisyahu Salomon, Shlita, brings the words of the Mishne Berurah (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chayim 56:1), that a Gezar Din against a person will be ripped
up if he answers Yehei Shemei Rabbah with proper Kavannah. HaRav
Salomon adds that people are looking for Segulos of all kinds, but they have
the great Segula of Yehei Shemei Rabbah available to them for free and
without additional travel many times a day--and they should use it! Let
us strengthen ourselves and those around us in Shul, with our proper
recitation of Yehei Shemei Rabbah, which will nullify any difficult decrees
against us, and bring Shefa to the world (study the Card!). The
card is available by clicking here.
Special Note Three: A person can
perform a Mitzvah in one of two ways--either it “falls into his lap”, or
he can actively pursue it. Shlomo Hamelech, the wisest of all men,
teaches us in Mishlei that “Rodef Tzedakah VaChesed”…one who runs
after Tzedakah and Chesed will find Chayim (life itself!) in addition to
Tzedakah and Kavod (Mishlei 21:21). When it comes to Tzedakah, one can
be Rodef it--run after it by going to give before being asked, or by having
an extra check available in one’s wallet or purse to give someone in need.
Similarly, when it comes to Chesed, one may be said to be a “Rodef Chesed”
if he is actually prepared to help others--for instance by carrying with him
in his wallet or briefcase a packet of Tylenol, postage stamps, tissues,
quarters for the meter, and any other item which people can rely on you for,
or which may be a need in your particular community. In this way,
wherever you go, wherever you are--you are always on the way to doing a
Special Note Four: As the Daf Yomi
recently commenced one of the most famous Perakim in Shas, Perek Ailu
Metzios, dealing with the halachos of lost objects, we provide the following
excerpt from the wonderful and practical Sefer The Halachos of Other
People’s Money by Rabbi Yisroel Pinchos Bodner, Shlita (Feldheim):
a. The moment a person encounters a
lost item, two Torah commandments come into effect, the commandment not to
look away from it (“Lo Suchal L’Hislaleim”), and the commandment to
pick up and return it (“Hoshaiv T’shiveim”).
b. If one picks up the item with the
intention to keep it for himself, he transgresses a third commandment, not
to steal (“Lo Sigzol”).
c. Included in the Mitzvah of
returning lost items is the obligation to prevent or minimize damage to
someone else’s property. Some Poskim write that the Mitzvah of
returning lost items also includes giving someone advice which will help
save him from incurring business losses. Most certainly, if one
notices a water leak causing damage to someone else’s building, he is
obligated to try and prevent future loss (e.g. by turning off the water
valve and/or calling the building manager). If he chooses to ignore
the leak, he will be guilty of transgressing the two Torah commandments
mentioned above. However, if the owner knows about the leak and “has
not gotten around to fixing it,” the finder is not obligated to take the
time and trouble to try to minimize the owner’s loss.
d. Another practical example of
preventing a loss--a person sees someone’s electricity needlessly being
wasted, and surmises that if the owner would be there he probably would turn
it off. If the money wasted will amount to more than a Perutah (a dime
or a quarter) the passerby should, if possible, turn off the electricity.
By doing so, he is not guilty of transgressing the Torah prohibition
of Lo Suchal L’hisaleim--and has beautifully earned the Mitzvah D’Oraysa
of Hoshaiv T’shiveim!
Special Note One: With Shavuos fast
approaching, we remember the words of Chazal: “HaKol Modim BeShavuos
DeBa’inan Nomi Lochem…”--everyone agrees that on Shavuos one must
partake of the physical pleasures of the Yom Tov, and cannot engage only in
48 hours of Torah study, without an appropriate accompanying Seuda. Simply
understood, the reason Shavuos especially requires this is because we must
demonstrate that the Torah guides our lives not only in matters of Ruchniyus,
but in matters of Gashmius, as well--and that one’s physical existence
can, and must, be sanctified. Accordingly, we provide the Halachos of
the Brachos--on cheesecake!
HaRav Binyomin Forst, Shlita, in The
Halachos of Brachos (Artscroll) writes that the bracha on cheesecake with a
crust added for flavor “as is generally the case” is a Borei Minei
Mezonos. However, if the crust is added solely to hold the cheese,
then the bracha on the cheesecake is Shehakol. HaRav Yisroel Pinchos
Bodner, Shlita, in The Laws of Brochos (Feldheim) writes that if the
cheesecake is made with a thin layer of dough which is being used merely to
enhance the appearance of the cake, then the bracha is Shehakol. However,
if the dough is being used for substance or flavor, the bracha is Borei
Minei Mezonos. The after bracha on cheesecake will usually be Borei
Nefashos and not Al HaMichya, as one can (and will) eat a kezayis
combination of cheese and flour within a kedai achilas peras of three
minutes, but it is unlikely that one will consume a kezayis of Mezonos
within the three minute span. As we noted yesterday regarding the
Kubakim, the peanuts in the Kubakim do not count towards the shiur of
kezayis for an Al HaMichya, and the same is true for the cheese in the
cheesecake not being added to the flour layer to allow for an Al Hamichya.
In sum, on cheesecake, one bracha rishona is recited, which may likely
be a Shehakol, but even if a Borei Minei Mezonos is recited, the bracha
achrona will in ordinary circumstances be a Borei Nefashos We note
further that the recitation of Shehakol on cheesecake will impact on it
being served as dessert at a meal, since even one who does not make a Borei
Minei Mezonos on cake at the end of a meal, will make the brocha of Shehakol
at the end of a meal.
If you are in doubt as to the appropriate
brachos on the cheesecake you will be consuming, why not bring two to your
Rav--one for the Shaila--and one to him for Shavuos?!
Special Note Two: In last week’s
Parsha, we learned of the Lo Sa’aseh of cheating another in business
matters (we have in the past noted that the word “cheat” and the word
“chait” are too closely related for comfort). In today’s
fast-paced world of easy duplication (kids now do in school what
professionals only could do only a few short years ago with special
equipment), we provide an important “step back--look ahead,” as
published in Halacha Berurah (Volume 9, Issue 4, reviewed by HaRav Yisroel
“Intention to Buy:
There are some poskim who permit copying a
tape or book if one sincerely has no interest in purchasing the item and
will not purchase it. They maintain that there is no theft on
intangible items and that the only reason to forbid it is when zeh neheneh
v'zeh choseir--the one using the item benefits from it, while the one who
produced it loses a sale. Other poskim maintain that copying a tape is
considered theft even though the intellectual property is intangible. Therefore,
whether one intends to buy the item or not, it is still forbidden. There
are, however, certain instances where a singer would not object to someone
copying his album, if the person would really not purchase it any way.
Most frum singers barely break even on the cost of producing a music
album. Their primary goal in producing an album is for advertisement.
They hope that once people enjoy their material and their style of
singing, they will be hired for weddings and other events. Thus, in
such a situation, at least their music becomes well-known and they gain
“…Often people deceive themselves into
thinking that they would not buy the tape, and that they are thus permitted
to duplicate it. The truth is that, in almost all situations, if one
does like an album, he will buy it if he cannot obtain a copy of it any
other way. Thus, one should be very diligent before he rules
leniently--for himself--in such a situation.”
In any question, where there is any doubt,
one should consult with his Rav as to what is permissible in a particular
Additional Note: It would appear
appropriate to avoid using phrases like: “I am going to cheat on my
diet” or “Can I steal a pretzel?”, because using these words of
prohibition-even in a humorous or friendly context still has a subtle,
legitimizing effect. It is well known that Rav Pam, Z’tl, would
relate that not only did he never hear his mother say a sheker--tell a lie,
he never even heard her use the word “sheker,” lest it negatively affect
her and those around her!
Special Note One:What Bracha does one make on “Kabukim”--a peanut coated with
flour and sugar?It is
interesting that in Eretz Yisroel thay are referred to as “Botnim
Amerikayim,” even though many Americans will tell you that they have only
eaten them in Eretz Yisroel.The
Sefer Vezos HaBracha writes that HaRav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, Z’tl,
ruled that the Bracha on Kabukim is Mezonos, because of the flour-based
exterior.However, HaRav Shlomo
Zalman adds that the peanut will not count towards the Shiur of a Kezayis
(which must be eaten within a Kedei Achilas Pras) for an Al Hamichya.Accordingly, because Kubakim are small and not quickly eaten, it
would appear that one would have to eat another Mezonos product within the
Achilas Pras time span (we noted last week that this is three minutes
according to HaRav Moshe Feinstein, Z’tl), in order to be entitled to
recite an Al Hamichya.
Special Note Two:We all know that there are two different names of Hashem that we
commonly pronounce in the same way:The
name of Aleph Daled Nun and Yud which means Master of All, and the name of
Yud Kay Vuv Kay which (according to Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 5:1) means
both that Hashem is Master of All **and** that He Was, Is, and Will
Even if it may not be well understood by
us, there is obviously great importance in the distinction between these two
Shaimos of Hashem. See, for instance, Tehillim Kepitel 130 (Shiur HaMaalos
MiMa’amakinm) which many of us recite one or more times a day.In this Kepitel, the name of Aleph Daled Nun and Yud is mentioned
three times, and the name of Yud Kay Vuv Kay is mentioned four other times.In order for us to have greater Kavana in this special Kepitel, it
would certainly be a great idea for us to be careful to have particular
Kavanna in the Name of Hashem that we are reciting.
Additional Note:One can also identify while davening tomorrow where the name of Aleph
Daled (and not Yud Key Vuv Key) is used in order to better concentrate in
his recitation of the names of Hashem during davening.
Special Note Three: Chazal (Shir
Hashirim Rabbah 8:12) teach us, based on the Posuk of “Haelef Lecha Shlomo
U’mosayim L’notrim Es Piryo--One thousand for Shlomo and two hundred to
those who watch his fruit”--that the reward for one who learns while
traveling (“Lecha“) is five times (1000 vs. 200) greater than for one
who simply learns in the Beis Medrash (“Notrim Es Piryo”).It is interesting that the numbers the Posuk uses for a ratio of 5:1
is 1000:200.A possible
explanation may be based upon the Chofetz Chayim (quoted in Item 30, Volume
II, Number 2 (Teves/Shevat 5762) of the Bulletin) who states that
one can learn 200 words of Torah, which is equivalent to 200 separate
Mitzvos, in one minute.If one
learns while traveling, Hashem considers it as if he is learning five times
as much, or 1,000 words per minute.While
traveling, one should await and treasure the incredible opportunity to
perform the equivalent of 1,000 Mitzvos per minute.
Special Note One: You
still have a chance! Last Erev
Shabbos, we noted that if you started then and studied just 2 Mishnayos of
Mesechta Beizah a day for three weeks, you would complete in time for--and
in honor of-- havuos the entire Mishnayos Mesechta Beizah (also known as
Mesectha Yom Tov--which is especially appropriate for Shavuos, since it does
not have its own designated Mesechta, as Sukkah and Pesachim). If
you did not yet start--then if you learn only **3 ** Mishnayos a day--for
the next two weeks until Shavuos, you will be doing the same honor to
yourself--and for Shavuos--with a timely Siyum Mesechta!
Additional Note: Shlomo
Hamelech, the wisest of all men, teaches in Mishlei (24:7) ”Ramos
Le’Ehvil Chochmos”--wisdom is as pearls to the fool [all wisdom appears
to the fool as unattainable--as difficult to purchase as precious stones and
pearls]. Rashi there explains
that a wise person is “shoneh hayom me’at u’lemachar me’at--studies
a little today and a little tomorrow.”If you would like to follow the wisest of all men’s advice--start
Of course, by no means do we intend to
exclude our female readers, and our readers who cannot otherwise learn
Mishnayos, from the trek to wisdom. The
Nach Yomi--which learns just one Perek of Nach a day, begins Sefer Iyov
today. To many, this is a sefer
that has been closed. There are
now resources to help in its study, including the Artscroll Tanach Series
Sefer Iyov, Rav Schwalb on Iyov, and the English translation with an
anthology of notes by Rabbi Rosenberg, published by Judaica Press. If
you study Sefer Iyov with Nach Yomi--with the Tzibbur--your learning is even
more chashuv, and may its study be a segula for protection for all of
K’lal Yisroel! Join in!
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Special Note Four: The Sefer Derech
Sicha (Parshas Behar) relates the following fascinating event: A
Rav came to visit HaRav Chaim Oizer Grodzinsky, Z’tl, and was engaged in a
serious Torah discussion with him. The
other Rav, to “prove his point”, cited a Tosfos in a certain Mesechta
and went to the Seforim Shrank to pull out the Sefer and show Rav Chaim
Oizer the Tosfos. Rav Chaim
Oizer preceded him to the Seforim Shrank, and blocked the Mesechta the Rav
was trying to reach. The Rav
must have been a bit startled, but respected Rav Chaim Oizer’s wishes. They
ended their discussion, and the Rav left. Later
in the Bais HaMedrash, the Rav searched the Mesechta for his
“proof-in-point” Tosfos--and could not find it! Rav
Chaim Oizer had blocked the Rav from reaching the Gemara--so that he would
not be embarrassed when he would realize that the Tosfos did not exist! Our
obligation of Lo Sonu extends--not only to not hurting or embarrassing
another person with words, actions, or expressions--but also to not allowing
him to embarrass himself!
Special Note Five: We continue with our
Erev Shabbos—Halachos of Shabbos Series:
The following Halacha applies any time that we bentch,
and we bring it here because we wash and bentch three times on Shabbos: HaRav
Moshe Feinstein, Z’tl, in a Responsa (Igros Moshe, Orach Chayim IV:
41) writes that in order to bentch on bread one must eat a minimum shiur
of a kezayis within a kedei achilas pras--and that shiur is less than
three minutes. It appears
from the Responsa that, b’dieved, one has up to 4.5 minutes within
which a kezayis must be eaten, but one would clearly be better off
according to Rav Moshe within the three minute span. The
Mishne Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 167, seif katan 35) writes
that, barring other circumstances, one should eat that minimum kezayis
at the outset of the meal. We
note that the shiur of kezayis consumption within a kedei achilas pras
(so that a Bracha Achrona can be recited) actually applies to all foods
at all times--so that, for instance, one must eat a kezayis of cake
within the same three minute span in order to make an Al HaMichya. (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chayim 210, Mishne Berurah seif katan 1). The
shiur for drinks is different (ibid.).
When different types of toys are mixed together, one is
not permitted to put each toy in its proper place (due to the
prohibition of Borer).Rather,
one should put them away in a mixed manner, and after Shabbos rearrange
them in their proper order.[Children
in Halacha by Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen, Shlita, p.141].
One does not violate the prohibition of Koseiv (writing)
if he has letters or a design on the bottom of his shoe that makes an
imprint on the ground, because if it is writing at all, the imprint does
not last, it is done “kilachar yad”--in an unusual manner--and it is
not something that the person in any event wants to happen. However,
if one intentionally writes in the sand, or on a foggy window pane, or
with crumbs on the table, he violates an Issur DeRabbanan of Koseiv. One
should also not place magnetic letters next to each other to form a word
on a board or on the refrigerator which will hold them together to form
the word. [HaShabbos BeTifarta (Hebrew) by Rabbi Avrohom Adas,
Shlita, Volume 2, pp. 389-427]
In this week’s Parsha we find the great
Mitzvah of “VeLo Sonu Ish Es Amiso” (Vayikra 25:17)…each of you shall
not aggrieve his fellow. Chazal (Bava Metzia 58B) teach that this
Pasuk refers specifically to causing pain with words--Ono’as Devorim.
The Mishna and Gemara (ibid.) elaborate on the prohibition against
Ono’as Devorim and further details are brought LeHalacha in Shulchan Aruch,
Choshen Mishpat, Chapter 428, which is dedicated to this topic.
The Power of Words, a seferby Rabbi Zelig Pliskin, Shlita is dedicated to improvement--and
mastery--of this crucial Mitzvas Bain Odom LeChaveiro, which so much impacts
on our Bain Odom LeMakom, as well. Indeed,
the Pasuk cited above actually continues “VeYoraisa MaiElokecha--and you
shall fear Hashem”--for in properly fulfilling this Mitzvah, one
demonstrates that he fears Hashem Who sees, knows, and understands our
thoughts and actions. Accordingly,
we provide below many salient points gleaned from this wonderful sefer,
which are indeed “suitable for framing”--and which certainly should be
reviewed from time to time--and especially when you well know that you are
about to have a challenging encounter. We
present the points by number, for ease of reference.
1. The Chazon
Ish wrote, “Even if what you say will cause someone pain or discomfort for
only a brief moment, it is a violation of this Torah commandment.”
Be aware of what the consequences of what your words
will be. Any time your words
will cause someone pain it constitutes Ono’as Devorim.
Some people can suffer again and again for years because
of insulting remarks people have made to them.
One of the easiest ways to make enemies is to insult
Someone who studies Torah has a greater obligation than
others to avoid all forms of Ono’as Devorim. Failure
to do so will cause others to learn from his negative example, and could
even cause people to have negative feelings about Torah study in
Any statement that disparages the appearance of another
person is considered Ono’as Devorim.
It is forbidden to say or do things to scare other
The laws of Ono’as Devorim are based in the subjective
response of the person you are talking to. Even
if many other people don’t mind a certain statement, if the person you
say it to will be distressed, upset, angry or offended, it is forbidden.
Don’t disparage the Torah thoughts of others. If
you want to disagree, do so in a polite manner.
Don’t insult someone for being different from you in
personality, thought, background, habits, etc.
It is Ono’as Devorim to say things to a person which
would imply that he is not normal.
saying things to cause someone worry is Ono’as Devorim.
have conflicting interests with someone, master the art of finding
peaceful solutions. Find the
basic needs of both parties and try to find ways that the needs of both
parties can be met.
Statements made in a sarcastic tone of voice constitute
Ono’as Devorim, even though the words themselves might sound Kosher.
Asking people personal questions about matters they
would prefer not to discuss causes them discomfort and is Ono’as
It is counterproductive to say to someone, “If I told
you once, I told you a thousand times…”
Avoid saying, “You don’t understand,” when you are
discussing ideas with others.
If you see that a person is very tired or in an
especially irritable mood, be very careful with what you say to him.
People who are very perceptive and notice all kinds of
details about personality and character of others must be careful to use
this gift as a tool to help--not to hurt--others.
It is easy for married couples to cause each other much
emotional pain by insulting one another. Even
if two people disagree or are disappointed with each other, they should
still speak to each other with respect.
Anger does not give you permission to violate the
prohibition against Ono’as Devorim.
Humor at someone else’s expense is Ono’as Devorim.
Accepting other people and their differences is one of
the keys to observing this Mitzvah.
When you have internalized the awareness that people are
created BeTzelem Elokim--in the image of Hashem--you will experience
great respect for each person you encounter.
When you communicate with others, be aware of your goal.
Most insults and derogatory
comments are counterproductive and will not help you achieve your goal.
The more difficult it is to refrain from insulting
someone, the greater the reward.
Whenever you refrain from saying anything that would be
Ono’as Devorim, feel the joy of fulfilling a Mitzvah.
You are what you say. By
transgressing the laws of Ono’as Devorim you are lowering your own
Any time that someone hurts your feelings in some way,
view it as a learning experience to teach yourself to be more sensitive
to causing others distress with words.
Imagine standing before Hashem after 120 years and being
confronted with all of your Ono’as Devorim statements.
“It’s your fault for taking offense.” If
someone will feel pain because of what you say, you have an obligation
to avoid saying it and you cannot blame the other person for feeling
“I hope that this doesn’t offend you, but…” Starting
off with this statement does not render your Ono’as Devorim
When you want to influence someone to do something,
always try to motivate him with an approach that will be based on his
needs, wants, and personality.
There are many statements that if said with a smile will
not cause a person distress--even though they might if a person were to
say the words with a serious expression on his face.
There are always ways of disagreeing with someone that
show a basic respect for him even though you disagree with what he said.
The laws of Ono’as Devorim apply even to parents when
they speak to their children.
The laws of Ono’as Devorim apply even to small
children. Insulting a young
child or frightening him as a joke is forbidden.
If someone is angry, it is an act of kindness to calm
him down. Be careful not to
say things that would be Ono’as Devorim to someone who is presently
When you speak to a stranger, you might not be aware of
his particular sensitivities and therefore might cause him pain
unintentionally. Note the
facial reactions of the people you speak to.
When you see someone insulting another person, have the
courage to say something to stop him.
Be willing to make a public commitment to your family
and friends that you will be careful with Ono’as Devorim.
Statements that can easily be Ono’as Devorim:
Lashon Hora about you”
you married yet?”
have asked me”
“Talk it into
“I see that
you are nervous”
“I never do
As we all know,
the Parsha is reminding us of this Mitzvah this particular week, at this
particular point, and evenat
this particular juncture in our lives [this is what Hashgacha all about],
because it is something for each and every one of us to work on in his own
particular way. Let us each meet
the challenge--and fulfill this great Mitzvah in a way that brings us a
wonderful Nachas Ruach--which will bring along with it Nachas Ruach to
others…and, in a magnificent way, to our Creator as well!
Special Note One:The following is excerpted from the sefer Let My Nation Serve Me
by Rabbi Yosef Deutsch, Shlita, (Artscroll) a wonderful work which provides
both depth and feeling to the events in the Midbar leading up to Mattan
Torah, and to Mattan Torah itself, as culled from Chazal in the Medrash and
Gemara, and from the Rishonim. It
is highly recommended for all in proper preparation for Shavuos. Rabbi
Deutsch writes as follows:
“There is a special significance to the
Torah being given in the month of Sivan. The
astrological sign for Sivan is Gemini, twins. The
gentile nations would one day have to give an accounting for their rejection
of the Torah when Hashem offered it to them, and Hashem wanted to anticipate
the arguments they would offer in their own defense and refute them from the
very beginning. He knew that the
gentile nations would say that they thought that the Torah did not relate to
them. It was designed for the Jewish nation, a nation with which they has no
kinship or connection.
“Therefore, Hashem chose to give the
Torah in the month of Sivan, a month characterized by the sign of twins, as
if to say, “The Jewish people are not, from their origin, a nation apart. They
are descended from Yaakov, who had a twin brother Eisav, and the gentile
nations, at least those descended from Eisav, cannot claim that the Torah is
not destined for them.
“The sign of twins is also especially
propitious for the Giving of the Torah. Hashem
did not want to give it in Nissan, whose sign is Aries, the sheep, because
the Egyptians worshipped sheep. He
did not give want to give the Torah during Iyar, whose sign is Taurus, the
bull, because the Jewish people would worship the Golden Calf, a young bull.
Hashem did not want an
everlasting association between the idol and the Torah. Therefore,
he chose to wait until Sivan, whose sign is the twins, a symbol of fraternal
love and solidarity. These are
virtues that qualified the Jewish people to receive the Torah.
“There is also a special symbolism in
the Torah being given on the sixth of Sivan rather than any other day of the
month. The original creation of
mankind took place on the sixth day of Creation. The
Giving of the Torah would be the act of national creation for the Jewish
people, and therefore it, too, was to take place on the sixth day. Furthermore,
that year, 6 Sivan fell on a Shabbos, which was also significant. Just
as Shabbos provided the spiritual protection of the newly-created Adam, so
did the Shabbos on which the Torah was given provide the spiritual
protection for the newly created Jewish nation.”
These thoughts help us focus on the
profundity of Mattan Torah. When
one has an audience with the King, he prepares well in advance for the
occasion. Unlike other audiences, where the commoner gives the King a gift,
on Shavuos, Hashem will be giving us a remarkable, life-giving and
life-sustaining, infinite and irreplaceable gift. We
would do well to begin preparing for this incredible event--at least by
studying about it from a beautiful sefer such as this--or from the original
Special Note Two: In
the Sefer Praying With Fire 2, Rabbi Heshy Kleinman, Shlita, provides
“14 Strategies to Getting Your Prayers Accepted”. One
of the first special strategies is not utilized by many simply because they
never learned or focused on it. Rabbi
Kleinman gives us the opportunity. We
provide his teaching in quick summary:
The Shulchan Aruch rules: When
one proceeds to pray [Shemone Esrei], if he is standing outside of Eretz
Yisroel, he should turn to face toward the direction of Eretz Yisroel and
endeavor to face towards Yerushalayim, the Bais HaMikdash, and the Kodesh
HaKodoshim. The Mishne Berurah
[ibid., seif katan 3, 4 and 7] explains that beyond physically facing in the
actual direction, a person should imagine vividly that he is privileged to
be standing **in the Bais HaMikdash, in the Kodesh HaKadoshim--in front of
the Aron itself.** The imagery
here is actual--for all of our Tefillos, in fact, ascend to Shomayim through
this very spot (ibid., seif katan 2).
Rabbi Kleinman continues:
HaRav Mattisyahu Salamon, Shlita, sheds
revealing light on the import of this imagery. When
one envisions the experience of praying within the world’s epicenter of
holiness, he can enter into a true state of awe. HaRav
Salamon forcefully writes, “People run after many segulos [to attempt to
have their prayers accepted in Heaven]…yet here we have a clear segulah
with verses [see Melachim I, 8:44 and 9:3] backing it up with a promise
…how much people lose out because they do not follow this rule? Why must
one seek far-out suggestions when he has this handy suggestion…In this way
prayers are answered.”
Rabbi Kleinman concludes:
“The power of facing east derives not
only from where one’s body is situated, but from where one places his mind
and heart. If it is in the place
of utmost holiness, where Hashem’s Presence literally saturates the air,
then he is perfectly oriented for prayer that, as promised, will be
Hakhel Note: The Sefer Praying with
Fire 2 is a treasure house of essential lessons, guidance and teachings.
A new cycle of daily study (the
Sefer is divided into daily portions) is beginning in less than two weeks,
on Rosh Chodesh Sivan--and will conclude 118 days later in time for Rosh
Hashanah. We urge all our
readers to gain and grow tremendously by starting the program on Rosh
Chodesh. The Sefer may be
purchased in your local seforim store or online through Artscroll.
In the meantime…take the strategy
presented here to heart--and put yourself in the right place--every morning,
afternoon and evening as you are about to begin Shemone Esrei. May
your tefillos then be answered among and together with those of all of
Correction--Last week, we noted that the
Mann began to fall on the fifteenth of Iyar. In
fact, the supply of Matzah that Bnai Yisroel brought with them from
Mitzrayim was depleted on the fifteenth of Iyar--and the Mann began falling
the next morning, on the sixteenth of Iyar. Thus,
not one day went by with the Bnai Yisroel in need of sustenance--and each
person received what he needed, and what he deserved, in the course of
fulfilling his tachlis in this world. The
same is, of course, true today, except that Hashem’s presence is more
BeNistar, hidden from our everyday view, and, accordingly, the essence of
our sustenance coming from Hashem is concealed from the average onlooker as
Chazal (Sotah 48B) teach that “one who
has bread in his basket and worries what he will eat tomorrow is a person of
little faith.” This is
typically understood to mean that one should not worry about his gashmiyus
needs of tomorrow, and instead rely that Hashem will provide for him. However,
Rabbi Zev Leff, Shlita, brings a different and remarkable teaching from the
Kotzker Rebbe here. The Kotzker
explains that the “little faith” of the person that we are referring to
here is not evidenced by his uncertainty as to tomorrow. Rather,
his “little faith” is reflected in this man’s certainty of today! By
worrying only about tomorrow, he shows that he puts his trust not in Hashem,
but in the presence of the bread in the basket!
Every person must realize that **his own
personal**daily needs are incredibly and incredulously taken care of by
Hashem--and Hashem alone. We
verbalize exactly this with the words recited three times daily in
Ashrei--“Posayach Es Yodecha…You open Your Hand, and satisfy the desire
of every living thing.” The
Mishne Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 51, seif katan 15) writes that
the “ikar” reason that we recite the entire Ashrei is because of this
Pasuk it contains--a statement of our manifest acknowledgement that Hashem
watches over the needs of, and sustains, each and every single one of
us--including the reciter (personalize it!). Thus,
the Shulchan Aruch (ibid. 51:7) rules that if one does not have this
Kavannah when reciting this Pasuk in Ashrei, he must recite the Pasuk over
again.The Yesod V’Shoresh
HaAvodah advances us another step and teaches that not only should one have
Kavannah for the meaning and import of the words, but one should experience
true joy and elation over the fact that it is Hashem Himself--the Omnipotent
and Omniscient One--Who is actually taking care of him.
We all know that the second Parsha of
Shema, beginning with the words “VeHaya Im Shomoa” is written in the
plural, in stark contrast to the first Parsha of Shema, which is written in
the singular.Yet, Rabbi Refoel
Shain, Shlita, shows that within this second “plural” Parsha the words
“VeNosati Esev BeSodecha …VeOsafta Degonecha… and you shall gather in
your grain…and you will eat and be satisfied” are nevertheless written
in the singular, teaching us that everyone’s individual Parnassah remains
under Hashem’s personal supervision, and that his monetary situation is
not the product of a general economic downturn or other sociological or
“ism”-like factors, but the result of Hashem’s personal and direct
supervision over him individually. The
more one realizes the Source of his individual, immediate daily
sustenance--including the bread already in the basket--the more that one
genuinely feels that Divine supervision, and prays to Hashem to bless him
with his needs in Shemone Esrei and throughout the day, the closer he will
be to achieving real success--both physical and spiritual--and true meaning
and fulfillment in life!
Special Note One: The
following story is excerpted from HaRav Schach--Conversations (Feldheim,
p.234), and has an extremely important and moving lesson for us all:
“In Rav Schach’s younger years he was
a heavy smoker. He even used to
say that he cannot stand being without a cigarette, and that he doesn’t
understand how a person can devise chiddushim without a cigarette, for the
smoking helps one concentrate and focus on the depths of Talmudic
discussions. This is how he
conducted himself for many years, until he once had to undergo a serious
operation, and his doctor instructed him to stop smoking during his
recuperation period. After
recuperating, he asked the doctor if he could start smoking again, and the
doctor answered, ‘If you have already stopped smoking, it would be better
for you not to begin again.’ (This
was before it was known how injurious smoking was to one’s health). Rav
Schach’s reaction was ‘If smoking is dangerous for my health, even
slightly, I will stop completely.’ He
took the pack of cigarettes that had been waiting for months on top of his
dresser, and threw it away immediately and forcefully. Long
afterwards, he recalled that from the moment he made the decision to stop
smoking he instantly ceased to feel any need to smoke, and he did not miss
it at all. He often recounted
this incident to members of his family and students as a demonstration of
the fact that ‘nothing can stand in the way of a man’s will.’ Making
a decision itself may be difficult, but when one decides with full
conviction to change a habit, it is possible to stick to a decision.”
Hakhel Note: Can
we try to emulate Rav Schach in at least one respect?! In
this regard, we will most certainly be in the best of company after 120
years…and for eternity thereafter!
Special Note Two: In
this week’s Parsha, we find that a Pasuk relating to Tzedaka is suddenly
placed among the Pesukim describing our Holidays, our Moadim, “When you
reap the harvest of your land, you shall not remove completely the corners
of your field; as you reap and you shall not gather the gleanings of your
harvest, for the poor and the proselyte shall you leave them, I am
Hashem…” (Vayikra 23:22). Chazal
cited by Rashi (ibid.) teach that this Pasuk juxtaposed among the Pesukim
describing the Moadim, teaches us that anyone who gives proper charity is
considered as if the Bais HaMikdash was built in his time, and he offered
Karbanos there, as so much of the Moadim relate to the Bais HaMikdash, our
coming there, and offering of sacrifices.
Shavuos is now only three weeks away. Since
it is one of the Shalosh Regalim, it is a time that we travel to the Bais
HaMikdash. It would appear that
it is an extremely auspicious time for us to demonstrate how we desire to
have the Bais HaMikdash back and bring karbanos as soon as possible.A superb way to demonstrate that desire is by taking the time now to
give something extra, a special gift, now to Tzedaka in order to fulfill the
words of our Chazal--and bring Karbanos in the Bais HaMikdash that you have
built for yourself--while waiting!
Special Note One:In this week’s Parsha, Emor, we find the distinctive Mitzvah of
“Vekeedashto”…and you shall sanctify the Kohen by treating him with a
higher level of dignity and respect (Vayikra 21:8). The
Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 269) writes that this Mitzvah D’Oraysa
applies at all times (not only when the Bais HaMikdash is standing), and
furthermore that the Mitzvah applies equally to both men and women. The
Aruch HaShulchan (Orach Chayim 128:72) writes that there are opinions to be
lenient in the Mitzvas Aseh of VeKeedashto today because our Kohanim may not
have clear “yichussei Kehuna” (evidence of lineage), but rejects this
opinion with the strong words “VeCholila Lomar Kain U’Lehatil Dofi
BeKedushas Kohanim--Heaven Forbid to say this and to cast aspersions on the
holiness of our Kohanim!” Accordingly,
we provide below some important points relating to this Mitzvah, which apply
in our everyday life:
The Rema (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 228) writes that
it is“Assur LeHishtamesh
BeKohen”--it is forbidden to use a Kohen to perform tasks and services
on one’s behalf, even in our days, and if one does so it is like being
“Moel beHekdesh”--it is as if one is violating something that is
The Poskim discuss whether the Mitzvah upon us of
VeKeedashto applies to Kohanim who are ba’alei moom (possess blemishes
which would render them unfit to serve in the Bais HaMikdash), or to
Kohanim who are still under the age of Bar Mitzvah, since both of whom
could, in fact, eat Kodshim (the Karbonos in the Bais HaMikdash), even
though they cannot actually serve. The
Piskei Teshuvos (I:128:94) writes that, because it is a Machlokes among
the Poskim and it is a Sofek D’Oraysa, we should be machmir, and treat
both a Kohen who is physically disqualified from serving because of a
moom, and a Kohen under Bar Mitzvah, with the dignity and respect
of VeKeedashto, where it is possible.
Examples of VeKeedashto in specific positive areas
include having the Kohen go first--not only in Aliyos to the Torah, but
also in making Kiddush for everyone, making the HaMotzi for everyone,
leading the Bentching, being Motzi the Rabim with a Mitzvah, speaking
first at any gathering, being the Shaliach Tzibbur and in taking first
portions at a seudah. See
Shulchan Aruch Orach Chayim 167:14 and the Mishne Berurah and
commentaries there for further detail if a Talmid Chacham is present.One should consult with his Rav or Posek if in doubt as to any
The Poskim discuss whether a Kohen has the right to
waive VeKeedashto as to himself. The
Mishne Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 128, seif katan 175) rules
that a Kohen does have the right to waive your VeKeedashto of him and
perform tasks or services for you, but lechatchila only if he benefits
from it by payment or in some other way. In
no event, however, writes the Mishne Berurah (ibid.) may one have a
Kohen perform “sheirus bezuyos--embarrassing or demeaning tasks on
May one Kohen perform tasks for another Kohen? The
Bi’ur Halacha d’h’Assur writes that “Efsher SheMuttar--perhaps
it is permissible”, and the Aruch HaShulchan writes that it is
“Tzarich Iyun LeDina”--unclear, requiring further investigation. Interestingly,
however, family members who are not Kohanim, and spouses of Kohanim (!),
would still have the Mitzvah of VeKeedashto apply to them.
The Sefer Chofetz Chaim (Aseh 9) writes that if one
speaks Lashon Hora against a Kohen who is in front of him, thereby
offending him, he has violated the Mitzvas Aseh of VeKeedashto.
If a Kohen is married to someone that is forbidden to
him according to Halacha, or is metamei lemeisim, defiles himself with
tumah, the mitzvah of VeKeedashto does not apply. However,
if the Kohen is a ba’al aveira in other areas, there is a Machlokes
HaPoskim as to whether the heightened respect for his status as a Kohen
would still apply. See Piskei
The Chinuch writes that the reason for this special
Mitzvah is to give honor to Hashem who chose the Kohanim to serve Him in
very special ways…”for when one honors the King’s officers, he
honors the King.” Accordingly,
the Chinuch continues, whenever we honor the Kohanim, we should have in
mind that we are honoring Hashem.In
this zechus, the Chinuch concludes, Hashem will bring His brachos and
goodness upon us, as He so much wants to do.
Two Related Notes:
The Mishne Berurah (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 201,
seif katan 13) writes that one should give preference to a Levi over a
Yisroel of equal stature in respect of Bircas HaMotzi, Bentching and
An important point relating to Bircas Hakohanim--the
Bi’ur Halacha (at the outset of Orach Chayim 128) brings the ruling
of the Sefer Chareidim, when a Yisroel stands in front of the Kohanim
with the Kavannah of receiving their bracha as Hashem commanded, the
Yisroel himself has a part in the Mitzvas Aseh of Bircas Kohanim!
Special Note Two:If one is in the middle of a “Bracha Arucha”--a long bracha,
i.e., a bracha which begins with Baruch Ata Hashem and ends with Baruch Ata
Hashem--he has the same Halachos as one who is in the middle of a Perek of
Kriyas Shema. This means that he
cannot generally answer Amen to someone else’s brachos, or have any other
interruption. He can only answer
to Amen Yehei Shemai Rabbah, Barchu, the two Pesukim of Kedusha, and certain
specified Amens. See Chayei Odom
for further details.
Special Note One: Three
more important points about the worldwide flu:
One reader advised that the source of the international
threat is one young boy, who apparently contracted the flu and passed it
on. The lesson, he
concluded, is the power of one person to change the world--even if he
thinks he is otherwise insignificant.
Hakhel Note: The
reader’s thought coincides with the dynamic message delivered by Rabi
Ephraim Wachsman, Shlita, at the outstanding Chofetz Chaim Heritage
Foundation dinner this past Sunday evening. Rabbi
Wachsman taught that every person--every single person--has a role to play
in world history. He cited the
teaching of the K’sav Sofer relating to Sefiras HaOmer--when the Torah
requires us to undertake “U’Sefartem Lochem”, the Torah is requiring
us to count ourselves--to make sure that our presence in this world makes a
different in whatever way that we can--whether it be in excelling in Ahavas
Yisroel and promoting it to others, Tefillah for the K’lal, Torah
Study--every person must fulfill their purpose in this world--which is a
grand one, because Hashem Himself placed you here! Rabbi
Wachsman continued that the definition of a Tzaddik is not a famous person,one who performs outstanding acts, or who is held in high regard by
all--but rather it is someone who is successful at his Nisyonos, at his
tests in life, and who reaches his potential. If
one person can bring flu to the world--one person can also bring yeshuos to
the world, as well--and that one person, very literally, could be you.
Another reader noted that the Mishne Berurah (Shulchan
Aruch, Orach Chayim 46, Seif Katan 14) brings from the Tur that in the
time of Dovid HaMelech 100 people were r’l passing away every day from
a mageifa, and in response, Dovid HaMelech instituted the recitation of
100 brachos a day. Our
reader therefore encouraged care in the recitation of 100 brachos a day.
We note that not all Poskim
rule that women and girls are obligated to recite 100 brachos a day. If
your Rav or Posek rules that women are not obligated in 100 brachos,
then may we suggest that they should try to recite the brachos made with
some higher level of Kavannah (such as realizing that Hashem is in front
of you as you recite the word “Ata.”).
Another reader questioned the need for taking any action
at this point, suggesting that several hundred or even several thousand
cases means that only a fraction of a percent of the world’s
population was truly affected. Of
course, everyone can discuss this matter with his own Rav or Posek. We
will respond to the reader’s comment with a thought which is
independently attributed to both the Chiddushei HaRim (the Gerrer Rebbe),
Z’tl, and to HaRav Leib Lopian, Z’tl. Both
of these Torah giants teach that the letters for the word “Nega”
(blemish or plague) and “Oneg” (enjoyment, delight) are the same,
Nun, Gimel and Aleph. How
can these very same letters have two diametrically opposed meanings? They
explain that in the word Oneg the first letter is an Ayin--an
eye--whereas in the word Nega, it is the last letter that is the Ayin. An
Ayin at the beginning brings Oneg—joy--because one has “looked
into” and considered the future, and has planned for and succeeded at
it. As Chazal teach: Aizehu
Chacham--HaRoeh es HaNolad--Who is wise--one who sees what is being
born. Likewise, Chochom
Ainov BeRosho--the wise man’s eyes are in his head--meaning that he
looks ahead to the future, and thinks about it in his head, planning for
it now. On the other hand,
one who puts his Ayin at the end of the word, can, chas veshalom, end up
with Nega, a blemish or affliction. It
is for this reason that we have provided the Tefillah improvement
suggestions, the special Tefillos, Yehei Shemei Rabbah advice, and
today’s insights from readers. May
we be zoche to see yeshuos for ourselves and the world around us--and
may we have our own part in it!
Special Note Two: We can not leave the
Parsha of Kedoshim--and the Mitzvah of VeAhavta LeRayacha Komocha--without
the following two essential points regarding the all-encompassing nature of
this great Mitzvah:
Chaim Kanievsky, Shlita, teaches that one fulfills the Mitzvah not only with
friends and strangers, but with family members as well, including by showing
proper attitude and behavior to one’s own spouse--so start cashing in!
(See Kiddushin 41a).
Mitzvah can be fulfilled by thought alone in two different ways, (i)
spending time thinking about a Shidduch for someone, how to help an
individual in need of emotional or physical support, or on how to give
constructive criticism in a way which will have a real effect--and other
thoughts unique to the people and situations that you are aware of [after
all, Hashem made you aware of them, and it is for a reason]; and (b)
actually **feeling together** with the other person--feeling their pleasure
and pain, their dejection and their joy--with this you unite with your
fellow person--and he becomes Komocha--like you, as the Torah adjures. As
a starting point, you can try to develop this feeling with one person (who,
once again, can be a relative), and witness for yourself how your “I”
and “Me” has so beautifully grown!
The result of the first trial in
turned out perhaps almost as best as anyone could have expected. Only
Hashem knows how the Tefillos worldwide changed the result. Please
continue to daven for the bachur YOSEF benITA RIVKA to return to Eretz Yisroel safely, and for the two Bachurim
yet to be sentenced YOEL ZEV ben MIREL RISA CHAVA, and YAAKOV YOSEF ben
RAIZEL. Your Tehillim this very
minute could be the decisive Tefillah--and you should really believe it when
you recite it!
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Just as a Chassan demonstrates to a Kallah
before a wedding how much he really wants to marry her, we, too, must
demonstrate before our “Wedding Day” approaches how dear the Torah is to
us--and a good way to do that is by learning more and more of it!
Special Note Two:May is here! So, what
does that have to do with us? The
Sefer Ohaiv Yisroel by the Apter Rav (as brought in the Luach Dovor
B’Ito) writes that “We recite Pirkei Avos during the days of Sefira to
purify ourselves, and to return BeTeshuva Sheleima--and these days are
referred to by the nations of the world as ‘May’--for they also
recognize that these days are mesugalim for refuah, for healing. The
Gematria of ‘May’--Mem and Yud--adds up to 50, for these are the days in
which the soul is healed as we move towards Mattan Torah on the 50th
day (and in which likewise our bodies can be healed as well).”
Based upon this teaching, we see the
kindness Hashem has provided for us in the flu’s worldwide travel during
these days of healing. Last
week, we provided some Tefillah pointers to assist in our “what you can
do.” We are by no means
helpless, as we never are. For
those who have asked for a specific Nusach that one can recite not to become
ill, we refer you to the Tefillas
HaBori(found on the Resources
Section of our website).There
is also a well-known short Tefillah LeBrius of the Chidah, which many of you
already have. We add that the
classic Sefer Seder HaYom (which is the first known source for the text of
the Modeh Ani which we recite upon awakening in the morning) writes that
“One should recite Asher Yotzar word for word with Kavannah…” as this
will greatly assist a person in avoiding the need for doctors and
medications.Finally, for the
men who are in shul, we remind them that Chazal teach “All who answer
‘Amen Yehei Shemei Rabbah Mevorach’ with Kavannah and strength (with
feeling, and not just an expression of words) will have a Gezar Din against
him torn up.”This
“segula’ is brought lehalacha by the Mishne Berurah in Shulchan Aruch,
Orach Chayim 56, Seif Katan 1. We
refer you to the Kavannas Amen Yehei Shmei Rabbah in the following links-- here
in English and here
in Hebrew, provided by Rabbi Mayer Birnbaum, Shlita.
Special Note Three: Today
in Sefiras HaOmer is Netzach SheBeNetzach (Eternity within Eternity). We
cannot pass this unique day by without a thought on the effect it can have
on our lives on a going-forward basis. Accordingly,
we provide the following suggested “Action Points” for this day culled
from the SeferSefiros we
referred to last week, by Rabbi Yaakov Haber, Shlita. The
Sefer should be available in your local Seforim Store:
Odom LaMakom--Accept upon yourself to try to spend at least one minute every
day talking to Hashem.
Odom LeChaveiro--Make a permanent change in the way you deal with others. For
example, if you find that you “approximate” in business (to the
detriment of others), accept upon yourself a commitment to [at least] be
Odom LeAtzmo--Be someone that others can count on. Make
sure that you are always dependable. Remember
that people rely upon you.
May this day truly be a day of Netzach
SheBeNetzach--and through our very own action, we can make it so!!
Special Note One:
We asked HaRav Yisroel Belsky, Shlita, whether one should recite Ma
Tovu not only when he enters Shul in the morning, but every time he enters a
Shul--such as for Mincha and Ma’ariv. He
responded that one need only recite Ma Tovu once in the morning. However,
one should in all events appreciate the Kedushas Bais HaKenesses every time
he enters. HaRav Meir Schuck,
Z’tl, would, for instance, stop at the entrance of the Shul and reflect
for a moment on the sanctum he was about to enter, sometimes raising his
hand a bit in recognition of the awe of the event. Additionally,
the two Mitzvos Aseh which one is Mekabel upon himself every morning before
davening--the Mitzvas Aseh of VeAhavta LeRayacha Komocha (joining his
Tefillah together with all of K’lal Yisroel) and U’Mikdashi Tira’u
(our Shuls are actually referred to in the Navi as a Mikdash Me’at!)--both
of which Mitzvos are in this week’s Parsha--also apply before Mincha and
Ma’ariv as well, and one would do well to expressly proclaim “Hareini
Mekabel Alai Mitzvas Aseh Shel…” before each Tefillah!
Special Note Two: We
continue our Erev Shabbos--Hilchos Shabbos series, with rulings from HaShabbos
BeTifarta by Rav Avrohom Adas, Shlita of Yerushalayim (Hebrew, and
may not rip a thin plastic table cloth from a roll--even if it is not on the
perforation, because you have in all events prepared it for use (Koraya).
may not utilize a one-time use bib by punching out the plastic of the head
may not separate a new pair of socks attached by a string, or remove price
tags or cleaners tags which are sewn or stapled into clothing (Koraya). However,
if they are merely hung from a plastic string, one can remove the tag,
because it is not attached tightly, and its removal does not affect the
clothing in the same way as something stapled or sewn, which is considered
more intrinsically part of the clothing.
may remove a Sefer that is tightly squeezed in a Seforim shrank, even though
it is stuck to its adjoining Seforim--and one can put it back after use,
even though it will again become stuck to its adjoining Seforim (it is
clearly not one’s intent to attach or detach the Seforim).
a silver polish was left on a Kiddush cup, it should not be rinsed off (Memachek).
Eliayhu Lopian, Z’tl, reported that once, while davening before the Amud
on Shabbos in Kelm, he put special emphasis and feeling into the words
“VeTaher Leebainu--Hashem purify our hearts.” After
davening, HaRav Hirsch Broyde, Z’tl, advised him that one should put even
more emphasis on the second half of the phrase--“Le’Avdecha Be’Emmes--to
serve Hashem with truth!”
Special Note Three:In this week’s Parsha of Kedoshim we find the fundamental
prohibition against Loshon Hora, as the Torah adjures “Lo Selech Rochil
BeAmecha--Do not be a gossiper among your people.” (Vayikra 19:16)The Sefer Sparks of Mussar relates the following incident with
HaRav Naftoli Amsterdam, Z’tl, a great student of Rebbe Yisroel Salanter,
Z’tl, who served as a Rav and Posek in various cities, including
“A Jew once came before him, asking him
for ‘the permission of one hundred Rabbis’ necessary to take a second
wife without divorcing the first. In
the course of talking, the man spoke badly of his wife. R’
Naftoli interrupted him and asked: “Have you already received the
permission of a hundred rabbis to violate the prohibition of Lashon Hora?”
Hakhel Note: There
is a great lesson for us all here--there are many cases when you certainly
may feel that Lashon Hora is warranted or justified--and that others will
“expect you” to speak Lashon Hora--before falling into the trap--make
sure that you have the heter of at least one Rabbi to relate it! The
phone number of the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation Shemiras HaLashon
Shaila Hotline is 718-951-3696, and Poskim are available
time to answer both the easy--and the difficult--real life Shemiras HaLashon
questions that you may have.